• 18. Tell Shame No - Michelle Smith
    Oct 31 2024

    In today's episode, Tolu Agbelusi speaks with lawyer and lecturer Michelle Smith
    in a conversation that explores self awareness,vulnerability, submission and shame ina world that will pressure you to change course if you arent meeting externally imposed expectations.

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    59 mins
  • 17. Do It Anyway - Babs Gons
    Sep 29 2024

    In today's episode, Tolu Agbelusi speaks with writer, poet, spoken word artist, theatre maker, organiser, teacher and Poet Laureate of the Netherlands, Babs Gons in a conversation that explores what it is to feel fear, face hardship, see lack and decide to stay true to who you are and what you are called to do. Babs graciously closes the episode with a poem.

    Links
    Babs Website
    Poems (English Translations)

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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • 16. Knowing When To Surrender & When to Hold Firm - Jendella Benson
    Jul 31 2024

    In today's episode, Tolu Agbelusi speaks with writer and Chief Editor at Black Ballad UK, Jendella Benson . This conversation encompasses reclaiming your story, unpacking womanhood, shame and all things community. Jendella also reads an excerpt of her book.

    Links
    Website where you'll find both books
    Black Ballad UK
    Jendella's Instagram

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • 15. Embracing Incompleteness - Dr JC Niala
    Jun 30 2024

    In today's episode, Tolu Agbelusi speaks with poet, playwright, anthropologist, historian and artist Dr JC Niala. She is the Head of Research, Teaching and Collections at Oxford University. In this conversation we explore what women have to contain, the freedom that comes from letting go of perfection, entertaining new viewpoints and choosing which parts of our cultures serve us.

    JC referenced Francis B. Nyamnjoh from whom comes the title of this episode.

    Find out more about JC at https://www.jcniala.com/

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    48 mins
  • 14. A Good Name Is Worth More Than Money-Renée Neblett
    May 31 2024

    In today's episode, Tolu Agbelusi speaks with artist, designer, educator and founder of Kokrobitey Institute, Ghana, Renée Neblett, affectionately known as 'Auntie Renée'. This conversation explores what it means/what it looks like to be a person of principle and to be honest, this conversation scratches the surface of the stories and the wisdom that Auntie Renée has to offer. Do check out the links below to learn more about this powerhouse of a woman is nothing short of inspirational.

    Also if you are an artist, they have a beautiful residency space next to the ocean, so you might want to check that out.

    Links:

    • Kokrobitey Institiute
    • Vogue Article
    • A Lesson in Development & Literacy - Building Kokrobitey (video conversation)



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    45 mins
  • 13. Bring Your Voice In - Jasmine Cooray
    Apr 29 2024

    In Today's episode, Tolu Agbelusi speaks with poet, educator, psychotherapist and authour of poetry collection Inheritance, Jasmine Cooray. This expansive conversation delves into unlearning silence as goodness in womnahood, alopecia, learning to own yourself, and what it means to choose life on a daily basis. And Yes, I do get Jasmine to read one of her poems.

    You can and should buy yourself a copy of her book here:

    Inheritance

    Follow her work on social media: Instagram

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    1 hr and 23 mins
  • 12. Being Strong Is About Knowing How To Ask For Help - Edwige-Renée Dro
    Mar 31 2024

    In today's episode, Tolu Agbelusi speaks to Edwige Dro - translator and founder of 1949 Library of women's writings from Africa and the Black world.

    This conversation wanders through the many ways we find to ourselves and the joys and reality of accepting all that you are.

    Links to Edwige's work:
    1949 Library
    Website


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    1 hr and 19 mins
  • Recap
    Mar 2 2024

    This is the Season 2 teaser - host Tolu Agbelusi has woven a spoken word poem out of some of the memorable conversations of season 1 which she reads here.

    Mention is made of 2 poetry workshops which Tolu is running online in March 2024 - called Exploring the other Story and Writing Trauma. If these interest you, head over to www.toluagbelusi.com/shop

    Conversation 1 will be back on 31 March

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    8 mins