
The Only Way Through Is Out
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
3 months free
Buy for $13.22
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Shawna Wolf
-
By:
-
Suzette Mullen
About this listen
“With candor and deep vulnerability, Mullen offers a compelling, honest, and hopeful memoir that examines the hidden truths involved in accepting our deepest wants and desires. The Only Way Through Is Out is a lesson to all of us on what great things can happen when we act with authenticity.”—Jessi Hempel, author of The Family Outing
“I could not put this book down. Mullen shows us the search for one’s authentic self has no expiration date and is worth whatever it takes. This book is a glorious tale of tenacious courage that anyone searching for their own path in life will love.”—Jennifer Louden, national bestselling author of Why Bother? Discover the Desire for What’s Next
Suzette Mullen had been raised to play it safe—and she hated causing others pain. With college and law degrees, a kind and successful husband, two thriving adult sons, and an ocean-view vacation home, she lived a life many people would envy. But beneath the happy facade was a woman who watched her friends walk boldly through their lives and wondered what was holding her back from doing the same.
Digging into her past, Suzette uncovered a deeply buried truth: she’d been in love with her best friend—a woman—for nearly two decades—and still was. Leaning into these “unspeakable” feelings would put Suzette’s identity, relationships, and life of privilege at risk—but she knew taking this leap might also provide her only chance to feel fully alive. Introspective, bittersweet, and empowering, The Only Way Through Is Out is both a coming-out and coming-of-age story, as well as a call to action for every human who is longing to live authentically but is afraid of the cost.
©2024 Suzette Mullen (P)2024 The University of Wisconsin PressListeners also enjoyed...
-
Paper Doll
- Notes from a Late Bloomer
- By: Dylan Mulvaney
- Narrated by: Dylan Mulvaney
- Length: 6 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
When Dylan Mulvaney came out as a woman online, she was a viral sensation almost overnight, emerging as a trailblazing voice on social media. Dylan’s personal coming-out story blossomed into a platform for advocacy and empowerment for trans people all over the world. Through her “Days of Girlhood” series, she connected with followers by exploring what it means to be a girl, from experimenting with makeup to story times to spilling the tea about laser hair removal, while never shying away from discussing the transphobia she faced online.
-
-
Love at first listen
- By ekell on 03-24-25
By: Dylan Mulvaney
-
Kissing Girls on Shabbat
- A Memoir
- By: Sara Glass
- Narrated by: Sara Glass
- Length: 11 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Growing up in the Hasidic community of Brooklyn’s Borough Park, Sara Glass knew one painful truth: what was expected of her and what she desperately wanted were impossibly opposed. Tormented by her attraction to women and trapped in a loveless arranged marriage, she found herself unable to conform to her religious upbringing and soon, she made the difficult decision to walk away from the world she knew. Sara’s journey to self-acceptance began with the challenging battle for a divorce and custody of her children, an act that left her on the verge of estrangement from her family and community.
-
-
Awful Narration
- By B. A. Cale on 12-01-24
By: Sara Glass
-
The Fixed Stars
- By: Molly Wizenberg
- Narrated by: Erin Mallon
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
At age 36, while serving on a jury, author Molly Wizenberg found herself drawn to a female attorney she hardly knew. Married to a man for nearly a decade and mother to a toddler, Wizenberg tried to return to her life as she knew it, but something inside her had changed irredeemably. Instead, she would discover that the trajectory of our lives is rarely as smooth or as logical as we'd like to believe.
-
-
Narration is so bad
- By JBird78 on 08-05-20
By: Molly Wizenberg
-
Sparks Fly
- Phoenix Ridge Fire Department, Book 1
- By: Emily Hayes
- Narrated by: Lori Prince
- Length: 4 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Veteran firefighter Lieutenant Hallie Hunter has fought hard to win her place in the male dominated world of firefighting. In Hallie's quest for promotion to Captain, she is tasked with training the new recruits. Kaia Montgomery is a young and spirited new recruit whose teamwork skills are lacking and Hallie's attraction to her is immediate and consuming. Hallie knows she must shut down her attraction to Kaia. Hallie is her boss and Hallie is determined to get promoted to Captain this year.
-
-
Could’ve get past chapter five
- By Karen Castle on 06-12-25
By: Emily Hayes
-
Worth the Wait
- By: Kenna White
- Narrated by: Abby Craden
- Length: 6 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In the wake of the pandemic, Val Nardi's dreams hang by a thread. Putting her own aspirations aside, she decides to help her brother and goes to work in his restaurant. But the sacrifice she's made means her dreams might be forever out of reach. Then everything changes when she crosses paths with the enigmatic and successful software engineer, Dr. Susan Castle. As Val fights to save her family's business and rebuild her life, Susan's intriguing presence is something she can't ignore. Despite the odds stacked against them—the attraction between them is undeniable.
-
-
I’d skip this one…
- By AmandaB on 12-21-24
By: Kenna White
-
The CEO
- CEO, Book 1
- By: Emily Hayes
- Narrated by: Abby Craden
- Length: 3 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Eva Perez is the CEO of one of the biggest and most successful companies in her industry in the United States. She has everything she could ever need or want in life. She is confident she doesn't need a girlfriend to complete her. Most women fall at Eva's feet, so when a young woman turns up for an interview with her, who seems completely unphased by her power, Eva is intrigued. Madison is captivating and exciting to Eva and sparks fly between them right from the start.
-
-
Shortest book ever
- By PdxTwins on 10-17-24
By: Emily Hayes
-
Paper Doll
- Notes from a Late Bloomer
- By: Dylan Mulvaney
- Narrated by: Dylan Mulvaney
- Length: 6 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
When Dylan Mulvaney came out as a woman online, she was a viral sensation almost overnight, emerging as a trailblazing voice on social media. Dylan’s personal coming-out story blossomed into a platform for advocacy and empowerment for trans people all over the world. Through her “Days of Girlhood” series, she connected with followers by exploring what it means to be a girl, from experimenting with makeup to story times to spilling the tea about laser hair removal, while never shying away from discussing the transphobia she faced online.
-
-
Love at first listen
- By ekell on 03-24-25
By: Dylan Mulvaney
-
Kissing Girls on Shabbat
- A Memoir
- By: Sara Glass
- Narrated by: Sara Glass
- Length: 11 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Growing up in the Hasidic community of Brooklyn’s Borough Park, Sara Glass knew one painful truth: what was expected of her and what she desperately wanted were impossibly opposed. Tormented by her attraction to women and trapped in a loveless arranged marriage, she found herself unable to conform to her religious upbringing and soon, she made the difficult decision to walk away from the world she knew. Sara’s journey to self-acceptance began with the challenging battle for a divorce and custody of her children, an act that left her on the verge of estrangement from her family and community.
-
-
Awful Narration
- By B. A. Cale on 12-01-24
By: Sara Glass
-
The Fixed Stars
- By: Molly Wizenberg
- Narrated by: Erin Mallon
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
At age 36, while serving on a jury, author Molly Wizenberg found herself drawn to a female attorney she hardly knew. Married to a man for nearly a decade and mother to a toddler, Wizenberg tried to return to her life as she knew it, but something inside her had changed irredeemably. Instead, she would discover that the trajectory of our lives is rarely as smooth or as logical as we'd like to believe.
-
-
Narration is so bad
- By JBird78 on 08-05-20
By: Molly Wizenberg
-
Sparks Fly
- Phoenix Ridge Fire Department, Book 1
- By: Emily Hayes
- Narrated by: Lori Prince
- Length: 4 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Veteran firefighter Lieutenant Hallie Hunter has fought hard to win her place in the male dominated world of firefighting. In Hallie's quest for promotion to Captain, she is tasked with training the new recruits. Kaia Montgomery is a young and spirited new recruit whose teamwork skills are lacking and Hallie's attraction to her is immediate and consuming. Hallie knows she must shut down her attraction to Kaia. Hallie is her boss and Hallie is determined to get promoted to Captain this year.
-
-
Could’ve get past chapter five
- By Karen Castle on 06-12-25
By: Emily Hayes
-
Worth the Wait
- By: Kenna White
- Narrated by: Abby Craden
- Length: 6 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In the wake of the pandemic, Val Nardi's dreams hang by a thread. Putting her own aspirations aside, she decides to help her brother and goes to work in his restaurant. But the sacrifice she's made means her dreams might be forever out of reach. Then everything changes when she crosses paths with the enigmatic and successful software engineer, Dr. Susan Castle. As Val fights to save her family's business and rebuild her life, Susan's intriguing presence is something she can't ignore. Despite the odds stacked against them—the attraction between them is undeniable.
-
-
I’d skip this one…
- By AmandaB on 12-21-24
By: Kenna White
-
The CEO
- CEO, Book 1
- By: Emily Hayes
- Narrated by: Abby Craden
- Length: 3 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Eva Perez is the CEO of one of the biggest and most successful companies in her industry in the United States. She has everything she could ever need or want in life. She is confident she doesn't need a girlfriend to complete her. Most women fall at Eva's feet, so when a young woman turns up for an interview with her, who seems completely unphased by her power, Eva is intrigued. Madison is captivating and exciting to Eva and sparks fly between them right from the start.
-
-
Shortest book ever
- By PdxTwins on 10-17-24
By: Emily Hayes
-
Late Bloomer
- Finding My Authentic Self at Midlife
- By: Melissa Giberson
- Narrated by: Melissa Giberson
- Length: 7 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Melissa Giberson is a middle-aged suburban wife and mother of two kids, solidly planted in the life she's always wanted. Yet she longs for something more—something she cant quite put her finger on until, one day at the Y, she finds herself mesmerized by the sight of a naked woman and asks herself for the first time: Am I gay?
-
-
Honest, amazing story.
- By Blaire on 10-29-24
By: Melissa Giberson
-
The Cottage
- By: Gerri Hill
- Narrated by: Abby Craden
- Length: 4 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Jill and Carrie - both married with teenage children - meet one day during Jill's lunch break at a local park. Soon a friendship is forged. A friendship that deepens with each visit. Jill's husband still lives and breathes the coach's life, a life that leaves him little time to spare for Jill. Left on her own more and more, Jill finds herself searching for the indefinable something that has been missing all her life.
-
-
Beautiful love story
- By Lily on 03-12-21
By: Gerri Hill
-
For Love or Scandal
- By: J. J. Arias
- Narrated by: Kingsley Rose
- Length: 10 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Laney Menendez, a once-celebrated Hollywood director, has a chance at a comeback. The catch? She must first marry her brother's soap-star boyfriend to stop him from being outed by a tabloid. For Laney, the lavish fake wedding is meant to be all business, until she meets the wedding planner, Jennifer Acosta. Their attraction is instant and undeniable. As Laney and Jennifer work closely planning the wedding, stolen moments stoke the flames of a passion too powerful to resist. When Jennifer learns the truth of Laney's fake marriage, she faces an impossible choice.
-
-
Spicy and Sweet!
- By Lyn on 04-14-25
By: J. J. Arias
-
So Gay for You
- Friendship, Found Family, and the Show That Started It All
- By: Kate Moennig, Leisha Hailey
- Narrated by: Kate Moennig, Leisha Hailey
- Length: 7 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In the early 2000s, Kate Moennig and Leisha Hailey—both young artists trying to figure it all out—met at auditions for an unknown little TV show. Given that it was a show about lesbians living in Los Angeles, with the first ever ensemble cast of openly queer female characters, Kate and Leisha knew the project was going to be unlike anything else out there—that is, if it even got picked up.
-
-
I really needed that
- By Heather Stella on 06-22-25
By: Kate Moennig, and others
-
The Midnight Moon
- By: Gerri Hill
- Narrated by: Abby Craden
- Length: 6 hrs and 8 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
It was a fun, holiday romance under a moonlit sky. After exchanging passionate nights and only first names, Peyton Watts and Logan Weaver go back to their lives. For Peyton, it’s a return to her steady, conservative social circle and the not unwelcome overtures from attorney Margot Joseph. Meanwhile, Logan’s free spirit is happy again moving with the college crowd. So when fate throws them once more into each other’s paths, it shouldn’t mean a thing....
-
-
Hits the spot
- By Kalipall on 09-19-15
By: Gerri Hill
-
Falls from Grace
- Grace Notes, Book 1
- By: Ruby Landers
- Narrated by: Quinn Riley
- Length: 10 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Her hit band Twice Struck topped the country music charts for almost a decade until her high-profile marriage to her bandmate and co-writer publicly exploded. Now she's fading from the spotlight and her own life, just trying to keep her head above water.
-
-
Great listen
- By Steph M on 11-21-24
By: Ruby Landers
-
Love Next Door
- By: Rachael Sommers
- Narrated by: Abby Craden
- Length: 6 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Reserved tattoo artist Riley Foster has just moved apartments and can't take her eyes off the single mom who lives next door. Riley is trying very hard not to succumb to the cliche of falling for the straight girl as she gets to know Kim Jackson, an outgoing baker with an adorable nine-year-old son. A friendship forms and Riley even finds herself roped into playing Kim's fake girlfriend to get her meddling family off her back. What could go wrong . . . except for Kim suddenly questioning whether she's not as straight as she thought!
-
-
A lovely cozy romance
- By Richard Hernandez on 11-11-24
By: Rachael Sommers
-
Overtime
- By: Tracey Richardson
- Narrated by: Lori Prince
- Length: 8 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Sarah Brennan is a hockey player in the new professional women's league, but it's her mind she wants to exercise when she enrolls in a university class on Irish literature. Professor Claire Joyce is no fan of pro athletes, especially after a failed marriage to one. Unfortunately her ten-year-old daughter adores hockey, and her idol happens to be none other than Sarah Brennan. Falling in love with someone who barely tolerates sports and athletes finally forces Sarah, at thirty-six, to admit that her career is in overtime, and to consider what life might look like after hockey.
-
-
Sweet
- By Anonymous User on 06-14-25
-
Lyon's Den
- By: Gerri Hill
- Narrated by: Abby Craden
- Length: 6 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
When cynical journalist Joni James gets assigned to cover The Lyon’s Den—a women’s wilderness retreat in the Colorado mountains—she’s armed with sarcasm and ready to write the takedown her boss expects. No phone. No wine. No chance she’ll enjoy a single minute of this nature-loving nightmare. But as obstacle courses turn to opportunities and scavenger hunts spark unexpected joy, Joni finds herself drawn to the very things she planned to ridicule—especially the retreat’s enigmatic and infuriatingly captivating owner, Kendall Lyon.
-
-
Another Great Gerri Hill book.
- By Kindle Customer on 05-29-25
By: Gerri Hill
-
A Lesbian's Guide to Women
- By: Erica Lee
- Narrated by: Lori Prince
- Length: 7 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Annalise Finch is content - she has a job she enjoys, lives close to her family and friends, and spends most Wednesday nights drinking wine with her grandma. According to her grandma, though, she has lost her sparkle, and the only solution is to join a site to hook up with other women. The only problem (aside from a meddling grandma with a dirty mind) is Annalise doesn’t like women. At least, that’s what she always thought, but when she meets Brinley Adams, she starts to question everything.
-
-
Excellent book for a baby lesbian
- By Sab on 07-21-24
By: Erica Lee
-
The Book of Pride
- LGBTQ Heroes Who Changed the World
- By: Mason Funk
- Narrated by: Mason Funk, Robin Miles, Eileen Stevens, and others
- Length: 10 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Book of Pride captures the true story of the gay rights movement from the 1960s to the present, through richly detailed, stunning interviews with the leaders, activists, and ordinary people who witnessed the movement and made it happen. These individuals fought battles both personal and political, often without the support of family or friends, frequently under the threat of violence and persecution.
-
-
Pure Joy for EVERYONE
- By Micah D on 06-03-19
By: Mason Funk
-
Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit
- By: Jeanette Winterson
- Narrated by: Jeanette Winterson
- Length: 6 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Jeanette is a bright and rebellious orphan who is adopted into an evangelical household in the dour, industrial North of England and finds herself embroidering grim religious mottoes and shaking her little tambourine for Jesus. But as this budding missionary comes of age, and comes to terms with her unorthodox sexuality, the peculiar balance of her God-fearing household dissolves. Jeanette’s insistence on listening to truths of her own heart and mind - and on reporting them with wit and passion - makes for an unforgettable chronicle of an eccentric, moving passage into adulthood.
-
-
quirky and odd
- By Kelly on 01-06-20
Excellent Memoir
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
Relatable, easy to listen to and honest
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
This isn’t just a book about coming out, it’s also about family, friendships, starting over, leaning to be honest with yourself, and letting go of shame .
I enjoyed the overall pacing and the way the author reflected on events throughout the book. Suzette is bold and brave for coming out and living her truth. I’m glad she found a way to “know thy self.”
I didn’t initially connect with the narrator of the book-but the voice and enunciation of words grew on me.
I love the vulnerability shown by this author throughout the story
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
It gets better indeed!!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.