Episodes

  • New Parents: How to Support your Husband?
    Nov 20 2024

    "One thing Charlene allows me to be is she gives me space to say anything I need to say. Space to be and space to breathe" - Verrill Choo

    Hear from Verrill and Charlene, a pair of couples coaches, as they share that a sense of openness, a willingness to be vulnerable, and mutual trust are key to supporting each other in their journey as first-time parents.

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    Building a strong foundation is essential to having a marriage that thrives and lasts for a lifetime. If you have friends or family members getting married soon, would you share with them about the Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop?

    Through the guidance of husband-and-wife trainers, participants will learn to:

    • Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict
    • Plan and manage family finances well
    • Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance
    • Manage expectations and plan for the future (children, in-laws, work-life)

    Couples will benefit from the interactive style of learning, practical tips offered, and deep discussions about topics that are not usually raised in conversations before marriage!

    There will be two weekday online sessions and one onsite session on a Saturday. Find out the dates and workshop details here.

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    If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

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    21 mins
  • New Parents: How to Support your Wife?
    Nov 6 2024

    "Mummies, you can actually help your husband become a better husband and better dad by segregating your wife’s request vs mother's request and by being extremely specific in your communication.” - Charlene Chew

    Amidst first-time parenthood daze, what can you do to understand your wife’s needs better?

    Learn practical tips and tricks from couple coaches, Verrill and Charlene, as they share their first-time parenthood experience raising baby Judah.

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    Building a strong foundation is essential to having a marriage that thrives and lasts for a lifetime. If you have friends or family members getting married soon, would you share with them about the Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop?

    Through the guidance of husband-and-wife trainers, participants will learn to:

    • Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict
    • Plan and manage family finances well
    • Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance
    • Manage expectations and plan for the future (children, in-laws, work-life)

    Couples will benefit from the interactive style of learning, practical tips offered, and deep discussions about topics that are not usually raised in conversations before marriage!

    There will be two weekday online sessions and one onsite session on a Saturday. Find out the dates and workshop details here.

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    If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

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    23 mins
  • Counselling Feature: How do we Reconcile our Differences in Marriage?
    Oct 16 2024

    “[Couples] all have good intent, but the expression looks different… it’s helping them find common ground, [where they realise] they're actually not against each other.” – Madelin Tay

    It is inevitable for differences to arise in marriage, so how do we go about navigating them?

    Joined by Madelin Tay, a counsellor from Focus on the Family Singapore, we discuss common sources of conflict, and how couples can adopt a growth mindset to work through them. She also shares practical tips on how addressing differences constructively helps couples strengthen their bond instead of pushing them apart.

    Tune in for valuable insights on reconciling differences in marriage.

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    “I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.”

    - Tricia (Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)

    Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Fees apply.

    Find out more at www.family.org.sg/counselling.

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    If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

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    22 mins
  • Counselling Feature: On Infidelity, how do we Rebuild Trust?
    Oct 2 2024

    “The biggest element is the motivation, because if they are motivated to work on recovery, they will recover well and fast.” - Kiat Yong

    The discovery of a spouse’s affair is never a pleasant one, but the road to reconciliation and healing is possible, says Kiat Yong, a seasoned counselor with Focus on the Family Singapore. Kiat Yong delves into the emotional turmoil that both the betrayed and the betrayer experience, while giving hope to couples by clearly laying out the practical steps they can take to rebuild their marriage. Tune in to discover how couples can navigate this storm and emerge stronger!

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    “I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.” - Tricia

    (Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)


    Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Fees apply. Find our more www.family.org.sg/counselling.

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    If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

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    21 mins
  • Found the One: Navigate Tough Conversations in Marriage.
    Sep 18 2024

    “I think even just recognising within ourselves at the points that we are totally triggered and need to take a pause from this conversation...” – Grace Chua

    Navigating the ups and downs of marriage takes self-awareness, empathy, communication, and teamwork. It's no easy task, whether you're in your first year or have been married for years.

    Whether you're dating, thinking of marriage, or married for years, the insights from our three guests, Elvin & Esther Foong, founders of The Treasure Box Singapore, and Grace Ann Chua, founder of htht, will help you strengthen your bond and provide language for everyday struggles.

    Tune in to discover how to face love's challenges together!

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    A lifetime of love and romance requires intentional effort and attention. Yet in times of busyness and with overwhelming priorities to tend to, our marriages can often take a back seat. No matter the state of your relationship today, we want to help you, and your spouse thrive.

    Visit our website at www.family.org.sg/resources for articles and resources today.

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    If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

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    18 mins
  • Is This the One? Heartfelt Insights on Love, Dating, and Marriage.
    Sep 4 2024

    “Dating it's also a journey of self-discovery not just other-discoveryeven if it doesn't work out, you come out with a better awareness of who you are as a person.” -Elvin Foong

    Dating isn't just about finding the right partner—it's also a journey of self-awareness! The journey towards marriage is one which requires wisdom and perspective from older ones, courage to confront differences, and understanding another’s values and habits.

    Tune in to this episode to hear from our three guests, Elvin & Esther Foong, founders of The Treasure Box Singapore, and Grace Ann Chua, founder of htht, as they share their insights on all things dating, marriage and relationships!

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    Know of couples who are getting married soon? Do invite them to check out our upcoming Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop in November 2024.

    Husband-and-wife trainers Nam Seng & Sok Mian will help couples learn to:

    • Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict
    • Plan and manage family finances well
    • Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance
    • Manage expectations and plan for the future (children, in-laws, work-life)

    Couples will benefit from the interactive style of learning, practical tips offered, and deep discussions about topics that are not usually raised in conversations before marriage!

    Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop

    Couples can look forward to two weekday online sessions

    and one onsite session on a Saturday.

    Register Now: www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep

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    If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

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    21 mins
  • The First Year of Marriage: Managing Finances and Chores for a Harmonious Home
    Aug 14 2024

    “When you think of your household tasks as a way of loving your husband, loving your wife, investing into your shared home, it changes the perspective…” – Elyna

    Have you ever felt lost in navigating finances and division of chores in your first year of marriage? Can learning to work out these issues as a team be an opportunity for vulnerability and connection, perhaps even fun?

    Tune in to find out how Ernest and Elyna cultivate a safe space in their marriage to work through these issues with creativity and joy!

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    Looking for helpful resources to navigate your marriage? Choose from a range of articles and podcasts covering topics such as communication, intimacy, conflict resolution.

    Visit www.family.org.sg/resources/marriage and read more.

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    If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

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    27 mins
  • The First Year of Marriage: What We Wish We Knew?
    Jul 31 2024

    "If you value your marriage, you will need to often make sacrifices not to put your individual identity above the collective identity (of the family)." - Ernest Sim

    What does it take for two individual lives to come together as one unit in the beautiful union of marriage? How do two differing persons with their unique personalities, preferences and style work synergistically together to create a sum larger than its parts?

    Tune in to hear from Ernest and Elyna Sim as they discuss candidly how they adapted to life as one family unit during their first year of marriage!

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    A thriving marriage does not just happen. It takes love and effort to keep the romance alive. This September, surprise your spouse with a date where you get to discover new things about each other and deepen your connection over specially curated experiences.

    Seats are limited! Register Now at www.family.org.sg/BestDateEver!

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    If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

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    24 mins