• Episode 9 - Tied by Trauma: Breaking the Bond That Binds
    May 20 2025

    Have you ever found yourself loving someone who kept breaking you? Feeling trapped in a relationship that’s more about survival than support?
    This week’s episode of The Get Cha Life Series dives into the deep and complex reality of trauma bonding — what it is, how it forms, and why it’s so hard to leave.

    Join Galen J Byrnside, life coach, survivor, and CEO of dopeattire2inspire, LLC, as he unpacks the psychological roots of trauma bonds and shares his own personal journey through one. From emotional highs and manipulative apologies to finding the strength to walk away — this episode is a raw, unfiltered, and healing conversation for anyone who’s ever felt stuck in love that hurts.

    You’ll learn:

    • The science behind trauma bonding
    • Red flags and real-life signs
    • Why "just leaving" isn’t that simple
    • Steps to start breaking the bond and reclaiming your life


    💬 “You’re not crazy. You’re trauma bonded. But you can break free — and when you do, that’s when you start to get your life.”

    🎧 Listen now and tag someone who needs to hear this. Healing begins with awareness.
    #GetChaLifeSeries #TraumaBonding #BreakTheCycle #HealingJourney

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    6 mins
  • Episode 8 - Behind Closed Doors Understanding the Power and Control in Domestic Violence
    Oct 29 2024

    "In this episode of The Get Cha Life Series, host Galen J Byrnside dives deep into the complex and often unseen sides of domestic violence. We explore the Power and Control Wheel, a vital tool for understanding the different tactics used by abusers, from threats and intimidation to isolation and economic control. Galen also unpacks the six primary forms of abuse—physical, sexual, digital, emotional, financial, and mental—providing real-world examples to help listeners recognize these behaviors, whether they’re experiencing it, noticing it in a loved one, or may be unknowingly engaging in it themselves.

    This episode is both educational and empowering, shedding light on behaviors that often go unrecognized but have a profound impact. Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or seeking to better understand domestic violence, this episode will equip you with the insights to see beyond the surface and into the core dynamics of power and control in abusive relationships."

    Let’s come together to recognize, prevent, and ultimately break the cycle of abuse."

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    6 mins
  • Episode 7 - The Misconceptions of Marriage
    Jun 24 2024

    Marriage is not always a perfect fairytale, it takes work to maintain a successful partnership. Communication, compromise, teamwork, shared responsibilities, and mutual respect are key elements in a strong marriage. It's important to focus on the journey, not just trying to achieve a perfect destination, and to continuously strive to improve and strengthen the relationship. The fairy tale ideal of marriage, perpetuated by fairy tales, Hollywood movies, and social media, creates unrealistic expectations of effortless and conflict-free relationships. In reality, a successful marriage requires hard work, daily effort, compromise, and commitment. Partners must also navigate conflicts and disagreements through open and honest communication. Support, loyalty, trust, and mutual respect are crucial for building a strong and lasting bond.

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    14 mins
  • Episode 6 - Breaking the Chains One Man's Path to Freedom from Addiction
    May 27 2024

    Welcome to the Get Cha Life Series, where we delve into stories of resilience, hope, and transformation. I'm Galen, and today's episode is truly special as I'm joined by someone very close to my heart – my husband, Mark Byrnside.

    This episode is not just about sharing a story; it's about
    sharing a journey – a journey through addiction, struggle, and ultimately,
    triumph. Mark's story is one of courage, perseverance, and the power of
    redemption.

    In today's episode, we're going to take you on a deeply personal
    journey as Mark opens up about his battle with addiction, his relentless
    pursuit of sobriety, and the profound impact it has had on our lives.

    From the depths of despair to the heights of hope, this episode
    is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative
    power of love and support.

    So join us as we dive into Mark's story – a story of breaking
    free from the chains of addiction, finding strength in vulnerability, and
    embracing a life of sobriety.

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    1 hr
  • Episode 5 - Beyond Words: Navigating the Silent Struggles of Communication in Love
    Apr 8 2024

    This episode of the Get Your Life series delves into the importance of open, balanced communication in relationships. It explores the challenges and consequences of one-sided conversations, as well as strategies for bridging the communication gap and fostering healthier partnerships. The podcast encourages listeners to share their own experiences and questions relating to communication and relationships, and emphasizes the power of mutual respect, self-awareness, and active listening in building strong and fulfilling connections.

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    13 mins
  • Episode 4 - Rising Above the Echoes Transforming Workplace Negativity into a Symphony of Success
    Apr 1 2024

    In this episode, we discuss various challenges that individuals may face in the workplace, including feeling unappreciated, negative feedback, office politics, overwork, under appreciation, and lack of growth opportunities. We also touch on the impacts of poor communication, unsupportive management, workplace isolation, comparative discontent, and work-life imbalance. Some key takeaways include the understanding that these challenges can be seen as opportunities for growth and that life coaching can be beneficial in navigating them. These topics and more This podcast, titled "Get Your Life", focuses on topics such as love, mental health, and success. In this episode, titled "Rising Above the Echoes: Transforming Workplace Negativity into a Symphony of Success", the host explores common issues in the workplace, such as lack of recognition, negative feedback culture, office politics and gossip, overwork and underappreciation, and lack of growth opportunities.

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    24 mins
  • Episode 3 - Love & Growth: Navigating Relationships with Intention
    Mar 25 2024

    Love coaching can benefit the individuals, coaches and couples involved. Coaches can help clarify relationship goals and values, improve communication skills, identify and address relationship challenges, foster personal growth, and help keep the romance alive. Some practical tips for relationship growth include prioritizing communication, setting boundaries, expressing gratitude and appreciation. To take action in improving your relationship, reflect on your relationship, communicate openly, identify areas for growth, and celebrate progress. Remember, relationships are a journey of growth and discovery, so In this podcast episode, the host discusses the complexities of relationships and why continuous growth is essential for lasting love. He shares a personal anecdote about how the idea of the grass always being greener in another relationship is a misconception and overlooks important factors in a partnership. The importance of communication, understanding, and mutual respect in relationships is also discussed, as well as ways to identify areas for growth in a partnership.

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    30 mins
  • Episode 2: If Loving Yourself Is a Job, Are You Employed in Loving You?
    Mar 18 2024

    In this podcast episode, we explore the idea of loving yourself and its impact on spreading love to the world. This involves understanding self-love as a multifaceted concept that includes recognizing your worth, maintaining your integrity, prioritizing joy and peace, and nurturing your emotional and mental health. We also discuss the misconception of self-love being selfish and the importance of self-care as an expression of self-love. Additionally, we examine how embracing self-love can positively influence our relationships, energy This episode discusses the topic of self-love and how it is a dynamic and lifelong journey that involves recognizing one's worth, maintaining integrity, seeking joy and peace, and nurturing emotional and mental health. It also distinguishes self-love from selfishness and explores how the pursuit of self-love can have a positive impact on not just an individual's life, but also on the world.

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    24 mins
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