• 179. The Messy Middle: How to Not Quit When Things Get Hard and Uncomfortable (when you are creating a new habit or self-improvement)
    Nov 3 2024

    In today’s episode, I dive into what I call the "messy middle"—that challenging, often uncomfortable phase of growth and transformation. Whether it's setting boundaries or rewiring our thoughts, the messy middle is an unavoidable, sometimes frustrating stage. We talk through the steps to recognize and navigate this space without quitting, even when discomfort and self-judgment arise.

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    18 mins
  • 178. How to Get Your Time Back for YOU!
    Oct 27 2024

    In this episode, I dive into time management strategies tailored for busy professionals juggling careers, parenting, and personal growth. Based on my coaching experiences, I explore how to clarify priorities, analyze how you’re currently spending your time, and create space for what matters most to you. I share real-life examples and tools to help you break free from the “I don’t have time” mindset and make intentional choices to reclaim your schedule.

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    22 mins
  • 177. You matter too: Servant Leadership vs Martyrdom, What Are You Practicing?
    Oct 13 2024

    In this episode, I discuss the importance of recognizing your own value in the midst of serving others. Through personal stories and coaching insights, I explore the difference between being a servant leader and being a martyr, and why it's essential to set boundaries and care for yourself. If you often put others' needs before your own and struggle with feelings of guilt when you take time for yourself, this episode is for you.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Understanding the difference between servant leadership and martyrdom.

    • The importance of setting boundaries to protect your energy and well-being.

    • How to overcome the guilt of taking time for yourself.

    • Why giving to yourself allows you to give more generously to others.

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    You'll learn the exact 4 steps you need to take to be more effective and productive, happier and fulfilled, so that you get more done in less time, without stress and burnout, and have the freedom to do what you love.

    The Journey

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    Learn more and join my all inclusive coaching program, The Journey, where we take everything you've been learning and apply it to your life, so you start getting sustained results in your career, business and your life. The Journey is the only comprehensive coaching program for smart women that teaches you - in just 12 weeks - how to get more done, feel better, and live a life aligned with your purpose.

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    35 mins
  • 176. Redefining Your Relationship With Weakness
    Oct 6 2024

    In this episode, I explore the recurring theme of how we define weakness and how it often ties into our misunderstanding of femininity. I guide you through rethinking this mindset, showing how balancing the masculine (yang) and feminine (yin) energies brings more flow, peace, and creativity into our lives.

    What You’ll Learn:

    • How the words "weak" and "feminine" are often misunderstood and vilified.

    • The difference between masculine and feminine energies, and why we need both for balance.

    • Simple ways to bring the divine feminine into your daily life

    • How to recognize when you’re relying too much on masculine energy and how to shift into a more balanced, creative space.

    Ready to dive deeper? Tune into the full episode where we break down how embracing both the masculine and feminine energies can lead to more creativity, flow, and fulfillment in your life. Don't miss out—listen now!

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    You'll learn the exact 4 steps you need to take to be more effective and productive, happier and fulfilled, so that you get more done in less time, without stress and burnout, and have the freedom to do what you love.

    The Journey

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    Learn more and join my all inclusive coaching program, The Journey, where we take everything you've been learning and apply it to your life, so you start getting sustained results in your career, business and your life. The Journey is the only comprehensive coaching program for smart women that teaches you - in just 12 weeks - how to get more done, feel better, and live a life aligned with your purpose.

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    20 mins
  • 175. The Power of Ritual and how to incorporate them into your daily life
    Sep 29 2024

    In this episode, I dive deep into the concept of rituals, how they differ from habits, and why they're so important in our lives. I'll be sharing practical suggestions on how to start incorporating rituals into your daily routine and explaining the science behind them. We’ll explore how rituals protect your energy, help you feel grounded, and honor special occasions. By the end of the episode, you'll have actionable tips to create your own meaningful rituals.

    Key Takeaways:

    • The key difference between habits and rituals

    • How rituals can protect your sacred energy, ground you, and honor special moments in your life.

    • Morning and nighttime rituals that can transform your mindset and help set the tone for the day or prepare your mind for rest.

    • How rituals can help manage stress and regulate emotions in high-pressure situations.

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    You'll learn the exact 4 steps you need to take to be more effective and productive, happier and fulfilled, so that you get more done in less time, without stress and burnout, and have the freedom to do what you love.

    The Journey

    www.vanessacalderonmd.com/thejourney

    Learn more and join my all inclusive coaching program, The Journey, where we take everything you've been learning and apply it to your life, so you start getting sustained results in your career, business and your life. The Journey is the only comprehensive coaching program for smart women that teaches you - in just 12 weeks - how to get more done, feel better, and live a life aligned with your purpose.

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    28 mins
  • 174. The RAIN Pneumonic: How to process and be with difficult thoughts, feelings, and moments
    Sep 22 2024

    In this episode, I dive into the importance of allowing yourself to sit with your emotions and embrace the process. Plus, I introduce you to the RAIN technique by Dr. Tara Brach, which has been a game-changer for me in processing emotions and fostering self-compassion.

    What You'll Learn in This Episode:

    • How being present with your actions can shift your perspective on success.
    • Why reframing failure has been key to my growth as an entrepreneur.
    • The steps to using the RAIN technique to help you manage emotions in both business and personal life.
    • How to cultivate mindfulness and self-compassion for deeper fulfillment.

    Ready to learn how to be with your emotions and embrace the process more fully? Tune in to this episode now to hear the full conversation and start practicing RAIN in your own life.

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    You'll learn the exact 4 steps you need to take to be more effective and productive, happier and fulfilled, so that you get more done in less time, without stress and burnout, and have the freedom to do what you love.

    The Journey

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    Learn more and join my all inclusive coaching program, The Journey, where we take everything you've been learning and apply it to your life, so you start getting sustained results in your career, business and your life. The Journey is the only comprehensive coaching program for smart women that teaches you - in just 12 weeks - how to get more done, feel better, and live a life aligned with your purpose.

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    22 mins
  • 173. Invalidating Your Emotions: Why you do it, how it's effecting you and how to stop
    Sep 15 2024

    In this episode, we explore why we tend to invalidate our emotions. We discuss the psychological roots of emotional invalidation and the science behind the benefits of acknowledging and feeling our emotions. You'll also learn practical strategies for emotional validation and the risks of suppressing feelings.

    What You'll Learn:

    1. Common ways we unknowingly invalidate our emotions and why this happens.

    2. The psychological and cultural reasons behind emotional suppression.

    3. The importance of emotional validation for mental and physical health.

    4. Risks associated with suppressing emotions

    5. Actionable steps to start validating your emotions and improving emotional well-being.

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    You'll learn the exact 4 steps you need to take to be more effective and productive, happier and fulfilled, so that you get more done in less time, without stress and burnout, and have the freedom to do what you love.

    The Journey

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    Learn more and join my all inclusive coaching program, The Journey, where we take everything you've been learning and apply it to your life, so you start getting sustained results in your career, business and your life. The Journey is the only comprehensive coaching program for smart women that teaches you - in just 12 weeks - how to get more done, feel better, and live a life aligned with your purpose.

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    29 mins
  • 172. Reconnecting To Your Intuition: A Guide to Your Inner-Knowing
    Sep 8 2024

    In this episode, I take you on a journey to rediscover your intuition. We dive deep into what disconnects us from our inner knowing and how we can rebuild that connection. From personal stories to practical advice, I share insights on trusting yourself, overcoming fear, and creating space for intuition to thrive. This episode is all about empowering you to listen to your own inner voice, guiding you toward a more intentional and self-aligned life.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Your intuition is always present, waiting for you to tune in and listen.

    • Trusting your intuition leads to lower stress levels and a deeper sense of inner peace.

    • The difference between real and perceived threats and how to discern between them.

    • Simple, everyday ways to practice trusting your intuition and celebrate small wins.

    If you're ready to reconnect with your intuition and experience the peace and clarity that comes with trusting yourself, don't miss this episode! Tune in now and take the first steps toward reclaiming your inner knowing.

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    You'll learn the exact 4 steps you need to take to be more effective and productive, happier and fulfilled, so that you get more done in less time, without stress and burnout, and have the freedom to do what you love.

    The Journey

    www.vanessacalderonmd.com/thejourney

    Learn more and join my all inclusive coaching program, The Journey, where we take everything you've been learning and apply it to your life, so you start getting sustained results in your career, business and your life. The Journey is the only comprehensive coaching program for smart women that teaches you - in just 12 weeks - how to get more done, feel better, and live a life aligned with your purpose.

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    42 mins