• 048 // Plan, Prioritize, and Meet Each Other's Needs: Why My Husband and I Started Daily Toolbox Meetings When He’s Home.
    Nov 18 2024

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    Hey Mama!

    Are you and your partner often missing the mark on each other’s needs and expectations? And one or both of you is left feeling frustrated or resentful when things don't go accordingly? In today’s episode, we dive into a game-changer for getting on the same page with your partner during his time home—“Toolbox Meetings.” This simple morning check-in practice has helped us prioritize each other’s needs and align our day so that we’re working as a team. Toolbox meetings are designed to make space for open communication, from planning daily tasks to sharing emotional and logistical needs, so no one is left feeling resentful or unheard. Tune in to learn how you can implement this strategy to strengthen your relationship, get on the same page, and make the most of your precious family time together!

    Always wishing you well,

    xo

    Heidi

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  • 047 // 5-Minute Daily Practice to Align and Become Your Ideal Self
    Nov 11 2024

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    Hey Mama!

    Want to get into better shape, live a healthier lifestyle, or become a more calm, patient, and loving mom? In this episode of Solo & So Well, we’re exploring the transformative power of spending just five minutes a day imagining your ideal self. This simple daily visualization technique is like setting your inner compass—it helps bring clarity to your goals, reduce anxiety, and align your daily actions with the person you truly want to be.

    Imagine yourself embodying qualities like confidence, health, or peace, and notice how this vision can naturally inspire new habits and help you show up as your best self. Whether you’re aiming for more energy, deeper self-care, or a happier mindset, a few intentional minutes spent visualizing your ideal self can make all the difference.

    Join me as I guide you through practical tips and small steps to begin this empowering practice. Let's move from dreaming to becoming, one mindful moment at a time!

    Always wishing you well,

    xo

    Heidi

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    9 mins
  • 046 // Exploring the Gap: Is Your Anxiety Being Fueled by the Distance Between Your Current and Ideal Self?
    Oct 28 2024

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    Hey Mama!

    Welcome back to another insightful episode of the Solo & So Well podcast! I’m your host, Master Life & Wellness Coach for Moms, Heidi Chirkoff. Today, we’re tackling a common struggle that many of us face: anxiety. If you have an on-going, nagging feeling of anxiousness, and you're not really sure where it's coming from... this episode is for you.

    In this episode, we’ll explore how the distance between your current self and your ideal self can contribute significantly to your feelings of anxiety. Using the lens of Person-Centered Theory developed by Carl Rogers, we’ll discuss the concept of incongruence—essentially the mismatch between who you are today and who you aspire to be.

    I’ll guide you through recognizing this gap and understanding how it can create an underlying tension in your life. We’ll reflect on the qualities of your ideal self and what it means to truly align with that vision.

    Throughout the episode, I’ll share practical tips and exercises that will empower you to start bridging that gap, from journaling about your values to practicing self-compassion. It’s all about making small, meaningful changes that will help alleviate anxiety and bring you closer to the person you want and are meant to be.

    Join me as we take this journey together toward greater self-awareness and emotional well-being. And let’s begin to close that gap to cultivate a more peaceful, fulfilling, and aligned life!

    Always wishing you well,

    xo

    Heidi

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    14 mins
  • 045 // Making Mom Friends is Hard: One Simple Exercise to Invite Genuine and Meaningful Mom Friendships Into Your Life
    Oct 21 2024

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    Hey mamas! Welcome back to another episode of Solo & So Well. I'm your host and Master Life & Wellness Coach Heidi Chirkoff. Thanks for being here today! I'm really looking forward to diving into todays topic because I know its something a lot of moms struggle with—making real, meaningful connections. As adults, and especially as moms, building friendships can feel awkward and challenging, but I truly believe that having a couple of solid mom friends can be life-changing.

    Motherhood can feel lonely, even when you're never technically "alone," and those deep connections are crucial for our well-being.

    In this episode, I’m walking you through a simple yet powerful exercise to attract some meaningful friendships into your life. I’m also sharing my own journey of feeling disconnected after moving to a new town, and how this practice helped me find one of my closest friends!

    So, if you’re craving authentic connections, real conversations, and support from moms who understand you and your world, this episode is for you. Let’s get into it!

    Always wishing you well,

    xo

    Heidi

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    11 mins
  • 044 // 3 Reasons Why 'Parenting Support' Might Not Be What You Actually Need Right Now
    Oct 14 2024

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    Hey Mama!

    Welcome back to the Solo & So Well podcast with your host, Heidi Chirkoff, Master Life & Wellness Coach for Moms. In today’s episode, we’re diving into a thought-provoking topic: "3 Reasons Why Parenting Support Might Not Actually Be What You Need Right Now."

    Parenting is tough, no question about it. But sometimes, the real breakthrough doesn’t come from more parenting tools or strategies. Instead, it comes from focusing on YOU—your well-being, your energy, and your emotional health. In this episode, we’re diving deep into why personal growth and self-care might be the missing piece to creating a calmer, more connected household.

    Here’s what we’ll cover:

    1. It’s Not Your Parenting That Needs Work – You’re likely already a great parent, but often it’s us that needs the care, growth, and attention to show up fully in our parenting roles.
    2. You May Not Be Able to Apply the Parenting Tools Right Now – If you’re stuck in survival mode, your brain may not even be able to absorb and implement new strategies effectively.
    3. Parenting Programs Might Be Missing the Most Important Component—YOU – So many parenting programs focus on behavior modification but miss out on addressing you as a whole person.

    If you’ve been searching for parenting help but feel like you’re still stuck, this episode offers a fresh perspective on where to focus your energy for real change. Let’s start by taking care of YOU first, and see how much better everything, including your parenting, becomes. Tune in now!

    Always wishing you well,

    xo

    Heidi

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    11 mins
  • 043 // 5 Reasons a Mom in Burnout Might Not Ask for Help
    Sep 30 2024

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    Hey mama! I’m so grateful you're here today! In this episode of The Solo & So Well Podcast, we're diving into a topic that hits home for so many moms: burnout and the challenges of asking for help.

    If you're feeling overwhelmed, overworked, and totally run down, it’s natural to wonder why asking for help feels so hard. Today, I’m breaking down 5 common reasons why a mom in burnout might hesitate to reach out for support—from perfectionism to past negative experiences—and how understanding these blocks can empower you to start shifting them.

    We'll also explore practical tips to help you take that first brave step toward receiving the support you deserve. Plus, I'll be sharing a little self-coaching prompt to guide you in making a positive shift this week.

    And mama, don't forget—I’m offering a scholarship opportunity for my 1:1 coaching program, The Mom Reboot: 12 Weeks to Emerge from Survival-Mode, Feel Energized, Present, and Joyful in Life + Motherhood. Apply before October 8th for a chance to receive this transformative program completely free! You can find the application link in the show notes.

    Sending you so much love—let's get started! ❤️

    xo

    Heidi

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  • 042 // Recognize Signs and Signals You Might Be In Burn-Out, So You Can Begin to Take Steps Out of it
    Sep 23 2024

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    Hey Mama! I know you have a lot going on, and I’m so grateful you chose to tune in today. If you pressed play on this episode, I truly believe there’s something here meant just for you. Whether it’s a small nugget of wisdom, actional step, or a new perspective, I hope you find comfort and clarity as we explore a topic that so many of us face as moms: burnout.

    Burnout in motherhood goes beyond physical exhaustion—it touches every aspect of our lives. In today’s episode, we’ll dive deep into how to recognize the signs and symptoms of burnout and, more importantly, how to reset your wellness. I’ll walk you through some practical steps from my coaching framework begin to reclaim your energy and joy.

    By the end of this episode, you’ll have a simple but powerful first step to start creating your own wellness plan. Plus, I’m excited to share the details about my revamped 1:1 coaching program, The Mom Reboot, specifically designed to help moms in burnout prioritize their wellness, emerge from survival mode, and feel energized, present, and joyful - in life and in motherhood.

    If you're ready to prioritize yourself and transform how you feel, this episode is for you. Let's dive in!

    Tune in, reflect on where you're at right now, and take that first step toward feeling like yourself again. You've got this, mama!

    Always wishing you well,


    xo

    Heidi

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    Daily Gratitude Journal
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    19 mins
  • 041 // Simple Daily Check-in for Moms to Make Small Improvements and Feel Better Everyday
    Sep 16 2024

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    Hey Mama!

    In today’s episode, we’re focusing on something that can truly shift your mood, energy, and overall state—daily self-check-ins. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you’re running on empty, this episode is for you.

    I’ll be walking you through a simple, three-question check-in practice that takes just a few minutes but can have a huge impact on how you feel throughout the day. We’ll dive into why it’s important to pause, reflect, and acknowledge how you’re really feeling, and I’ll share practical tips on how to easily build this practice into your daily routine.

    Whether you're brushing your teeth, waiting for your coffee, or squeezing in a quick moment between errands, this check-in routine will help you reconnect with yourself and find those small, actionable steps that can boost your mood, increase your energy, and lower stress.

    Tune in to learn how this easy practice can help you stay grounded and take better care of yourself, even during the busiest days. Let’s start making self-care a priority, one small check-in at a time.

    Go ahead and press play! And don’t forget to share how your check-ins are going with me on Instagram, a comment on Spotify, OR in a review on Apple Podcasts <3

    Always wishing you well,

    xo

    Heidi

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    'He'll Be Home Soon' (My Children's book to help littles cope with Dad being away)
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    Daily Gratitude Journal
    https://a.co/d/eBGbYbt

    Book FREE 15 Minute Discovery Call - Life & Wellness Coaching
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    Contact Me Directly
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    Recommended Fitness App for Busy Mamas
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    9 mins