Some conversations don’t just offer insight—they offer invitation. To pause. To reflect. To come home to yourself in a new way.

This is one of those conversations.

In this episode of The Activate Change Podcast, I (Chloë) sit down with Berwick Mahdi Davenport—also known as Brother M—human development strategist, coach of coaches, father, and creator of the Ego Reduction Formula. Mahdi brings 30+ years of wisdom into this space, and I can honestly say: I’ve never heard someone speak about inner work, difference, and collective healing quite like this.

From the very first question—“Who was little Mahdi?”—we were in it. Tender. Honest. Transformational.

We explore:
✨ The deep inner child work that cracked Mahdi open
✨ Why the shift from fighting racism to building human solidarity changed everything
✨ A powerful story about his daughter that reshaped how he leads, listens, and loves
✨ What it really means to be 100% on your own side
✨ Why embracing your difference might just be your greatest act of service

This episode is an invitation to stop performing wholeness—and start living it. Not by being perfect, but by being radically honest with yourself and fiercely committed to your own becoming.

You may laugh. You may cry. You may find yourself breathing a little deeper by the end.

Be sure to check out Mahdi’s upcoming book The War Against Different and his coaching program, Different in 90 Days.

Here’s a little bit more about Brother M:

Berwick Mahdi Davenport, known as “Brother M,” is a human development strategist and facilitator with over 30 years of experience. A pioneer in life coaching, he mentors and trains coaches, guiding thousands of leaders worldwide. As the creator of the Ego Reduction Formula, he bridges social and spiritual consciousness, helping leaders cultivate authenticity for greater impact. Mahdi is a celebrated author and a devoted father of three daughters.

He is also CEO, Co-Founder of the Human Solidarity Project. CLICK HERE to learn more.

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In this episode, Gabrielli has a session with Sharon, a seasoned energy healer and fierce-hearted mother navigating the tender terrain of family entanglement and ancestral patterning. Raised in a web of triangulation and emotional loyalty, Sharon explores what it means to reclaim her freedom without abandoning her people—or herself. Listen as she disentangles from the role of scapegoat, sheds the inherited contracts of silence and self-sacrifice, and reorients toward a life where her power, presence, and truth are no longer up for negotiation.

Sharon has known and worked with Gabrielli for many years and is trained in The LaChiara Method.

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In this episode, Gabrielli has a session with Evyan, a sensitive, deeply loving mother navigating the unraveling of an old identity — the one who rescues, saves, feels, and fixes for everyone else. Raised in an alcoholic family where her body became the emotional alert system, Evyan explores what it means to let go of rescuing as a way of being. Listen as she reconnects with her own innocence, releases the old mission, and remembers that her presence is enough.

This is Evyan's first session with Gabrielli and she is completely new to The LaChiara Method.

And make sure to listen through to the end where Chloë shares some reflections on the save/rescue identity and offers ways to start working with it differently, with more compassion and choice.

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Some conversations don’t just shift your perspective—they rearrange you. This is one of them.

In this episode of The Activate Change Podcast, I (Chloë) sit down with Dr. Rae Johnson—one of the most brilliant minds in somatics and social justice, a leading voice in embodied activism, and one of my own beloved coaches and mentors. Rae has held me through some of the most pivotal moments of my life: caring for my father through terminal cancer, grieving his loss, stepping into my own power as a healer, teacher, and leader.

What I’ve come to realize is that this deep personal somatic work isn’t just personal—it’s political. And really important.

In this conversation, we dive into:
✨ How oppression lives inside our bodies—not just “out there” in the world
✨ Why mind-body disconnect isn’t accidental (hint: systems of power depend on it)
✨ The sneaky, internalized rules we follow without even realizing it (hello, introjects)
✨ How embodiment isn’t just about feeling better—it’s about reclaiming what was stolen

Rae’s book, Embodied Activism, puts words to things you’ve felt your entire life but never had language for.

You’ll not leave this conversation the same and maybe a step closer to being even more yourself than you have in a long, long time.

A little bit more about Dr. Rae Johnson:

Rae Johnson, PhD, RSW, RSMT, BCC is a social worker, somatic movement therapist, and scholar/activist working at the intersections of embodiment and social justice. Rae’s approach to their work has been shaped by decades of frontline engagement with street youth, women in addiction recovery, psychiatric survivors, and members of the queer community. Since completing their doctoral studies at the University of Toronto, Rae has held academic positions in several somatic psychology programs, including at Naropa University and Pacifica Graduate Institute. They currently teach somatic psychology at the California Institute of Integral Studies and co-direct an online certificate program in embodied social justice.

Rae’s research on the everyday embodied experiences of oppression has been articulated in numerous publications, including their books Embodied Social Justice and Embodied Activism. Committed to making their research both accessible and impactful, Rae also designs and produces collaborative community performances that engage non-academic audiences in the issues that affect members of marginalized communities. Anchored in a form of embodied narrative ethnography called ‘body stories’, these performances are designed to elicit a visceral (not just intellectual) response to the material.

For more info on Dr. Rae Johnson, go to: https://raejohnsonsomatic.com/

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In this episode, Gabrielli has a session with Loren, who’s longing for a deeper, more fulfilling partnership after her divorce. Together, they explore how her parents' divorce shaped her childhood and influenced her own toxic marriage. As they uncover inherited stories and fears around love, Loren begins to release these old contracts, creating space to step into the conscious, mutually supportive partnership she truly desires.

Loren has had many sessions with Gabrielli in the past.

Toward the end of the episode, Chloë shares how we approach ancestral healing from the LaChiara Method perspective and offers a few ways to approach your ancestors in a safe and generative way in your own life.

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In this episode, Gabrielli has a session with Izzy, who explores their fear of intimacy and seeks deeper connections in both romantic and platonic relationships. Together, they uncover that their birth trauma has impacted them feeling safe in relationships, and they explore what it takes to lean into the vulnerability of having needs, desires, & deeper intimacy in their life.

Izzy has had many LaChiara Method Sessions in the past and is a certified LaChiara Method Radical Life Coach.

Toward the end of the episode, Chloë shares her personal struggles and insights on managing the complexities of relational dynamics, especially the challenge of balancing mutual needs. She also offers some thought-provoking questions designed to guide you further in your journey of navigating these dynamics in your own life and relationships.

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As we step into 2025, it seems the universe has not held back in presenting us with some serious chaos and turmoil.

From our conversations—echoing through friends, family, and clients—it is clear: a whole heck of a lot of us are navigating an unusually turbulent start to the year. In this country and around the world, a relentless cascade of events has unfolded, each adding to a tapestry of global heartbreak and chaos within these first short weeks of the year.

That is why we created this special episode for you - join us in this reflective pause, a sacred space where we gather to heal, empower, and transform, together weaving another strand of revolutionary love through the act of shared breath and meditation.

In this episode you’ll experience:

• Breathing Techniques: Learn to harness the power of breath to calm the mind and restore balance, resilience and a calmer nervous system.
• A Guided Meditation: Chloë guides you through a meditation that reminds us of our interconnectedness, the resource of our spiritual beings, and encourages a sense of unity and strength.
• Energy Clearing: An invitation to melt and dissolve any energies that aren't yours, helping you to feel more grounded and centered.

Stay tuned 'cause in just two weeks we will dive back into our regular programming on the podcast with a powerful episode about the delicate dance of vulnerability, needs, and intimacy in relationships.

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Welcome to a special holiday edition of the Activate Change Podcast!

To give you a treat amidst the hustle and bustle of the holiday season—we're shaking things up a bit. This is the 3rd in a 3-part series from our Reflect, Reset, Restore archives—a cherished online gathering we’ve hosted in the past.

We've handpicked some of our favorite sessions to provide you with a self-care respite and a much-needed boost for your nervous system.

It's so easy to get swept up in the end-of-year rush, balancing joyful (or maybe not so joyful) family reunions, work parties, and gatherings with friends—all while trying not to lose yourself in the chaos.

In this episode, we focus on transformative practices designed to calm your nervous system and help you tap into the natural capacity the body has to rest—even when it feels like a far off dream.

This episode features:

• A powerful and enlightening Transmission: Gabrielli is on the top of her game in this particular episode!! She shares deep insights to help you plug into your natural state of rest and help to connect to your body and spiritual being for even more resilience and energy. Perfect for when the holiday season feels like it's making you run a marathon you didn't sign up for!

• Breathing Techniques for an Instant Reset: When the holiday season feels like a whirlwind of tinsel and festivities, pulling you in every direction, let these simple yet astonishingly effective breathing techniques be your anchor. Quick, easy, and the only tool you need is the power of your breath. It's like finding a pause button in the chaos!

• Embodied Divinity Activation: Experience a transformative activation designed to help recharge your spiritual batteries to not only face the new year with deeper connection to your own divinity but also to help you feel more resourced in the present moment.

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