• #169 Healing Heartbreak & Grief: Ruby Dahl’s Inspiring Path to Self-Love and Growth
    Nov 12 2024
    Ruby Dhal, a self love guru, author of best selling book ‘The Path To Self Love’, Ted-X speaker, poet and has a huge audience on social media where she share her advice and tips on how to love yourself more. In this episode, we explore the power of self-love and why its so important, not just for your personal well-being but for the health of your relationships. Self-love is often seen as a solitary journey, but it’s also a vital foundation for how you live your life. Ruby talks about how self love has positively impacted her life through growing up, grief, and in relationships. Whether you're navigating romantic relationships, friendships, or family dynamics, understanding and nurturing your own self-worth is the key to building meaningful connections. Join us as we discuss: 00:00 Introduction to Self Love 00:11 Personal Struggles and Realisations 00:52 Podcast Introduction and Guest Introduction 02:06 Defining Self Love 02:56 The Concept of Tough Self Love 04:16 Balancing Self Love and Relationships 06:59 Ruby's Journey to Writing 09:24 Understanding and Coping with Grief 16:11 Cultural Perspectives on Grief 20:25 Generational Differences in Grieving 25:35 Growing Up in a Strict South Asian Family 26:05 Forming Relationships Through Social Media 27:26 First Love and Heartbreak 30:23 Healing from Heartbreak and Childhood Trauma 31:11 Meeting My Husband: The First Romantic Relationship 32:02 Struggles with Self-Sabotage in Relationships 33:13 The Importance of Self-Love in Romantic Relationships 36:51 Navigating Situationships and Self-Worth 40:23 Believing in Destiny and the Right Person 49:27 The Power of Self-Belief and Achieving Goals By the end of this episode, you will walk away with a deeper understanding of how loving yourself first is the ultimate step towards creating fulfilling, balanced relationships, with others and with yourself. 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! Don't forget to subscribe: www.youtube.com/@ShivaniPauPodcast KEEP IN TOUCH: 🌍 My website - www.shivanipau.com 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau/ 💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    56 mins
  • #168 Understanding Anxiety: Insights From A Leading Anxiety Therapist
    Nov 5 2024
    💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective In this weeks episode of A Millennial Mind Podcast, I sit down with anxiety expert Josh Fletcher to explore the complex world of anxiety. Anxiety is such a trending topic, it's something that a lot of us feel in our daily lives so join us as we dig deep into the various causes and symptoms of anxiety, shedding light on how it affects each and every one of us. What We Cover: What is anxiety? Symptoms of anxiety What is a panic attack and how do I deal with them? Mind & body disassociation Symptoms of agoraphobia Allowing yourself to be anxious Exposure therapy Quick fixes for anxiety Can you change your thought? Self optimisations for anxiety How to re-wire your brain 'Just in-case' mentality Anxiety in parenting Threat response Where does anxiety and control come from How setting boundaries can help with with anxiety Fawn responses Medication for anxiety Managing your inner critic The importance of rest in anxiety Intrusive thoughts What is trauma? ADHD defining and symptoms Whether you’re personally experiencing anxiety or just looking to understand it better, this conversation offers valuable insights and practical tips for managing anxiety and promoting self-growth. 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! Don't forget to subscribe: www.youtube.com/@ShivaniPauPodcast KEEP IN TOUCH: 🌍 My website - www.shivanipau.com 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau/ 💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • #167 The Uncomfortable Truth About Being Engaged with Rhona Eskander | A Millennial Mind Podcast
    Oct 30 2024
    💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective Rhona Eskander is back on the podcast but this time to talk about the truths about being engaged. Join us in this weeks episode as we dive deep into the realities and pressures of engagement! From the excitement of saying "yes" to the unexpected challenges that can arise, we explore what it truly means to be engaged. What we cover My Engagement story How long should you wait until you get engaged? Is the ring important? How much should you spend on an engagement ring? Should you have kids at your wedding? Jealousy in engagement Pressure of having a premium wedding Setting boundaries for your wedding Whether you're newly engaged, planning to be, or just curious about the journey, this episode offers mine and Rhona's perspectives and relatable experiences. Watch the episode for a mix of laughter, wisdom, and honest conversations about love and commitment! 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! Don't forget to subscribe: www.youtube.com/@ShivaniPauPodcast KEEP IN TOUCH: 🌍 My website - www.shivanipau.com 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau/ 💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • #166 Healing from Toxic Parenting with JOSH CONNOLLY | A Millennial Mind Podcast
    Oct 30 2024
    💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective This week I sit down with Josh Connolly, an export in toxic parenting, to explore the profound effects that growing up with toxic parents has on our adult lives. We delve into how negative childhood experiences shape our relationships, self-esteem, and overall mental health. What we discuss: Signs of toxic parenting and how to recognize them Somatic therapy, connecting your mind and your body Cycle of emotional and sexual abuse Long-term emotional and psychological effects Strategies for healing and breaking the cycle The effects from childhood experiences to your adult relationships How to communicate emotions to your children Building relationships with parents as an adult Setting your own boundaries How to avoid becoming a toxic parent Whether you’re navigating your own experiences or seeking to understand someone else’s, this episode offers valuable perspectives and actionable advice for healing and growth. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! Don't forget to subscribe: www.youtube.com/@ShivaniPauPodcast KEEP IN TOUCH: 🌍 My website - www.shivanipau.com 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau/ 💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • #165 Healing from Within: The Nervous System & Therapy with Louise Rumball | A Millennial Mind Podcast
    Oct 30 2024
    💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective In this episode, we delve into the intricate relationship between therapy, healing, and the nervous system. Join myself & Louise Rumball, host of the Open House podcast as we explore how understanding our nervous system can enhance the therapeutic process and facilitate deeper healing. What We Cover: The importance of therapy and the benefits its has on our mind & body The basics of the nervous system and its impact on mental health How to regulate your nervous system How trauma affects our nervous system and emotional well-being Practical strategies for healing through therapy The benefits of mindfulness and body awareness How to rewire your brain through neuroplasticity The pro's & con's of being hyper independent How to 'therapise' yourself into healing Whether you’ve experienced therapy already or just curious about the healing journey, this episode offers incredible insights to help you connect the dots between your mind and body. Don't forget to subscribe: www.youtube.com/@ShivaniPauPodcast KEEP IN TOUCH: 🌍 My website - www.shivanipau.com 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau/ 💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    54 mins
  • #164 Break Free From Your LIMITING BELIEFS | A Millennial Mind Podcast
    Oct 30 2024
    In this solo episode I explore the number one thing that hinders us from achieving our true desires: our mindset. I share my personal experiences and actionable steps to identify, challenge, and reframe limiting beliefs that hold us back. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical tips to overcome your doubts and unlock your full potential. As we approach 100k subscribers, don't forget to like, follow, and subscribe! 00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey 00:55 Step 1 02:37 Step 2 06:19 Step 3 15:42 Step 4 19:00 Step 5 Hope you all love the episode and cant wait for you to tell me about the exercise at the end! :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    23 mins
  • #165 This Is Why You Feel TRIGGERED!! Ella McCrystal | A Millennial Mind Podcast
    Oct 30 2024
    💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective I interviewed my therapist! A long awaited and highly anticipated episode. Ella McCrystal is a Psychotherapist, Clinical Hypnotherapist, EMDR CERT and coach who specialises in brain based therapy and neuroscience. In this episode, Ella reveals how to unveil trauma and do the inner self work, like creating boundaries with toxic people, so that you can live a happier and mentally healthier life. If you're looking to improve your relationships and overall well-being, this episode offers actionable insights you won’t want to miss. What we cover: 02:36 How Trauma Effects Our Bodies 10:00 Hermetic Principles (Philosophical Principles) 11:25 Unlearning Learnt Behaviour 15:20 Treating Synthetic Trauma 20:25 How To Listen To Your Intuition 25:30 Triggers, Boundaries & Perfectionism 27:58 Cutting Toxic People Out 32:54 Gaslighting 35:32 Self Validation & Accountability 38:24 Introducing & Setting Boundaries 42:19 Behaviour Mirroring 43:39 Behavioural Traits Of ADHD 49:43 Light & Torch Theory KEEP IN TOUCH: 🌍 My website - www.shivanipau.com 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau/ 💌 Join My LIVE Monthly Workshops for FREE! - https://shivani-pau.circle.so/checkout/join-the-connective Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    55 mins
  • #163 Surviving Spiking: Sharon's Journey from Love Island to Advocacy
    Sep 24 2024
    In this powerful and emotional episode of Millennial Mind, Sharon, a violence against women and girls campaigner, shares her harrowing experience of being spiked during a night out. Sharon opens up about the societal challenges women face when speaking up about such incidents, the judgment and gaslighting from healthcare professionals, and the lack of support in nightlife venues. She also discusses the broader issues of misogyny and the impact of toxic societal norms on both men and women. Sharon's story highlights the importance of having a support network, the need for better training and regulations in the night-time economy, and the urgency of making spiking a standalone crime. Her journey from a Love Island contestant to an advocate for women's safety is both inspiring and eye-opening. 00:00 The Struggles of Believing Women 00:56 Introduction to Millennial Mind 01:28 Sharon's Journey from Love Island to Activism 04:10 The Spiking Incident 06:04 The Aftermath and Lack of Support 12:14 The Broader Issue of Spiking 17:24 Challenges in Reporting and Belief 23:52 Gender Dynamics and Emotional Support 27:36 The Importance of Emotional Safety in Friendships 28:13 The Pressure on Romantic Relationships 29:22 Nightlife and Spiking Awareness 30:50 The Reality of Spiking Incidents 32:34 Men and Spiking: An Overlooked Issue 37:37 The Aftermath of Spiking: Mental Health and Support 40:47 Misogyny and Societal Perceptions 53:40 Personal Growth and Lessons Learned Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr