We hate to admit it, but many moms struggle with control.

If you've found yourself lying awake at night, replaying their choices, wondering if you should have said more, done more, or prayed harder, this conversation is for you. We’re talking about how to release control and trust God with your adult children.

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Feeling unsure, afraid, or stuck in the empty nest?

Author Laura Smith shares how biblical bravery can help you face midlife with faith, purpose, and courage. You’ll be encouraged to trust God and take your next brave step—right where you are.

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Free Chapter Brave Woman, Mighty God here

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169. From Pressure to Peace: 6 Ways Prayer Helps Christian Moms Stop People-Pleasing

Tired of walking on eggshells with your adult kids? In this episode, discover six ways prayer helps Christian moms break free from people-pleasing and find lasting peace. Learn how to set boundaries, surrender control, and please God above all.

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Marriage Simplified Guide here

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Hey Momma, are you always trying to keep the peace, say “yes” to everything, and avoid rocking the boat with your adult kids?

You’re not alone. We’re talking about people-pleasing: why we do it, how it drains us, and how it impacts our relationships with our grown kids. It’s time to release the pressure to please and start showing up as your whole, authentic self. You have God’s full approval—and that changes everything.

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Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

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If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed trying to keep everyone happy, you’re not alone.

Therapist Heather Bjur joins us as we tackle the challenging topic of people-pleasing. Let’s learn why we fall into it, how it affects our relationships, and how to break free. Heather shares practical advice on being emotionally honest with your kids and finding your voice.

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Christian Parenting's Moms, Dads & Grads Gift Guide here

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Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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When the relationship with your son or daughter-in-law is strained, it can feel like everything is fractured: your connection with your child, your role as a mom, even access to your grandkids.

Counselor Kathy Cunningham joins me for a powerful conversation about healing those deep relational wounds. She shares practical wisdom, biblical insight, and the very first step a mom should take when peace feels impossible.

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Free Guide: What I Wish I Knew Sooner About Parenting Adult Children here

Kathy's Course: Uncovered Grace here Discount Code: Grace10

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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Do you have a vision for the kind of mother-in-law you want to be?

By avoiding playing the victim and taking things personally, not overstepping boundaries, and not competing for your child’s loyalty, you can have a supportive, healthy relationship with your child’s spouse. Listen in for eight things NOT to do as a mother-in-law,

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Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

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You set the tone in your relationship with your child’s spouse. Be the first to extend love and grace.

Honoring and supporting their family unit without meddling will strengthen your relationship with your child’s mate.

HELPFUL LINKS:

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child(And 5 Ways to Stop Yourself from Saying Them here

Gift Guide for Moms, Dads, and Grads here

Free Discovery Session with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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Review + Rate podcast here

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Pamela's website with free resources here