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I Want to Trust You, but I Don't

Moving Forward When You’re Skeptical of Others, Afraid of What God Will Allow, and Doubtful of Your Own Discernment

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I Want to Trust You, but I Don't

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New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst shows you what to do with your skepticism and distrust so you can heal from past betrayals and move forward with strength and resilience.

Trust is the oxygen of all human relationships. But it's also what trips you up after you've been burned. Maybe a friend constantly lets you down. A leader or organization you respect turns out to be different than they portray themselves to be. A spouse cheats on you. A family member betrays you. You're exhausted by other people's choices and starting to question your own discernment. And you're wondering, If God let this happen, can he even be trusted?

How can you live well and step into the future when you keep stumbling over trust issues? Lysa TerKeurst says it's not simply about finding better people to walk with. It's about developing the stability you long for within yourself and with God, so you don't become cynical and carry a broken belief system into every new relationship. In I Want to Trust You, But I Don't, Lysa shows you how to

  • identify which of the eleven relational red flags are stirring up distrust, so you can pinpoint why you're feeling uneasy;
  • stop having more faith in your fears coming true than God coming through for you by asking crucial "what if" questions to better process your doubts;
  • recognize when a fractured relationship can be repaired by considering a reasonable list of characteristics necessary for rebuilding trust; and
  • understand the physical, emotional, and neurological impact of the betrayals you've experienced and start healing from the inside out.

In a world where so many things feel alarming, this book will give you a peace that isn't dependent on unpredictable people, circumstances, and experiences. Instead, it offers practical and biblical ways to make real progress toward healthier perspectives, relationships, and a future you can authentically look forward to.

©2024 Lysa TerKeurst (P)2024 Thomas Nelson
Family Spiritual Growth Women's Christian Living

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I understand this story

Regardless of the past pain I’m glad that I can move forward. I recommend this book for anyone that has a broken heart from relational distrust.

I’m glad am choosing to see the world in a way that allows me to grow.

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From a non-religious perspective…

Okay… I really didn’t know this author was such a devoted Christian before I started this book. I personally don’t find myself to be too religious. However, I guess you could call me spiritual. Anyway! I think this book was very well written and read. Furthermore, it contained a lot of valuable lessons that I think even the non-religious people could truly benefit from.
I gave this book 4 stars instead of 5 because for me, personally, there was a little too much “Jesus talk”. All in all, I was able to get through all of it and actually enjoy most of it. Yet, at times it felt a little too religious for me.

Tip for other non-religious folks: whenever the author talked about Jesus and God, I would think of them as “the universe”. It made more sense to me that way and made the book easier to get through at times.

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Needed!

Thank you for your vulnerability. This book is very helpful in navigating the struggles I’ve been dealing with.

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So Much Truth

How others in our past is hurting our present and future...Great application techniques...thank you for this book

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The emotionally relatable

I love how emotionally open this is and I felt like Lysa was speaking directly to me. The words are consoling and inspiring. I listen in two days and I will be doing it again. There is so much to learn from this book.

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the authenticity

i dont want to reveal any spoilers, so all i will say is, if you are seeking a Christian book where the author is vulnerable and relatable. this is it.

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Words of wisdom for my soul.

This was everything I didn't know I needed to hear. I am not alone in my trust issues, and God has a good plan for healing.

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Solid Biblical advice & incredibly helpful!

I greatly appreciated the guidance & Biblical advice provided in this book. Far too often, Christians fail to recognize the destruction caused by emotionally abusive relationships. Christian women are often encouraged to stay in unhealthy relationships & are not provided with resources to address the underlying issues. Lysa shares information from expert counselors and her personal insights along with scripture. I could relate to her story & am thankful Lysa was willing to be vulnerable & share her personal pain to help others. I especially appreciated the way Lysa discussed betrayal & hurt that takes place in the church, she was respectful & honest. This book is helping me on my healing journey.

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The perfect book for this season of my life

Man oh man. I had to pause…cry… pause…write and I just want to say thank you for this work of love. My soul needed this. I can’t wait to pass it on to my mentee. Thank you thank you thank you

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So needed!

She gets it! I love this book. It's rooted in scripture and very helpful. This is the book I needed to help identify why and how my lack of trust in people, impacts me, my relationships, and my future.

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