
The Inner Marriage
A Guide to Masculine and Feminine Polarity Work
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Ryan Paige
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Elliott Saxby
About this listen
• Explains polarity work as a tool to heal trauma, become less judgmental, and develop a more integrated relationship with ourselves and others
• Explores 44 common traits of mature and immature masculine and feminine expressions, explaining how to evolve unhealthy expressions into healthy ones
• Offers simple yet profound methods for evolving your inner masculine and feminine, as well as healing the shadow
Polarity work allows us to balance, evolve, and integrate the masculine and feminine energies within our personality to create an inner union that supports the release and transformation of trauma on the cellular and soul level. It is a holistic practice that leads to the embodiment of both what we choose and who we really are.
Fusing ancient Vedic knowledge and Western psychology with Tantric and Taoist wisdom, Elliott Saxby offers simple yet profound methods for evolving our inner masculine and feminine as well as healing the shadow side of these expressions. The Inner Marriage explores sexuality and desire through polarity work and the need to realign our physical, mental, and emotional bodies to generate power through our sexuality.
Using the polarity framework in relation to universal laws, this practical guide offers maps and exercises that invite us to evolve, harmonize, and integrate opposing energies. An invaluable tool in integrative and non-dual therapy and the development of emotional intelligence.
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©2019, 2022 Elliott Saxby. All Rights Reserved. (P)2022 Inner Traditions Audio. All Rights Reserved.Listeners also enjoyed...
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Critic reviews
“The Inner Marriage is more than an insightful read, I found it to be a perceptive self-development journey that opens the mind into non-dual thinking, teaching us to apply this into our love, work, and family relationships. A must-read for everyone wanting to understand themselves, the nature of reality, and their loved ones better.”—KIP ANDERSEN, producer of Netflix premiere Seaspiracy and director of the Netflix documentaries What
“The Inner Marriage by Elliott Saxby grants entrance into the long misunderstood realm of feminine and masculine dynamics. It is an insightful jewel for those seeking to bring about growth in their own inner world while developing mature relationships with the opposite sex. The wisdom given has the potential to transform the reader by clearing the smokescreen that many of us are consumed by when trying to understand why we or others behave the way we do. Elliott gives us the motivation and a way to improve by providing a blueprint that is quite accessible and applicable to everyday life. I will return to this book again and again for guidance and reference it in my own teachings. Thank you!”—YOGINI GOPIKA, traditional tantric yoga teacher
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- Andrea Busich
- 06-12-24
Wow impressive!
Life changing material that will be a part of my continued journey and integration for years to come. Audio version was very supportive given the complexity of the material and ability to listen to sections more than once. Exactly what I was seeking to further understand my relationships. Thank you so much
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- 03-05-25
Incredible
This is going to be one I revisit often. Thank you for such insight to expressing the multi-dimensional ness of being human. I’ve ordered a physical copy.
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- Chargil
- 11-13-23
Amazing read
I appreciate the whole structure of this book. However had I not already had exposure to Quantum theories and Esoteric understandings it might have been a bit if a challenge.
As a masculine energetic dominant woman who is trying to become more feminine and for those vice versa…having examples of interactions w others on how to transition.
Overall I love it. Intending to read it multiple times.
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- Joe N.
- 03-28-24
Better as a tangible book
This material doesn’t really work in audiobook format. It’s something that needs to be worked with over time in a book one can work through. While it is about masc and fem energy there are just too many topics. I’m familiar with most of what was written. It seems like this could have been 2-3 individual books instead. Still, good info here.
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