
The Grief Tower
A Practical Guide to Processing Grief with Third Culture Kids
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Liz Stuart
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Lauren Wells
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Children who grow up outside of their parent’s passport country, third culture kids (TCKs), experience a significant number of losses, grief-inducing experiences, and traumas during their developmental years. These events stack up like blocks on a tower throughout the life of the TCK, creating what Lauren Wells has coined the Grief Tower. If it continues to stack without these experiences being processed, a TCK's Grief Tower is likely to crash in their early adulthood. But is this avoidable? Can parents and caregivers provide care that prevents the tower from stacking too high in the first place? The answer is yes, and this practical resource is full of tools for helping the TCKs we love to process their grief.
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- Finny!
- 04-27-23
Excellent and Very Practical
Thank you for sharing this intervention with the world. It was an easy listen, very practical, and had step by step guidelines. I’m grateful to learn this new tool and to help the TCKs and ATCKs in my life to process all the loss and grief.
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- Atv
- 01-24-23
Much needed for all ATCKs and tck parents
Thank you, Lauren! Such great information and insight. A must read for all TCK parents and ATCKs themselves.
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