On this episode, Caroline and returning as guest co-host Wendy Cole meet Kristen Browde, an accomplished attorney, journalist, and LGBTQIA+ activist. Kristen shares her journey from a career in broadcasting at CNN and CBS News to becoming a leader in the fight for transgender rights. She reflects on her upbringing, her path to self-discovery, and the pivotal moment when she publicly came out, highlighting both the challenges and the support she received.

The conversation shifts to Kristen’s political work as the President of the Florida Democratic Party LGBTQ+ Caucus and Vice President of the National Federation of Stonewall Democrats. She discusses the critical role of visibility in advocacy, the importance of local elections, and the ongoing battle against anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation. Kristen shares her experience influencing policymakers and emphasizes why standing firm on equality is essential for progress.

As the episode airs on Trans Day of Visibility, the discussion turns to the significance of being seen and the necessity of staying proactive in the face of rising anti-trans sentiment. Kristen offers strategies for both trans individuals and allies to foster change, challenge misinformation, and ensure that the fight for equality remains at the forefront of political discourse. To close, we hear a personal voice message from International Trans Day of Visibility founder Rachel Crandall-Crocker, reinforcing the power of visibility and community in the fight for trans rights.

“Kristen Browde is an accomplished attorney, journalist, and trans activist with a passion for advancing LGBTQIA+ rights. She is the current president of the Florida Democratic Party LGBTQ+ Caucus and vice president of the National Federation of Stonewall Democrats, where she works tirelessly to promote equality and ensure the voices of LGBTQIA+ individuals are heard in political discourse.

Kristen has spent her career in media, having worked for major outlets such as CNN and CBS News, where her extensive reporting on societal issues shaped her perspective and advocacy.

Beyond her journalistic work, Kristen has been deeply involved in activism, particularly in advocating for trans rights and visibility. She has used her platform to raise awareness about the unique challenges facing the trans community, and her leadership in the LGBTQ+ caucus has focused on pushing for policy changes that protect and support trans people.

As a strong voice in the fight for trans rights, Kristen brings an informed and compassionate approach to her work. She continues to push for systemic change, ensuring that the rights of marginalized communities remain at the forefront of legislative discussions. Through her advocacy, she aims to create a safer, more inclusive world where trans individuals can live authentically without fear.”

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“Make it real to me” written by Athena Promachus, covered by Boy Bowser

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On this episode, Athena, Caroline, and guest co-host Laurie Lee Hall sit down with Wendy Cole, a transition mentor who transitioned at 67. Wendy shares her journey of self-discovery, highlighting the mental and emotional aspects of transition. She reflects on repressing her gender identity, the impact of the DSM-5 reclassification, and the crucial role of therapy. The panel discusses closeting, containment, and generational differences in navigating identity.

Wendy explores the complexities of transitioning later in life, emphasizing mental transition over physical changes. She shares how shifting thought patterns and overcoming self-doubt were key to self-acceptance. The conversation touches on authenticity, safety, and resilience, including strategies for navigating public spaces and the value of LGBTQ-friendly communities.

The episode wraps up with reflections on visibility and storytelling in driving acceptance. Wendy shares her passion for mentoring, while Caroline and Laurie highlight the importance of fostering community and amplifying transgender voices.

Wendy Cole is a transition mentor who helps individuals navigate major life changes with a focus on self-acceptance. She works with transgender individuals, parents of transgender children, and women entrepreneurs facing self-doubt. Drawing from her own journey, she guides others through fear and transition.

Wendy knew she was a girl from a young age but spent decades conforming to societal expectations. At 67, she found medical validation for her experience, giving her the courage to transition. Within six months, she was living authentically, proving it’s never too late to be yourself.

Since 2017, Wendy has mentored others, helping them overcome doubt and anxiety. She is passionate about humanizing the transgender experience, educating allies, and fostering inclusivity. Through her work, she empowers people to embrace change with confidence and authenticity.

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“Make it real to me” written by Athena Promachus, covered by Boy Bowser

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On this episode, Athena and Caroline are joined by Carl Charles as they discuss his work as a senior attorney at Lambda Legal and his journey as a trans advocate. Carl shares how his experiences as a teacher led him to pursue law, ultimately shaping his career in trans rights advocacy. He reflects on the challenges and triumphs he has encountered while fighting for LGBTQ+ civil rights, highlighting the importance of resilience and joy even in the face of adversity. The conversation also explores the ongoing legal battles affecting the transgender community, touching on identity documentation policies, anti-trans legislation, and the broader implications of restrictive laws.

Carl provides critical insights into the current landscape of trans rights, explaining how recent legal developments impact the community. He discusses the State Department’s gender marker policies, the rise of discriminatory bills in states like Texas, and the ongoing efforts to challenge these injustices through legal action. The discussion underscores the importance of staying informed and proactive, whether through updating legal documents or engaging in advocacy. Carl also shares practical advice for trans individuals navigating these challenges, encouraging them to seek legal support and community resources to protect their rights.

The episode concludes with a powerful conversation on resilience, representation, and advocacy. Carl emphasizes the strength of the transgender community and the necessity of collective action in pushing back against discrimination. He encourages listeners to stay engaged, support organizations like Lambda Legal, and use their voices to promote understanding and allyship. Athena and Caroline reflect on the importance of visibility and connection, reinforcing the message that despite the obstacles ahead, the fight for trans rights remains strong and unwavering.

“Carl Charles is a senior attorney at Lambda Legal, where he fights for the civil rights of LGBTQ+ people and those living with HIV. A dedicated advocate, Carl has worked on key legal cases that challenge discriminatory policies and protect the rights of transgender individuals. Before joining Lambda Legal, he worked at the ACLU and the New York City Commission on Human Rights. Carl’s legal expertise spans identity documentation, healthcare access, and employment protections for trans people. As a trans attorney himself, he brings both professional and personal insight to his work, striving to ensure legal equity and justice for the LGBTQ+ community.”

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“Make it real to me” written by Athena Promachus, covered by Boy Bowser

The Trans Narrative was created, and produced by Caroline Penny, powered by Spotify for podcasters

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