
The Benefit of the Ex
Making Love Visible When Everything Changes
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The Benefit of the Ex: Making Love Visible When Everything Changes shows you how to reap the rewards, thrive, and come into your own after ending relationships that no longer serve you - all with an unapologetic boldness where everyone somehow wins!
If you’re in a relationship where you can’t be yourself, you’re playing a role in your own life. If your most emotionally life-sustaining needs aren’t met, you’ve settled to merely exist. If you feel like each day you’re losing a piece of who you are, one day you will disappear altogether.
The Benefit of the Ex shows you how to be authentic for yourself and for the benefit of others. It awakens the sleeping spirit within you that has accepted existence as a normal way of life and reminds you to flourish and shows you how. This book directs you to build yourself back up by pulling together all of the lost pieces in order to create a stronger version of you.
Author June Dillinger has not only been bringing couples together from every background in blissful matrimony as the officiant and owner of I Do Hawaiian Weddings for over a decade, she is also a licensed unity teacher.
Having served over five years, she did volunteer work as a minister in a men’s correctional facility in Honolulu, Hawaii, edifying the inmates. And yes, June has benefited from her ex and shares candidly about how this has helped to shape her into the human being that she is today. Her wisdom and experience with people from all walks of life will inspire the core of who you are in order to be rewarded, to thrive, and to come into your authentic self.
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