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It's Not Supposed to Be This Way

By: Lysa TerKeurst
Narrated by: Lysa TerKeurst, Jolene Barto
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READ BY THE AUTHOR | Also includes exclusive interview with Lysa!

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

What do you do when God’s timing seems questionable, his lack of intervention hurtful, and his promises doubtful? Lysa TerKeurst unveils her heart amid shattering circumstances, inviting you to live assured when life doesn't turn out like you expected.

Life often looks so very different than we hoped or expected. Some events may simply catch us off guard for a season, but others shatter us completely. We feel disappointed and disillusioned at best and overwhelmed and hopeless at worst. We quietly start to wonder about the reality of God’s goodness and why he allows us to suffer and experience grief and loss.

Lysa TerKeurst understands this deeply. But after many tears, godly counseling, and prayerful seeking, she's also discovered that our disappointments can be the divine appointments our souls need to radically encounter God. In It's Not Supposed to Be This Way, Lysa invites us into her own journey of faith and, with grit, vulnerability, and honest humor, helps us to:

  • Stop being pulled into the anxiety of disappointment by discovering how to better process unmet expectations and other painful situations.
  • Train ourselves to recognize the three strategies of the enemy, so we can stand strong and persevere through unsettling relationships and uncertain outcomes.
  • Discover the secret of being steadfast and not panicking when God actually does give us more than we can handle.
  • Shift our suspicion that God is cruel or unfair to the biblical assurance that God is protecting and preparing us.
  • Know how to encourage a friend and help her navigate hard realities with real help from God's truth, the Bible.

Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa:

  • Good Boundaries and Goodbyes
  • Forgiving What You Can't Forget
  • Uninvited
  • You're Going to Make It
  • Embraced
  • Seeing Beautiful Again

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2018 Lysa TerKeurst (P)2018 Thomas Nelson
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The Go-To book for heartache and weariness

I've read this book twice and it has earned a spot in my library as the "break glass in case of emotional turmoil". The first time I read it was because Lisa's latest book was being advertised to me by one of my favorite authors. The second time was during the CoViD-19 pandemic. Two opposite ends of the mental state, but both were welcome times for her words. Highly recommend for anyone during any time of hurt.

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Totally what I needed

This is an amazing book! Lysa hits the mark again with her vulnerability and clarity from God. A true messenger of God! So thankful for her life experiences and knowledge to help us all walk through life more confidently, knowing that we will all have struggles, but God is always with us through it all. :)

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so helpful and encouraging

This book has helped me during a very difficult time. my circumstances are still difficult, this book helped to give me hope. definitely worth the listen.

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Things to practice!

I will be coming back to review many of my notes. Some good pointers for me to utilize and draw on.

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Inspiration

I love Lysa and have read all her books. She is so relatable and inspiring. She does not sugar coat the truth of her struggles. She makes me laugh and cry.

I thank God gave her a voice for women who love God.

Mary Ingram

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A LIFELINE AT JUST THE RIGHT TIME

Our family is dealing with a very difficult situation as I listened to this book. A family member is fighting for her life with a very very painful condition and the questions arise: why does God not intervene, why do we not get any help with the pain, why does God seem to be silent. Lysa's answers are so appropriate and are like getting a life preserver thrown to you just before you go down the 3rd time.

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A Message from God

Lysa is truly a vessel of Gods message. She's also a great narrator.
I bought the book but struggled to find time to read it. I'm trying Audible for the first time and so happy I got to listen while gardening from the author herself. So many important points of Gods scripture she brings to light and explains perfectly how the enemy uses our weaknesses by patterns but cannot predict our responses.
I can't wait to listen to the next book by Lysa!

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Just accept is as growth....nah

Acceptance, a long way around this book to get to just accept it as teaching, growning...fine but that was no break through just the same old old

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Encouraging book

I found this to be a very encouraging book as the author pointed me to Christ and His Word for hope. She shared enough personal illustrations from her own life that I knew she was speaking from experience and also knew something of failure.

It can be disheartening to read of someone who always does everything right! That’s the honest truth. I was pleasantly surprised. This was my first Lisa TerKeurst book. Thanks.

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great book, helpful tools!

I loved Lisa's honesty that she offers in her book. Life is hard & we all need to know we're not alone! Great scripture to cling to & always VIP to be reminded of our need for God!:) Keep writing!

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