• Ep. 8 || Being Grateful in Times of Adversity
    Nov 21 2024

    What if you could transform life's toughest moments into pivotal opportunities for growth? As we approach Thanksgiving, Team Beltramo challenges sports parents to reframe their perspective on trials and setbacks. This episode explores how adversities, often viewed as obstacles, can become powerful catalysts for personal growth and resilience. Join us on "The Sports Parent Experience" as we discuss practical ways to transform challenges into opportunities for development, both on and off the sports field.


    #SportsParenting #Gratitude #Adversity #GrowthMindset #ThanksgivingChallenge #TeamBeltramo #FamilyGrowth #TheSportsParentExperience #PersonalDevelopment #CompetitiveAthletes #EvenBetterHumans


    Chapter Markers:
    0:00 - Introduction: The Power of Getting Gritty in Sports
    0:27 - Welcome and Overview of Today's Challenge: Gratitude in Adversity
    0:47 - The Uncommon Gratitude: Appreciating Trials During Thanksgiving
    1:14 - Learning from Adversity: Transforming Challenges into Growth Opportunities
    2:11 - Growing Through vs. Going Through Adversity
    2:38 - Real-Life Stories of Overcoming and Growing from Sports Injuries
    3:08 - The Reality of Adversity and the Importance of Realistic Optimism
    3:56 - The Midnight Rule: Handling Immediate Reactions to Adversity
    4:09 - Encouragement for Proactive Growth Post-Adversity
    4:52 - Embracing Grit and Preparing for College Sports Amidst Challenges
    5:45 - Fostering Resilience at Home: Teaching Kids to Thrive Through Difficulties
    6:29 - The Long-Term Benefits of Embracing Adversity
    7:17 - The Role of Adversity in Refining Character, Illustrated by the Metaphor of Gold
    7:55 - Educational Opportunities Through Media: Learning from Hardship-Focused Films
    8:37 - The Short-Sightedness of Social Media and the Deep Lessons from Adversity
    9:27 - The Valuable Insights Gained from Adverse Experiences
    10:11 - Closing Thoughts: The Invaluable Lessons and Growth from Adversity
    10:32 - Invitation to Share: Spreading the Message of Growth Through Adversity

    *** The Sports Parent Experience Sign:
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    WEBSITE: https://www.TeamBeltramo.com

    Instead of asking "What if?" when challenges arise, we encourage you to think "What now?" and take actionable steps forward. Focusing on just 1% improvement each day can lead to meaningful progress and newfound appreciation for the lessons adversity teaches. Share this episode with someone who might be facing challenges and could use a fresh perspective on the hidden gifts of adversity.

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    11 mins
  • Ep. 7 || Take a Break and Miss a Practice!
    Nov 14 2024

    In this eye-opening episode of "The Sports Parent Experience," we go into the transformative approach of "This, Not That," challenging conventional sports parenting habits. Discover the profound benefits of stepping back from the constant buzz of sports activities to invest in personal growth and family relationships. Whether it's picking up a marriage book instead of watching a practice, or taking a moment for some much-needed self-care, this episode offers practical tips for becoming a more present and fulfilled parent and individual.

    Hashtags:
    #SportsParenting #SelfCare #FamilyGrowth #TheSportsParentExperience #PersonalDevelopment #TeamBeltramo #ParentingTips #CompetitiveAthletes #EvenBetterHumans

    Chapter Markers:
    0:00 - Introduction: The Concept of Running a Different Play in Sports Parenting
    0:42 - Welcome and Overview of "This, Not That" Approach
    1:18 - Encouragement for Sports Parents to Invest in Personal Time
    2:02 - Balancing Parental Presence at Games and Personal Well-being
    2:43 - Breaking the Monotony: Ideas for Parents During Sports Seasons
    3:18 - Radical Changes in Sports Parenting: Examples and Benefits
    3:55 - The Importance of Parental Leadership and Growth Outside of Sports
    4:33 - Practical Steps for Changing Sports Parenting Habits
    5:27 - Personal Anecdotes and Lessons Learned in Sports Parenting
    6:15 - Shifting the Parental Vibe: From Stressed to Rejuvenated
    6:57 - Empowering Kids by Changing Parental Attendance Patterns
    7:33 - Benefits of Stepping Back for Parental and Child Well-being
    7:55 - Embracing Life Beyond Sports: Building Sustainable Family Relationships
    8:22 - Team Beltramo’s Mission and Resources for Sports Parents
    8:43 - Rethinking Time Spent at Sports Events and Practices
    9:16 - Making the Most of Tournament Downtimes
    10:11 - Valuing Life Events Over Sports Commitments
    10:56 - Closing: Embrace a Balanced Life as a Sports Parent

    *** The Sports Parent Experience Sign:
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    WEBSITE: https://www.TeamBeltramo.com

    Join us for a conversation that redefines the sports parent role, emphasizing the importance of personal development. If you found this episode helpful, we would love if you would give us a rating and leave us a review so we can get this to sports parents across the country!

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    11 mins
  • Ep. 6 || When do I talk to the coach about my kids playing time?
    Nov 7 2024

    In this episode on "The Sports Parent Experience" with Team Beltramo, we discuss a sensitive topic for many sports parents: If and when to approach your son or daughter's coach about playing time. Discover why stepping back might be in your child's best interest, learn strategies to empower your athlete, and hear firsthand experiences from both coaches and parents. This conversation aims to shift the focus from parental intervention to fostering independence and resilience in young athletes.

    Hashtags:
    #SportsParenting #PlayingTime #YouthSports #Coaching #Teamwork #ParentingTips #AthleticDevelopment #Sportsmanship #TheSportsParentExperience #CompetitiveAthletes #EvenBetterHumans #TeamBeltramo

    Chapter Markers:
    0:00 - Introduction: Impact of Parental Involvement in Sports
    0:31 - Overview of Today’s Topic: Speaking to Coaches About Playing Time
    1:04 - Why You Should Rethink Approaching the Coach
    1:19 - Understanding Playing Time Dynamics
    2:03 - The Golden Rule: Never Discuss Playing Time
    2:37 - Empowering Your Child to Address Playing Time
    3:15 - Perspectives on Player Respect and Team Dynamics
    4:11 - The Downside of Parental Interference
    4:58 - Long-term Effects of Rescuing Your Child
    5:44 - Alternatives to Speaking with the Coach About Playing Time
    6:18 - Encouraging Direct Athlete to Coach Communication
    7:05 - Reframing the Conversation from Playing Time to Player Improvement
    8:45 - Importance of Effort and Self-Awareness in Sports
    9:06 - Reminder: Sports Parenting Isn’t About You
    9:28 - Closing Remarks and Invitation to Engage with Team Beltramo

    *** The Sports Parent Experience Sign:
    Kevin White - Custom Handcrafted Woodwork @kwwoodworking

    WEBSITE: https://www.TeamBeltramo.com

    As we aim to nurture both competitive athletes and even better humans, we invite you to rethink the role of parents in sports and champion your athlete's independent growth and development. If you found this episode helpful, we would love if you would give us a rating and leave us a review so we can get this to sports parents across the country!

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    10 mins
  • Ep. 5 || Videoing Your Athlete?
    Oct 31 2024

    Welcome to this month's challenge episode on "The Sports Parent Experience," where we challenge the norms of digital parenting in sports. Examine the benefits of watching games without the distraction of recording every moment. Join Team Beltramo as we discuss how stepping back from the camera can bring you closer to the real action and create lasting memories with your competitive athletes and even better humans.


    #SportsParenting #UnpluggedChallenge #BePresent #ClubSports #AthleteDevelopment #TheSportsParentExperience #CompetitiveAthletes #EvenBetterHumans #TeamBeltramo #ParentingTips

    Chapter Markers:
    0:00 - Introduction: Rethinking Video in Club Sports
    0:29 - This Month's Challenge: Experience Over Recording
    0:45 - The Challenge: Watch Without Recording
    1:14 - Benefits of Being Fully Present
    1:29 - Overcoming the Fear of Missing Out
    2:11 - Personal Story: Memorable Moments Without Video
    3:17 - Embracing Live Experiences Over Capturing
    4:30 - The Reason Behind Our Video Habits
    5:34 - Psychological Impacts of Filming on Parents
    6:22 - Engaging More Deeply at Events
    7:32 - Discussing the Pressure of Recording for College Scouts
    8:42 - Encouraging Direct Interaction with Coaches
    9:27 - Enhancing the Spectator Experience by Ditching Phones
    10:17 - Fostering Better Family Conversations
    11:10 - Observing More Than Just the Performance
    11:58 - Closing Thoughts: Elevating the Sports Parent Experience

    *** The Sports Parent Experience Sign:
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    WEBSITE: https://www.TeamBeltramo.com

    Remember to subscribe for more insightful discussions and strategies to elevate your sports parenting game. If you found this episode helpful, we would love if you would give us a rating and leave us a review so we can get this to sports parents across the country!

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    12 mins
  • Ep. 4 || Don't say this popular phrase..."I love to watch you play"
    Oct 24 2024

    Welcome to another insightful episode of "The Sports Parent Experience." Today, we dive into a common phrase that parents tell their athletes after a competition that seems encouraging, but the phrase can lead to serious performance issues.

    In this episode, Team Beltramo explores why your postgame remarks resonate with your child, or why they miss completely. As elite sports parents, let’s help take the pressure off with some subtle changes to how you and I show up verbally for our athletes.

    Whether you're a parent of a budding superstar, or simply in the stands to cheer on your son or daughter, this conversation will equip you with the tools to support your athlete more effectively.

    #SportsParenting #AthleteDevelopment #TheSportsParentExperience #CompetitiveAthletes #EvenBetterHumans #Encouragement #TeamBeltramo #ParentingTips


    Chapter Markers:
    0:00 - Introduction to the Episode: The Power of Parental Support
    0:26 - Unpacking the Phrase "I Love to Watch You Play"
    0:41 - Intentions vs. Impact: Where Good Phrases Go Wrong
    1:12 - The Pitfalls of Cliched Praise
    1:45 - When Supporting Words Fall Short
    1:58 - Addressing the Pressure of Performance
    2:15 - Revisiting a College Sports Experience
    3:16 - The Shift from High School to College Athletics
    3:49 - Changing Phrases to Reduce Pressure
    4:25 - Personal Story: Expectations vs. Reality in College Sports
    4:46 - The Unintended Consequences of Performance-Focused Praise
    5:02 - Why We Should Say "We Love to Support Your Team"
    5:22 - Focusing on Team Support and Community Engagement
    5:41 - The Importance of Presence Over Performance
    6:07 - The Lifelong Impact of Showing Up
    6:43 - Supporting Through Injuries and Non-Starters
    7:24 - Extending Support Beyond the Game
    7:46 - Personal Anecdote: Impact of Showing Up
    8:13 - The Significance of Presence in Youth Sports
    8:55 - Shifting Focus from Words to Actions
    9:31 - Closing Thoughts: The Essence of the Sports Parent Experience

    *** The Sports Parent Experience Sign:
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    WEBSITE: https://www.TeamBeltramo.com

    Don't forget to subscribe and share this podcast with other sports parents. Join us as we continue to explore how to raise not just competitive athletes, but even better humans!

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    10 mins
  • The 5 Common Mistakes Sports Parents Make
    Oct 17 2024

    Learn the 5 common mistakes sports parents make in this powerful recorded workshop. Toxic behaviors from well-intentioned parents can create performance anxiety, loss of confidence, and even quitting the game early.
    If you are seeking greater connection with your student athlete in and out of the competitive arena, Team Beltramo reflects on years of wisdom and experience to give you takeaways to empower you and your family.

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    1 hr
  • Ep. 3 || Defining "Even Better Humans"
    Oct 17 2024

    Welcome back to "The Sports Parent Experience," where today, we unpack the essence of our mission—raising not just competitive athletes but even better humans. As sports parents, our influence extends beyond the game; it shapes the character of future leaders.
    Join us as we explore how to foster a spirit of selflessness, gratitude, and community engagement in young athletes, ensuring they excel in life as much as in sports. Whether it's addressing the importance of humility after a game or celebrating the small acts of kindness, this episode is packed with insights to help you guide your competitive athlete towards being an even better human.

    #SportsParenting #BetterHumans #YouthAthletics #TeamBeltramo #CharacterBuilding #LifeLessons #Sportsmanship #ParentingAthletes #TheSportsParentExperience #Leadership

    Chapter Markers:
    0:00 - Introduction: Raising Even Better Humans
    0:38 - The Legacy of Character in Coaching
    1:06 - Beyond Performance: Fostering Good Humans
    1:19 - Defining 'Even Better Humans'
    1:55 - Competitive Spirit vs. Human Spirit
    2:09 - Balancing Goals: Athletic and Personal Growth
    2:51 - The Role of Parents in Character Development
    3:23 - The Lasting Impact of Sportsmanship
    3:38 - Real-Life Application: Beyond the Game
    4:13 - Teachable Moments: Valuing Presence Over Performance
    4:50 - The Importance of Gratitude in Sports
    6:11 - Engaging and Supporting Fellow Athletes
    6:49 - Using Media to Teach Values
    7:29 - Parental Responsibility in Character Development
    8:19 - Celebrating Unselfish Players
    9:02 - The Joy of Raising a Better Human
    9:27 - The Long-Term Benefits of Good Sportsmanship

    *** The Sports Parent Experience Sign:
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    WEBSITE: https://www.TeamBeltramo.com

    Remember to subscribe for more insightful discussions and strategies to elevate your sports parenting game. If you found this episode helpful we would love if you would give us a rating and leave us a review so we can get this to sports parents across the country!

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    10 mins
  • Ep.2 || The 3 Traits of a Competitive Athlete
    Oct 11 2024

    Welcome to another enlightening episode of "The Sports Parent Experience," brought to you by Team Beltramo. Today, we dive deep into the essential traits that forge competitive athletes. We discuss the pivotal role of belief, vision, and drive in shaping not just athletes, but individuals who excel in all walks of life. From board games to the big leagues, the competitive spirit is a transformative force, and we're here to guide you on how to nurture it responsibly without burning out. Join us as we provide actionable insights for parents and coaches to support their athletes in cultivating these critical characteristics.

    #SportsParenting #CompetitiveAthletes #TeamBeltramo #AthleteDevelopment #ParentingTips #BeliefVisionDrive #TheSportsParentExperience

    Chapter Markers:
    0:00 - Introduction to the Episode
    0:26 - Welcoming Team Beltramo
    0:44 - The Importance of Competitiveness in Life
    0:59 - Why We Choose 'Competitive' Over Other Adjectives
    1:17 - The Universal Nature of Competitiveness
    1:30 - Research on Competitive Backgrounds of Successful Individuals
    2:03 - The Three Crucial Traits: Belief, Vision, and Drive
    2:26 - The Foundational Role of Belief
    3:01 - The Significance of Expressing Belief in Athletes
    3:44 - The Impact of Belief Beyond Confidence
    4:01 - Recognizing and Encouraging Belief in Young Athletes
    4:48 - The Role of Parents in Fostering Belief
    5:11 - Transitioning from Belief to Vision
    5:29 - The Necessity of Vision Before Drive
    6:10 - Practical Tips for Visualizing Success
    6:27 - Ensuring the Vision Belongs to the Athlete
    6:59 - Aligning Parental Support with Athlete's Vision
    7:24 - Signs of True Competitive Spirit
    7:45 - Discussing Drive: The Execution of Vision
    8:03 - Consistency and Commitment in Cultivating Drive
    8:35 - Daily Improvements and Practical Applications
    9:15 - Emotional Support's Role in Sustaining Drive
    9:50 - Reaffirming Belief to Boost Drive
    10:18 - Handling Adversity and Maintaining Drive
    10:47 - The Overall Importance of Belief, Vision, and Drive
    11:25 - Closing Thoughts and Encouragement from Team Beltramo

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    Remember to subscribe for more insightful discussions and strategies to elevate your sports parenting game. If you found this episode helpful or have stories to share about fostering competitive traits in your athletes, drop a comment below. We love hearing from you!

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    12 mins