How well did you sleep last night?

Do you wake up feeling rested?

Today, Jay welcomes renowned neuroscientist, sleep expert, and bestselling author Dr. Matthew Walker to unpack the profound importance of sleep and how it shapes every facet of our health and wellbeing. Bestselling author of Why We Sleep, Dr. Matthew Walker brings scientific rigor and heartfelt clarity to one of the most misunderstood and underestimated aspects of our lives.

Matthew opens the discussion by challenging the myth of the 'eight-hour rule.' While the average adult does best with seven to nine hours of sleep, the focus quickly shifts beyond just duration. Instead, Matthew introduces a more holistic four part framework—Quantity, Quality, Regularity, and Timing, or QQRT. This framework highlights how sleep is not simply about how long one sleeps, but also how deeply, how consistently, and how well it aligns with our natural biological rhythms.

Jay and Matthew's conversation also tackles common disruptors of restorative sleep, including caffeine, alcohol, and excessive exposure to artificial light. Dr. Walker discusses how these elements can interfere with the brain’s ability to enter deep and REM sleep, the latter being especially important for emotional processing, hormonal regulation, and memory consolidation. Sleep, it turns out, influences far more than individual health.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Know If You’re Getting Enough Sleep

How to Improve Sleep Using the QQRT Formula

How to Align Your Sleep With Your Body’s Internal Clock

How to Avoid Waking Up Tired Every Morning

How to Optimize Your Evening Routine for Better Sleep

How to Fall Back Asleep After Waking Up at Night

How to Diagnose Sleep Apnea at Home

With scientific insight and practical wisdom, the episode paints a vivid picture of how sleep, when prioritized and protected, can serve as a catalyst for healing, clarity, and sustainable energy.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:12 The Four Metrics That Define Great Sleep

06:03 Can You Actually Change Your Sleep Cycle?

09:45 Why You Wake Up Tired—Even After a Full Night’s Sleep

14:29 What Sleep Apnea Really Is and Why It’s Often Missed

19:21 The Body-Wide Damage Caused by Sleep Loss

23:20 The Hormone That Increases Late-Night Cravings

28:42 Best Types of Food to Eat Before Bed

33:48 How Late-Night Eating Disrupts Your Sleep Rhythm

37:23 The Truth About Melatonin Supplements

40:47 Should You Give Melatonin To Your Children?

44:25 The Evolution of Sleeping Pills Explained

52:36 The Best Nighttime Routine For Optimal Sleep

55:07 Three Practical Tricks to Fall Back Asleep

01:04:58 What It Really Takes to Clear Caffeine From Your System

01:08:01 Surprising Health Benefits of Drinking Coffee

01:10:02 How Alcohol Quietly Ruins Your Sleep

01:13:06 Can Sleeping Well Actually Make you More Successful?

01:16:40 The Real Risks of Losing Just One Hour of Sleep

01:21:16 What Regular Sleep and a Digital Detox Can Do For Your Life

01:22:45 Why Weekend “Catch-Up” Sleep Doesn’t Work

01:24:09 The Overlooked Link Between Sleep and Mental Health

01:27:32 How Poor Sleep Fuels Loneliness and Disconnection

01:30:58 Why Self-Forgiveness Might Be the Ultimate Sleep Tool

Episode Resources:

Matthew Walker | Website

Matthew Walker | Instagram

Matthew Walker | LinkedIn

Matthew Walker | X

The Matt Walker Podcast

Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams

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How do you know when someone is truly right for you?

Have you ever confused attention for love?

In this special crossover episode, Jay Shetty steps out of his usual host role and joins media personality Tinx on her podcast, Office Hours, for a candid and profoundly enriching conversation. Jay opens up about his journey with meditation, relationships, and personal well-being. He breaks meditation down into simple, approachable practices like breathwork, visualization, and mantra, making it accessible to anyone who’s ever felt like they ‘can’t meditate.’

Jay and Tinx go deeper, unpacking the digital overwhelm of the constant pings, nonstop news, and the pressure of staying connected. Jay shares practical strategies for reclaiming your peace, especially in the crucial first moments of the day. From changing how we wake up to choosing when and how we consume news, he emphasizes building rituals that foster clarity rather than chaos.

Jay explains the concept of love through the three key relationship types: the firework, the candle, and the mirror. He challenges the idea of “one soulmate,” suggesting instead that the people we attract reflect where we are in our own growth and emotional state. The conversation is filled with insight into how to find peace in your singlehood, develop a deeper understanding of yourself, and create a life that naturally attracts meaningful connection.

In this conversation, you'll learn:

How to Start Meditating When You Feel Stuck

How to Use Breathwork to Calm Anxiety Instantly

How to Build a Tech-Free Morning Routine

How to Consume News Without Feeling Overwhelmed

How to Create Real Human Connection in a Digital World

Remember, peace shouldn't be something you have to chase—it’s something you can create, right here, right now.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:48 Building Purpose Through the Calm Community

03:38 Struggling with Meditation? Start Here

08:26 Simple Breathing Practice to Calm Your Mind

11:05 Managing News and Notifications Without Losing Peace

18:16 Inside Jay’s Grounding Morning Routine

23:14 The Interview That Changed Jay’s Perspective

25:09 When Interviews Get Deep and Emotional

27:06 Must-Listen Episodes to Start With

29:48 Jay’s Ultimate Dream Guest Revealed

30:36 The Three Types of Love You’ll Experience

34:25 How Jay Met His Wife, Radhi

35:43 What to Look For When Searching for Love

44:37 The Root of Desperation in Dating

45:27 What to Expect from the On Purpose Live Tour

46:46 Preparing Mentally and Physically for Live Shows

48:55 Jay’s Favorite Guilty Pleasures

Episode Resources:

Tinx | Podcast

Tinx | Instagram

Tinx | TikTok

Hotter in the Hamptons

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Do you feel guilty when you put your needs before others by saying no?

When was the last time you chose yourself—just because you needed it, not because you earned it?

Today, Jay is joined by Meggan Roxanne, writer, entrepreneur, and founder of the globally loved platform The Good Quote. Known for curating some of the internet’s most powerful and inspiring affirmations, Meggan now steps into the spotlight with her own voice, sharing a remarkable personal story of loss, resilience, and transformation.

From growing up in a warm and loving home to experiencing a heart-wrenching moment at just four years old, when a grandparent told her they didn’t love her, Meggan opens up about how early trauma shaped her emotional world. Following her mother’s final wish, Meggan became the caretaker for her estranged grandfather, the very man who once wounded her deeply. Through that act of grace, she discovered the true meaning of forgiveness, empathy, and unconditional love.

Throughout the episode, Meggan and Jay explore the difference between people-pleasing and creating space for authentic connection, how emotional boundaries protect our well-being, and what it takes to stop repeating the pain we’ve inherited. She candidly discusses the challenges of grief, especially after losing her mother, her best friend, her guide, and how that loss forced her to reimagine her identity and rebuild from the ground up.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Deeply

How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty

How to Heal After Losing a Parent

How to Reconnect with Your Intuition

How to Break Generational Cycles of Trauma

How to Build Confidence Through Self-Respect

Even in the darkest of seasons, you have the power to find peace, reshape your path, and step into a life guided by intention, healing, and light.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:30 The Pain of Feeling Unloved by Family

04:12 Would You Take Care of Someone Who Doesn't Love You?

10:20 How Do You Enforce Your Boundaries?

16:20 Are You a Chronic People Pleaser?

23:06 How The Good Quote Started

34:59 Do You Trust Your Intuition?

43:49 Your Intuition is Your Best Guide

45:20 How Do You Reconnect with Your Intuition?

50:52 How Meditation Helps Calm Down Your Day

53:10 Dealing with Grief, Depression, & Losing a Loved One

Episode Resources:

Meggan Roxanne | Instagram

Meggan Roxanne | LinkedIn

The Good Quote | Instagram

The Good Quote | Facebook

The Good Quote | Tumblr

How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER. Stop People-Pleasing, Set Boundaries, and Heal from Self-Sabotage

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Does anything in your life feel a little “off” right now?

Do you feel like you're settling for less than you deserve?

Today, Jay sits down with Sadia Khan, psychotherapist and relationship expert, for a deep and unfiltered conversation on love, commitment, and emotional healing in the modern age. Known for her bold and counterintuitive insights, Sadia brings clarity to the often murky waters of dating, self-worth, and relationship dynamics.

Sadia shares her powerful perspective on the importance of being able to walk away from disrespect, and how this one shift can transform who you attract and how you're treated. She challenges conventional dating advice by focusing not on what you attract—but what you entertain—highlighting the role of self-esteem in relationship choices. She explains why emotional unavailability feels attractive, how ghosting reflects poor communication habits, and why your dating app rejection might not be what you think it is.

Jay and Sadia dive into the core issues many of her clients face, including infidelity, fear of commitment, and men struggling with masculinity. She unpacks how a lack of male role models, the ability to set boundaries, and people-pleasing behaviors can derail modern masculinity—and how both men and women can break these cycles to build healthier love.

Sadia introduces the "Three A’s" women need to fall in love—Attraction, Admiration, and Adoration—and the "Three L’s" men need—Lust, Labor, and Loyalty—exploring how balance in these elements creates deep, lasting connection. She also breaks down why women might cheat on “nice” men and how misunderstanding emotional needs can lead to betrayal.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to Attract and Maintain Healthy Relationships.

Why Self-Worth is the Foundation of Love.

How to Avoid the Trap of Emotional Immaturity.

What Makes Men and Women Truly Commit.

The Real Reasons Behind Infidelity.

How to Build Masculine Strength in a Healthy Way.

Why Peace is Better than Constant Pleasure in Love.

This conversation is a masterclass in emotional intelligence and healing. If you're navigating heartbreak, struggling with self-worth, or seeking a deep, lasting relationship—this episode is for you.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:17 How to Stop Fearing Conflict and Start Choosing Yourself

02:24 Why We Fall for the Emotionally Unavailable

05:31 The Hidden Dangers of Dating Apps

07:01 Is Wanting Similarity the Same as Settling?

08:40 How to Stop Getting Ghosted in Modern Dating

09:31 The Early Signs of a Healthy Relationship

11:19 The Two Most Common Relationship Struggles: Infidelity and Commitment

12:19 What Happens When Men Lack Masculinity

15:25 Why Men Need Stronger Role Models

18:21 The Unspoken Contract Behind People-Pleasing

19:25 How to Show Love Without Seeking Approval

21:12 The Real Reason Women Cheat on Good Men

24:55 How to Teach Others How to Treat You

26:14 The Three A’s Every Woman Needs to Fall in Love

32:45 The Three L’s Every Man Needs to Stay in Love

36:10 How to Avoid Being Just a Temporary Fling

37:49 Why the Person You Date Isn’t Always the One You Marry

40:42 Sexual Discipline: Why It’s Essential for Self-Respect

42:29 What True Psychological Intimacy Really Looks Like

45:15 Lowering Your Standards May Cost You More Than You Think

46:10 Is Getting Cheated On Ever Partly Your Fault?

48:59 How to Recognize When You’re Being Disrespected

50:13 Are You Loyal to the Marriage or Just the Person?

52:45 The Most Honest Marriage Vow No One Talks About

56:50 Why Some Men Keep Choosing the Wrong Women

59:40 How to Know If You’re Afraid of Commitment

01:04:23 Can a Broken Relationship Be Fixed?

01:06:59 Why Knowing Your Deal Breakers Is Crucial

01:09:03 The Worst Thing to Say to Someone After a Breakup

01:09:56 Why So Many People Stay Stuck in Heartbreak

01:11:43 How to Find Closure Without an Apology

01:15:59 Not Everything You Want Is Good for You

01:66:54 Sadia on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Sadia Khan | Website

Sadia Khan | Instagram

Sadia Khan | TikTok

Sadia Khan | YouTube

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What’s been on your mind today?

Do you ever catch yourself spiraling with negative thoughts?

Today, Jay dives into the everyday negative thoughts we all wrestle with—and how we can stop letting them control us. Whether it's replaying awkward moments, spiraling into self-doubt, or feeling stuck in patterns of fear and criticism, negativity can quietly undermine our confidence and cloud our perspective. But what if those thoughts were just noise—and you didn’t have to carry them anymore?

In this episode, Jay shares seven transformative steps to help you build a healthier, more resilient relationship with your mind. Rooted in both spiritual insight and modern science, Jay walks you through powerful shifts—like recognizing your thoughts without letting them define you, challenging your inner critic with evidence, and reframing your day-to-day experiences with intention. With the clarity of a teacher and the care of a friend, Jay helps you see that awareness is not just the first step—it’s your greatest protection.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Stop Believing Every Negative Thought

How to Challenge Thoughts That Aren’t True

How to Use Mindfulness to Calm Mental Overload

How to Build a Mental Shield Against Criticism and Stress

We can’t always stop negative thoughts from showing up, but we can learn to move through them with clarity, self-kindness, and strength—one thought at a time.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discussed:

00:00 Intro

01:06 How Do You Deal With Negative Thoughts?

02:20 #1: Recognize and Acknowledge Your Thoughts

07:30 #2: Challenge Your Negative Thoughts

11:22 #3: Start Reframing Your Thoughts

15:52 #4: Practice Mindfulness and Meditation

18:14 #5: Engage in Joyful Activities

20:12 #6: Look After Your Body

21:28 #7: Limit Your Exposure to Negativity

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Have you ever thought about investing before?

What would you do if you could invest without needing experience?

Today, Jay sits down with Vlad Tenev, CEO and Co-Founder of Robinhood, the revolutionary financial platform that brought commission-free investing to millions. Vlad shares his fascinating journey from being a first-generation immigrant from Bulgaria to building a company that redefined access to investing.

Vlad shares candid reflections on his childhood, marked by resilience and an acute financial awareness. He recounts pivotal moments, from immigrating to the U.S. during Bulgaria's economic turmoil to his early fascination with math and finance. Vlad also shares how he manages stress and stays grounded while navigating the demands of leading a high-impact, rapidly evolving company.

Jay and Vlad dive deep into the origins of Robinhood, exploring how the platform sought to democratize investing by eliminating barriers like account minimums and trading fees. Vlad highlights the company’s commitment to innovation and its mission to empower everyday investors. He also shares lessons learned from Robinhood's challenges, including the high-profile GameStop incident, and reflects on the importance of transparency, authenticity, and adapting to evolving market conditions.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build Financial Knowledge Early

How to Balance Work and Wellness Daily

How to Innovate in a Crowded Market

How to Use Feedback to Improve Products

How to Overcome Fear of Investing Mistakes

How to Scale a Business for Long-Term Success

How to Prioritize Customers' Needs in Business

Change can be a powerful and uplifting journey when approached with self-compassion and intention. The power to transform is already within you—let it shine.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:19 Learning the Value of Money at a Young Age

05:50 Reuniting with Parents After Years Apart

09:13 Challenges Faced by Young Immigrants in School

13:57 How Math Became a Gateway to Academic Success

19:00 The Inspiration Behind the Name Robinhood

21:29 A Look Back at the First-Ever Investment

24:32 The Benefits of Starting Young in Business

25:26 The Role of IQ in Early Achievement

29:27 Witnessing the Collapse of the Financial World

34:42 Investing in Crypto Before the Hype

36:58 Starting an Investment Journey with Just $10

39:40 Common Mistakes New Investors Should Avoid

43:45 Choosing Companies That Build Everyday Products

47:52 How AI Is Reshaping Financial Services

50:49 Renting vs Buying in Today’s Economy

55:06 The $72 Trillion Wealth Transfer Explained

57:09 Breaking Barriers to Financial Access

58:25 Rethinking Retirement and Long-Term Planning

01:01:17 Offering a Smarter Approach to Retirement Savings

01:02:36 Robinhood in the Media: What They Got Right (and Wrong)

01:05:15 Representing a Company in the Public Eye

01:09:31 Transforming the Customer Experience from the Inside Out

01:12:46 How Mistakes Shape Company Growth

01:13:46 The Pitfalls of Premature Optimization

01:14:59 Inflation, Interest Rates, and the 2022 Reset

01:20:21 Enhancing the Experience for Active Traders

01:24:46 Making Professional-Grade Trading More Accessible

01:27:00 Prioritizing Customer Needs to Solve Core Issues

01:28:16 Managing the Pressure of Negative Publicity

01:31:38 Balancing Leadership with Personal Life

01:35:19 Navigating Marriage and Work as a Founder

01:36:26 Rethinking the Traditional Credit Card Model

01:40:52 Vlad on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Vlad Tenev | LinkedIn

Robinhood

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When was the last time you looked back and thought, “If only I knew this earlier”?

In this episode, Jay shares the seven life-changing lessons he wishes he’d learned in his teens and twenties—insights that could have reshaped his relationships, career, peace of mind, and sense of purpose. These aren’t just reflections; they’re powerful revelations most of us only discover through struggle, heartbreak, or burnout.

Jay dives into what it truly means to speak with intention, to know when it’s time to let go, and to stop outsourcing your self-worth. From learning to stay quiet in a world that rewards noise to realizing that boundaries are an act of self-love—each lesson is a powerful reminder that growth isn’t always about adding more, but about releasing what no longer serves you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why Saying Less Makes Your Words Matter More.

Knowing When It’s Time to Walk Away

Why You Should Talk To People, Not About Them.

What Stress Reveals About a Person’s True Nature.

How to Raise Your Standards Without Guilt.

Why Some People Miss the Old You (for the Wrong Reasons).

How to Stop Absorbing Others' Emotions and Expectations.

This episode is for anyone feeling stuck, overlooked, or overwhelmed. Jay reminds you that you don’t get what you deserve — you get what you accept. And that sometimes the most powerful transformation happens when you choose peace over performance, presence over perfection, and truth over approval.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discussed:

00:00 Intro

01:37 Things I Wish I Knew

03:27 Lesson #1: Speak Less, Say More

11:57 Lesson #2: Let Go Before It Drags You Down

17:34 Lesson #3: Talk to Your Partner, Not About Them

21:43 Lesson #4: Understand the Whole Person, Not Just the Parts You Like

28:05 Lesson #5: You Get What You Tolerate, Not What You Deserve

32:52 Lesson #6: People Cling to the Old You Because It Was Easier to Control

36:22 Lesson #7: “Bad at Texting” Often Means You're Not a Priority

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