For this Very Special Episode, we answer questions from listeners about relationships, happiness, habits, reading, writing, and working together as sisters.

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• Elizabeth is reading: Colored Television by Danzy Senna (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Gretchen is reading: A Stitch in Time by Penelope Lively (Amazon, Bookshop)

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Through two brilliant tourism campaigns—Nebraska's "Honestly, it's not for everyone" and Oslo's “Is it even a city?”--we discover the surprising power of embracing what others might see as flaws. These campaigns reveal a liberating truth: What some see as drawbacks, others may view as advantages. It's a reminder that we're often at our most appealing when we tell truth.

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We’re bringing you my conversation with David Duchovny on his podcast, Fail Better. We talk action-led thoughts and aphorisms — anything in pursuit of leaving a conversation feeling happy.

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We explore how advice meant for college freshmen—from practical packing tips to strategies for making friends—can benefit all of us. (Special guest: Gretchen’s daughter, currently a college freshman.) We also offer suggestions for a Rebel who struggles with late-night snacking, and share hacks for being a considerate houseguest and for getting more pleasure of reading.

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• Happier in Hollywood Substack newsletter
• Happiness Project shop
• "Five Things" newsletter
• Four Tendencies quiz
• Elizabeth is reading: Shred Sisters by Betsy Lerner (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Gretchen is reading: The Crow Trap by Ann Cleeves (Amazon, Bookshop)

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Through two seemingly unrelated pursuits—following the Knicks and visiting the Met—we discover a surprising truth. When we're casual observers, things appears fixed and permanent, like basketball's rules or a museum's "permanent" collection. But as we look closer and learn more, we discover that what seemed unchanging is actually in constant flux.

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For the Happier Podcast Book Club we’re revisiting our conversation with our friend and bestselling author Kate Bowler about her moving, funny, thought-provoking new memoir, “No Cure for Being Human.” In this wide-ranging chat we discuss her writing process, work as a “calling” vs “career” and why we can be more honest in writing than we can out loud.

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• • #Read25in25
  • Elizabeth is listening to: Under the Banner of Heaven by Jon Krakauer (Amazon, Bookshop)
  • Gretchen is reading: Zen Inklings by Donald Richie (Amazon)
  • No Cure for Being Human: And Other Truths I Need to Hear (Amazon, Bookshop).

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We discuss why and how we might try to make one new friend in 2025—a huge happiness booster. We also explore two creative happiness hacks that make it easier to stick to a habit of walking. Plus we tackle a fascinating Four Tendencies question about managing a Questioner spouse's barrage of daily questions, and we delve into how people differ in remembering their past experiences, comparing "snapshot" versus "movie" memory styles.

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• “The Paradox of Purpose: Those We Support Become Our Strength”
• Secrets of Adulthood
• Memento Keepsake Journal
• One-Sentence Journal
• Four Tendencies hub
• Elizabeth is reading: Look Closer by David Ellis (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Gretchen is reading: When Mrs. Coverlet Was Away by Mary Nash (Amazon)

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Andy Warhol's observation of stars Edie Sedgwick and Judy Garland reveals a surprising truth about why some people are drawn to those surrounded by constant drama. What seems like a flaw—perpetual chaos and drama—can actually be an attraction, offering others an escape from their own problems by becoming absorbed in someone else's compelling crisis.

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