Episode #40
We all come up against them - negative emotions, connotations, reactions and more. But what do they really mean if we break them all down? Jealousy and the 'comparing' we come up against so often in life and business can be detrimental if we allow it to be where we operate from too often. In this episode we journey through breaking down where our feelings and thoughts stem from in addition to thinking about them in fresh new ways.
Summary: Understanding and Redirecting Negative Emotions Megan discussed the concept of jealousy, explaining that it's a feeling that arises when someone else's success or advantage provokes resentment. They expressed their personal discomfort with jealousy, stating that it doesn't have a significant effect on their life as it serves no purpose unless used as a tool for self-reflection. They also emphasized that someone else's success doesn't detract from one's own experiences. Megan suggested redirecting the energy spent on jealousy towards understanding the root of the feeling, desiring the thing one is jealous of, and possibly changing the situation if needed.
Self-Reflection and Growth Struggles
Megan expressed their struggles with feelings of confusion and overwhelm towards achieving their goals. They shared their strategy of self-reflection, questioning negative thoughts, and using them as motivation. Megan highlighted the importance of making the most of situations, particularly those within our control, and the ability to influence our reactions to external circumstances. They stressed the importance of self-awareness, understanding one's triggers, such as feelings of jealousy or inadequacy, and communicating these emotions openly with others. Megan also emphasized avoiding blame and excuses, and instead focusing on personal growth and understanding.
Clarity, Trust, and Self-Trust in Life and Relationships
Megan emphasized the importance of clarity, trust, and self-trust in various aspects of life. They explained that these elements help in understanding one's thoughts, building relationships, and navigating personal and professional goals. Megan highlighted the role of mindfulness, effective communication, and self-awareness in achieving a balanced life. They also stressed the importance of gratitude and celebration to overcome feelings of jealousy or inadequacy in comparison to others' successes.
Jealousy, Grudges, and Social Media Influence
Megan discussed the harmful effects of jealousy and grudges, proposing the cultivation of a positive mindset towards others' success. They emphasized the prevalence of these negative emotions, particularly in the context of social media, and their potential impact on one's mental health. They encouraged self-awareness, effective communication, and trust in oneself when consuming influencers' content. Megan emphasized the importance of trusting oneself, allowing change, and adapting to different situations. They concluded the discussion by reminding listeners of their worth and encouraging them to be bold and present in the world.
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