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Emily Lucienne
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Women, especially feminists and lesbians, have long been accused of hating men. Our instinct is to deny it at all costs. (After all, women have been burnt at the stake for admitting to less.)
But what if mistrusting men, disliking men – and yes, maybe even hating men – is, in fact, a useful response to sexism? What if such a response offers a way out of oppression, a means of resistance? What if it even offers a path to joy, solidarity and sisterhood?
In this sparkling essay, as mischievous and provocative as it is urgent and serious, Pauline Harmange interrogates modern attitudes to feminism and makes a rallying cry for women to find a greater love for each other – and themselves.
©2020 Pauline Harmange (P)2020 HarperCollins Publishers LimitedListeners also enjoyed...
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Critic reviews
‘A good book, written from a burning heart but with a cool head’ The Times
‘Rousing … a call to liberation. Her writing is full of hope, unwavering in its trust of other women and their abilities’ Independent
‘An exhilarating essay to be read in one sitting’ Libération
‘Written in wise prose, devoid of excess or rage, I Hate Men explores the terrain of contemporary feminism, its arguments in keeping with those of writers like Rebecca Solnit, as well as the movement's key ideas: patriarchy, the mental load, #MeToo and solidarity’ L’Obs
Fantastic book!
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Brilliant essay!
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She’s right…
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Beautiful and bold
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A changed man
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Misandry is not misogyny
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Thank you Pauline!!
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Great book every woman and man should read
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Well Done
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I differ with just one thing she said: she is clearly making an exception for men that are not cis —heterosexual. I don’t think that’s correct. It’s not just cisgender men that participate in the patriarchy. They all benefit from it and participate to one extent or another.
It interesting that this book created such a firestorm in the press. What did she say that was so terrible?
Fantastique!
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