Episodes

  • Dopey 497: Dabbing Crack and Tar with Duane Betts! Growing up Allman Brothers! MDMA, MALIBU! HEROIN! DEATH! RECOVERY!

    Dopey 497: Dabbing Crack and Tar with Duane Betts! Growing up Allman Brothers! MDMA, MALIBU! HEROIN! DEATH! RECOVERY!
    Sep 20 2024
    This Week on Dopey! We are joined by brilliant singer/songwriter/guitar player Duane Betts! Duane grew up touring with the Allman Brothers Band with his father - the legendary Dickie Betts! Duane gets super honest and raw on his childhood on tour, his life bicoastal between Malibu and Florida. Getting into music, playing in bands and how he got lost in the world of addiction and how he found himself clean, sober and enjoying his life. PLUS! Voicemails! Emails and the return of Howard 'Beach' Buksbaum! All that and more on a brand new episode of that good old Dopey Show! notes from the editor: - growing up on tour - mdma youth - living in malibu at cher's house - various music projects - malibu black tar - allman brothers and heroin - car accident while scoring crack - crack and tar dabs - finding his friend dead - crack OD - possession arrest - making him choose between family in the game lol AI NOTES: keywordsDopey Podcast, addiction, recovery, harm reduction, Dwayne Betts, music, personal stories, community support, therapy, drug culture, addiction, recovery, music, family, relationships, heroin, opiates, community, DopeyCon, Dwayne Betts takeaways David shares his struggles with addiction and love for drugs.The importance of compassion in addiction treatment is emphasized.Debate on whether harm reduction strategies enable drug use.Community support is crucial in recovery, as seen in DopeyCon.Listeners share their personal stories, highlighting the podcast's impact.Therapy is presented as a vital tool for self-care and recovery.David discusses his early experiences with drugs and music.Dwayne Betts reflects on his father's legacy and his own musical journey.The transition from fun to addiction is explored in depth.Malibu's drug culture and its influence on David's life are discussed. Addiction can lead to a tumultuous journey filled with highs and lows.Relationships often suffer due to the effects of addiction.Recovery is a personal journey that can take many forms.Music can serve as a powerful tool for healing and connection.Community support is crucial in the recovery process.Experiences with drugs can vary greatly depending on the environment.Finding purpose in life after addiction is essential for long-term recovery.The legacy of family can influence one's path in life and recovery.Engaging with others who share similar experiences can foster healing.Life can be beautiful and fulfilling after overcoming addiction. titles Celebrating Community: DopeyCon 500Harm Reduction: A Double-Edged Sword? The Role of Community in RecoveryReflections on Life After Addiction summaryIn this episode of the Dopey Podcast, David Manheim shares his personal struggles with addiction, the importance of compassion in treatment, and the ongoing debate surrounding harm reduction strategies. The conversation highlights community support through events like DopeyCon, the significance of therapy in recovery, and personal stories from listeners. David also interviews musician Dwayne Betts, discussing his father's legacy and the impact of growing up in a musical family amidst drug culture in Malibu. The episode explores the transition from fun to addiction and reflects on the challenges faced along the way. In this conversation, Dwayne Betts shares his journey through addiction, the impact it had on his relationships, and his path to recovery. He reflects on his experiences with drugs, the challenges of touring, and the importance of community and family in his life. Dwayne discusses how music has become a source of purpose and joy for him, and he emphasizes the beauty of life after addiction. The conversation also touches on the upcoming DopeyCon and the significance of community engagement in recovery. Sound Bites "I'm a junkie""Compassion and connection are two things I strive to have.""Does this enable users to go hard in the paint?""I just want this to end.""I have all of these experiences from being in nice houses.""I got probably 21." Chapters 00:00Introduction to Dopey Podcast and Personal Struggles 02:55The Role of Compassion in Addiction Treatment 05:47Debate on Harm Reduction Strategies 09:07Celebrating Milestones and Community Support 11:59Voicemail Stories and Listener Engagement 18:05The Importance of Therapy and Self-Care 20:01Personal Stories of Addiction and Recovery 27:12Interview with Dwayne Betts: Musical Legacy and Personal Journey 34:10Growing Up in a Musical Family and Early Experiences with Drugs 39:50The Transition from Fun to Addiction 49:47Reflections on Malibu Life and Drug Culture 01:07:02The Journey Through Addiction 01:12:50The Impact of Addiction on Relationships 01:20:30Finding Recovery and New Beginnings 01:30:11Life After Addiction: Music and Purpose 01:34:01Reflections on Recovery and Community 01:40:06The Legacy of Family and Music 01:46:13The Future of Dopey and Community Engagement
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    2 hrs and 13 mins
  • Tuesday Raytreon Teaser with Alan (my dad) and a Special Guest, Religion, Safe Spot, Heroin, Fentanyl Death

    Tuesday Raytreon Teaser with Alan (my dad) and a Special Guest, Religion, Safe Spot, Heroin, Fentanyl Death
    Sep 17 2024

    On this very controversial teaser my dad and our special guest join in! My Dad gives his controversial take on Safe Spot! Plus DopeyCon info and much much more!

    AI Notes:

    keywordsDopey Podcast, DopeyCon, Safe Spot Hotline, drug addiction, Patreon, father-son conversation, podcast critiques, drug safety, humor, recovery summaryIn this episode of the Dopey Podcast, David Manheim welcomes his father back to discuss various topics, including the benefits of joining their Patreon, critiques of the podcast, and a heated debate about the Safe Spot Hotline and its implications for drug users. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into the complexities of drug addiction and recovery. takeaways
    • David's dad has been listening to recent episodes.
    • Patreon offers exclusive content and discounts for DopeyCon.
    • Merchandise is a perk for Patreon subscribers.
    • David's dad provides constructive criticism of the podcast.
    • The Safe Spot Hotline is a controversial topic.
    • There are pros and cons to the Safe Spot Hotline.
    • David believes the hotline saves lives.
    • Critics argue it may enable drug use.
    • The conversation touches on personal experiences with addiction.
    • DopeyCon 500 is highly anticipated and nearly sold out.
    titles
    • The Return of Dad to Dopey
    • The Safe Spot Hotline Debate
    Sound Bites
    • "I have listened to the last three or four..."
    • "If you want to join Patreon, you go to..."
    • "Real Patreon people get all this stuff."
    Chapters 00:00Welcome Back to Dopey 03:13Patreon Benefits and DopeyCon 06:06Critiques and Improvements 08:57Safe Spot Hotline Discussion 17:47Debate on Drug Use and Safety 23:54Closing Thoughts and DopeyCon 500
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    28 mins
  • Dopey 496: Psychosis and Parenting or Mind of a Junkie pt. 2, The Return of Anders Osborne, Loss, Grateful Dead, Meth, Heroin, Suboxone, Recovery

    Dopey 496: Psychosis and Parenting or Mind of a Junkie pt. 2, The Return of Anders Osborne, Loss, Grateful Dead, Meth, Heroin, Suboxone, Recovery
    Sep 13 2024

    This week on Dopey we are joined by singer/songwriter, guitar player and all around good guy and new(ish) friend Anders Osborne! Anders and I have a fun talk about next level recovery, spirituality and some of his last days of using! Plus his time playing with Toots and the Maytals and Phil Lesh! Twas a beautiful time! PLUS voicemails, emails, DopeyCon 500, Lux Dungeon's The Muffin Man and much much much more on this brand new episode of the good old Dopey show.

    NOTE: DopeyCon 500 doors open at 4pm show starts at 4:30pm!

    Dopeycon 500 Tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031

    Patreon: whttps://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

    Here is what AI said:

    keywordsDopey, addiction, recovery, community, compassion, sobriety, music, mental health, support, personal stories summaryIn this episode of Dopey, host David Manheim discusses the importance of compassion and connection in recovery, shares listener stories, and reflects on the journey of sobriety. The conversation features musician Anders Osborne, who shares insights on purification, self-discovery, and the duality of experience in recovery. The episode emphasizes the significance of community support, the role of music in healing, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and understanding. takeaways
    • Compassion and connection are essential in recovery.
    • Community engagement is vital for celebrating milestones.
    • Listener stories highlight the struggles and triumphs of sobriety.
    • Moderation in alcohol consumption can be beneficial for some.
    • Detox experiences can be challenging but transformative.
    • Purification in recovery involves self-discovery and awareness.
    • Loss and grief can significantly impact the recovery journey.
    • Music plays a crucial role in healing and recovery.
    • Ambition can coexist with recovery but should be balanced.
    • Finding purpose through suffering can lead to personal growth.
    titles
    • The Role of Music in Healing
    • Navigating Ambition in Sobriety
    Sound Bites
    • "Compassion and connection is just the way to do it."
    • "It's gonna sell out!"
    • "Leave a five-star review on iTunes!"
    Chapters 00:00Introduction to DopeyCon and the Podcast's Mission 02:56The Importance of Compassion in Recovery 05:49Celebrating Milestones and Community Engagement 09:09Listener Stories: Struggles and Triumphs 12:04Sponsorships and Support for Recovery 14:48The Role of Moderation in Alcohol Consumption 18:07Reflections on Detox and Early Recovery Experiences 20:53Voicemail Stories: Precipitated Withdrawal 23:53Introducing Anders Osborne: A Journey Through Recovery 26:46Purification and Self-Discovery in Recovery 30:08The Impact of Loss and Grief in Recovery 33:12The Journey of Sobriety: From Darkness to Light 36:02The Role of Music in Healing and Recovery 38:54Ambition and Its Place in Recovery 41:48The Duality of Experience: Pain and Joy 44:51Finding Purpose Through Suffering 48:01The Importance of Community in Recovery 50:48Final Thoughts and Reflections on the Journey 54:08Closing Remarks and Future Aspirations

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    1 hr and 56 mins
  • Dopey Tuesday Raytreon Teaser - Serious Dumb Shit - DOPEYCON THEME SONG CHALLENGE TEASER!!!!!! with a sery Special Guest.

    Dopey Tuesday Raytreon Teaser - Serious Dumb Shit - DOPEYCON THEME SONG CHALLENGE TEASER!!!!!! with a sery Special Guest.
    Sep 10 2024

    This week on the teaser we are joined by a special guest! He doesn't like when i put his name in the description. We talk all about his plan of making a Banana Ball song! Just listen to the thing...

    Here is what AI said....

    summaryThis episode of Dopey Tuesday Teaser discusses DopeyCon, the DopeyCon theme song challenge, and Ray's involvement in the Banana Ball game. The hosts also talk about their songs and their plans for DopeyCon. The conversation touches on various topics such as addiction, music, and pop culture. keywordsDopey, DopeyCon, theme song challenge, Banana Ball, addiction, music, pop culture takeaways
    • DopeyCon is an upcoming event that the hosts are excited about
    • The DopeyCon theme song challenge is happening on Patreon
    • Ray is involved in the Banana Ball game and has written a song about it
    • The hosts discuss their songs and plans for DopeyCon
    titles
    • Songs and Plans for DopeyCon
    • Ray's Involvement in Banana Ball
    Sound Bites
    • "DopeyCon is coming. It's our fifth DopeyCon. It's October 5th. It's in New York City."
    • "We will put up all the songs on Dopey Patreon, and the one with the most likes wins."
    • "Dopey con is October 5th. Yeah, do you have a song? No, you don't have a song. What's your plan?"
    Chapters 00:00Introduction and DopeyCon 05:05DopeyCon Theme Song Challenge 08:13Ray's Involvement in Banana Ball 09:11Songs and Plans for DopeyCon

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    20 mins
  • Dopey 495: Smoking Crack, Drunk and Homeless to Cookie Millionaire -Janie (Deegan)'s Life Changing Baked Goods, Crack, Booze, Recovery

    Dopey 495: Smoking Crack, Drunk and Homeless to Cookie Millionaire -Janie (Deegan)'s Life Changing Baked Goods, Crack, Booze, Recovery
    Sep 6 2024
    This week on Dopey! We are joined by Cookie Magnate, creator of Janie's Life Changing Baked Goods - Janie Deegan! Janie might be the feel good Dopey of the year - a drunk and homeless New Yorker who saved her soul by making cookies! Janie's story starts off innocently enough before she tumbles down the stairs of total rock bottom insanity! Plus there are multiple voicemails, emails and much more on this sad, salty but ultimately super sweet new episode of the good old Dopey Show! AI Notes: summaryJanie Deegan, the founder of Janie's life-changing baked goods, joins the podcast to discuss her journey and the impact of her baked goods. She shares how she got sober at 25 and became a superintendent in the East Village. Janie also talks about her early experiences with alcohol and the thrill of drinking as a teenager. The conversation touches on the challenges of production and the potential collaboration between Janie's Cookies and Katz's Deli. Overall, the episode explores Janie's life-changing baked goods and her personal journey. Janie reflects on her early experiences with alcohol and drugs, from feeling like an outsider in her teenage years to finding her identity in partying. She discusses her codependent and abusive relationship in college, where she turned to alcohol as a way to cope. After graduating, she moved back to Ann Arbor and her alcoholism escalated, leading to financial and personal problems. Janie's behavior became increasingly out of control, causing concern among her friends and family. After experiencing the emotional bottom of her alcoholism, Janie enters a period of darkness and depression. She meets a sober guy who becomes a bright spot in her life, but she is unable to maintain a relationship with him due to her drinking. Janie's drinking escalates, leading to consequences and interventions from her friends and family. She goes through multiple rehab programs and detoxes, but struggles to fully commit to sobriety. Eventually, she ends up in a shelter and then in a therapeutic community on the Upper West Side. Janie Deegan shares her incredible journey from addiction and homelessness to becoming a successful entrepreneur. She talks about her experiences in rehab, her struggles with sobriety, and how baking became her outlet and passion. Janie's story is a testament to the power of resilience, determination, and finding purpose in life. keywordsJanie Deegan, Janie's life-changing baked goods, sobriety, alcohol, East Village, production challenges, collaboration, Katz's Deli, alcohol, drugs, identity, codependency, abuse, college, partying, coping, addiction, Ann Arbor, alcoholism, emotional bottom, depression, sober relationship, consequences, interventions, rehab, detox, shelter, therapeutic community, addiction, homelessness, sobriety, entrepreneurship, baking, resilience, determination, purpose takeaways Janie Deegan got sober at 25 and became a superintendent in the East Village.She had early experiences with alcohol, including drinking from her parents' liquor cabinet and attending a Halloween party in the West Village.Janie's life-changing baked goods have had a significant impact on her life and the community.The potential collaboration between Janie's Cookies and Katz's Deli is discussed.The episode highlights the challenges of production and the importance of finding the right business plan and vendors. Janie's early experiences with alcohol and drugs were influenced by her desire to fit in and escape her anxiety and low self-esteem.Her codependent and abusive relationship in college further fueled her reliance on alcohol as a coping mechanism.Moving back to Ann Arbor after college intensified Janie's alcoholism, leading to financial and personal problems.Janie's behavior became increasingly out of control, causing concern among her friends and family. Alcoholism can lead to a period of darkness and depressionHaving a support system and a sober relationship can provide hope and motivation for recoveryConsequences and interventions from friends and family can be catalysts for changeRehab programs and detoxes may not be effective without a genuine commitment to sobrietyHomelessness and living in a shelter can be a reality for individuals struggling with addiction Resilience and determination are key in overcoming addiction and rebuilding one's life.Finding a passion or creative outlet can be instrumental in the recovery process.Being authentic and embracing one's story can inspire and help others.Support and mentorship from others can make a significant difference in one's journey to recovery.Building a successful business requires hard work, perseverance, and a willingness to take risks. titles The Thrill of Drinking as a TeenagerFrom Superintendent to Baker: Janie Deegan's Journey The Downward Spiral in Ann ArborConcerns from Friends and Family The Challenges of Committing to SobrietyNavigating Homelessness and Shelters in Addiction Finding Purpose and Passion in Baking: ...
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    2 hrs and 31 mins
  • Dopey Tuesday Teaser! Handsome Evan Get's Busted Rolling A Blunt with Subs! Plus a Paranoid LSD Story!

    Dopey Tuesday Teaser! Handsome Evan Get's Busted Rolling A Blunt with Subs! Plus a Paranoid LSD Story!
    Sep 3 2024

    This week on the Teaser! Evan gets busted for rolling a blunt whilst having suboxone! PLUS meal plans! PLUS LSD shenanigans and much more!

    Join Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

    DopeyCon Tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031

    What AI THINKS:

    summary: In this episode of Dopey the podcast, Dave talks about his recent food choices and the upcoming Dopeycon event. He also plays a voicemail from a listener sharing a story about a drug-induced reality shift. Dave and Evan then have a conversation about Lake Ronkonkoma and share some personal stories. The episode ends with a song and a shoutout to a listener. keywordsDopey podcast, food choices, Dopeycon, voicemail, drug-induced reality shift, Lake Ronkonkoma, personal stories, song, shoutout takeaways
    • Dave shares his recent food choices and talks about barbecuing chicken thighs and air frying cauliflower
    • Dopeycon is an upcoming sober cultural event with various guests and influencers
    • A listener shares a story about a drug-induced reality shift
    • Dave and Evan discuss Lake Ronkonkoma and share personal stories
    • The episode ends with a song and a shoutout to a listener
    titles
    • Food Choices and Cooking Habits
    • A Song and Shoutout to a Listener
    Sound Bites
    • "I just made a banana peanut butter and chocolate powder protein smoothie and it was really good"
    • "Dopeycon looks to be the sober cultural event of the year, if not the decade"
    • "I'd been drinking all day with my boyfriend at the time and we went to go get a bag from one of our dealers"
    Chapters 00:00Food Choices and Cooking Habits 02:14Dopeycon: The Sober Cultural Event 05:07A Listener's Drug-Induced Reality Shift 11:17Stories and Memories of Lake Ronkonkoma 20:59A Song and Shoutout to a Listener
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    23 mins
  • Dopey 494: The World's Greatest Storyteller with Steve Poltz; Bong Hits for Indegestion and Prehistoric Cocaine! Plus Spirituality with Thuann!

    Dopey 494: The World's Greatest Storyteller with Steve Poltz; Bong Hits for Indegestion and Prehistoric Cocaine! Plus Spirituality with Thuann!
    Aug 30 2024
    This week on Dopey! We are reunited with Dopey Legend, Folk Singer, Comedy Genius and Super Naturally Good Story Teller Steve Poltz! Steve plays tunes and takes us on a journey to the optimist and pessimist inside! PLUS the tackle box full of drugs and how Steve maintains his sunny disposition! Next Thuan from Mountainside is back to share with us how spirituality works and how it can be accessed! PLUS voicemails, emails and much more on this brand new, good timey episode of that Good Old Dopey Show! AI SAYS: summaryDavid Manheim shares his morning routine of eating oats and drinking coffee, and discusses his positive outlook on life and his love for people. He talks about building his career from gig to gig and the importance of staying grateful. David also mentions the impact of the Dopey Nation and the sense of community it has created. Steve Poults shares his practice of declaring every show as the greatest show he's ever played, and how it brings joy to both him and the audience. He emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and enjoying the journey rather than focusing on external success. The conversation also touches on the pressure to always be positive and the occasional moments of doubt or sadness. David and Steve discuss their love for connecting with people and spreading positivity through their music and interactions. In this part of the conversation, Steve Poltz shares a deeply personal story about the tragic death of his friend due to drug addiction. He also discusses his own struggles with addiction and how it led him to quit drinking. The conversation touches on themes of loss, forgiveness, and the fragility of life. Steve also talks about his love for music and his experiences as a musician. Overall, the conversation is a mix of light-hearted moments and profound reflections on addiction and recovery. In this episode, David and Tuan discuss spirituality and its role in recovery. They explore the concept of higher power and how it can be accessed through various practices. Tuan shares his daily spiritual routine, including meditation, attending meetings, and using a mindfulness bell app. They also touch on the idea of quantum jumping and the importance of living a life centered around spiritual principles. The episode ends with a call for musicians to submit songs for the upcoming DopeyCon theme song contest. keywordsmorning routine, positivity, career, gratitude, Dopey Nation, greatest show, pressure, doubt, sadness, connection, spreading positivity, addiction, drug addiction, loss, forgiveness, fragility of life, music, musician, recovery, spirituality, higher power, recovery, meditation, meetings, mindfulness, quantum jumping, spiritual principles, DopeyCon takeaways Having a positive outlook on life and spreading positivity can bring joy to oneself and others.Building a career from gig to gig and staying grateful for the opportunities can lead to organic growth and fulfillment.The Dopey Nation and the sense of community it has created can provide support and inspiration for those in recovery.It's important to be true to oneself and enjoy the journey rather than focusing solely on external success.While it's natural to experience moments of doubt or sadness, maintaining a positive mindset and connecting with others can help overcome these challenges. Addiction can have devastating consequences, leading to the loss of loved ones and personal struggles.Quitting one substance may be necessary to break the cycle of addiction and prevent further harm.Music can be a powerful outlet for expressing emotions and connecting with others.Forgiveness is an important part of the healing process, both for oneself and for others.Life is fragile, and it's important to appreciate the present moment and make choices that prioritize well-being. Spirituality can be accessed through various practices and beliefs, such as meditation, attending meetings, and living by spiritual principles.A higher power can be a person, nature, or the universe, and it can provide guidance and support in recovery.Being aware of and utilizing spirituality in moments of vulnerability can help bring ease and peace.Living a life centered around love, compassion, gratitude, and humility can contribute to a more spiritual existence.Musicians are encouraged to submit songs for the DopeyCon theme song contest. titles The Dopey Nation: A Community of Support and InspirationEmbracing the Journey: Finding Fulfillment in the Present Moment The Power of ForgivenessEmbracing the Fragility of Life Calling for Musicians: DopeyCon Theme Song ContestExploring Spirituality and Higher Power in Recovery Sound Bites "Every day when I wake up, I go, this is the greatest day.""I love people that are the addicts. I love them. I love them so much.""Brand new song.""I probably would still be drinking today had I not discovered my love of cocaine.""Once you go into crack, it's a dark world.""Life is a thing where you just think about, you ...
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    2 hrs and 20 mins
  • Dopey Tuesday Teaser! Oasis Reunion! Liam and Noel on Crystal Meth! PCP, Weed, MDMA Cormac Chemical Corner with Selby!

    Dopey Tuesday Teaser! Oasis Reunion! Liam and Noel on Crystal Meth! PCP, Weed, MDMA Cormac Chemical Corner with Selby!
    Aug 27 2024

    This Tuesday is classic old school dumb shit. Me yelling at the Subway sandwich maker, fumbling and bumbling. We hear a Dopey story all about Oasis and their impending reunion. Plus we hear a tease from the PATREON show with Cormac and Selby all about weed, PCP and more on this Tuesday Patreon Teaser! PLUS DOPEYCON 2024 tickets are on sale at https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031

    Discounted Tickets on Patreon at:

    https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

    AI STUFF:

    summaryIn this episode, Dave talks about DopeyCon 2024, his love for Oasis, and shares some personal stories. He also discusses his early experiences with drugs and selling drugs in college. The conversation touches on topics such as drug business sense, the sacredness of psychedelics, and the effects of excessive drug use. keywordsDopeyCon 2024, Oasis, drugs, addiction, personal stories, drug business, psychedelics, excessive drug use takeaways
    • Tickets for DopeyCon 2024 are available to non-patrons
    • Dave shares his love for Oasis and their reunion
    • He talks about his early experiences with drugs and selling drugs in college
    • The conversation explores drug business sense and the sacredness of psychedelics
    • Dave reflects on the effects of excessive drug use
    titles
    • Dave's Love for Oasis
    • DopeyCon 2024 and the Lineup
    Sound Bites
    • "Tickets for DopeyCon 2024 are available to non-patrons"
    • "The big news is that Oasis got back together"
    • "It totally changed my life forever"
    Chapters 00:00DopeyCon 2024 and the Lineup 05:03Dave's Love for Oasis 13:44Early Experiences with Drugs and Selling 16:16Drug Business Sense and the Sacredness of Psychedelics 18:41The Effects of Excessive Drug Use
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    22 mins