
Love Is a Choice
28 Extraordinary Stories of the 5 Love Languages® in Action
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DeDe Cordell
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Gary Chapman
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Real life, encouraging stories embodying the bold, brave, beautiful choice to love.
“To last for the long haul and through the stresses and complexities of life, love has to be more than something we feel. It has to be something we do. We have to demonstrate it concretely in our marriages and families, among our friends and acquaintances, and, yes, even among our enemies. And that's what this book is about. In its pages, you'll see examples of people just like you—like all of us—who learned to take the obstacles, the lemons they face in life, and turn them into satisfying, emotional thirst-quenching nectar. These are the success stories that make you want to go out and discover the power of love.” (Gary Chapman)
If you’re feeling weary or burdened by the call to love, you’ll find strength and hope in this book. Love Is a Choice gives us stories of love in action, inspiring us to go deeper in our relationships. Each story is coupled with 5 Love Languages® insights and application points.
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- SkullGamer
- 05-20-23
Beautiful nugget sized stories to warm your heart and make you think
This book has a lot of good, heartwarming examples of different ways the love languages can help us be better people, have better relationships and live better lives. You might tear up here and there… but it’s very sweet.
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- Dena B
- 08-17-23
love IS a choice...
Gary Chapman tells stories of love as an action, a choice, and of the difference it makes in the lives of people who give and recieve acts of love.
Dede Cordell beautifully narrates this book, bringing the tenderness, determination and vulnerability of these stories to life. With her soothing and melodic voice, she delivers these stories strait to your heart.
Mr. Chapman is a reliable author who always delivers, and I truly hope to hear more from Mrs. Cordell in the future.
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