• 414: Does COVID-19 Make ADHD Worse?
    Sep 13 2024

    Managing ADHD and Long COVID: Strategies for Cognitive Challenges In this episode of the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, Dr. Robert Duff addresses a listener's question about the impact of COVID-19 on ADHD symptoms. The listener shares their struggles with ADHD and how contracting long COVID has exacerbated their cognitive difficulties, impacting their academic performance and daily life. Dr. Duff delves into the comorbidity of ADHD with other mental health issues, discusses research on post-COVID syndrome, and offers practical advice for seeking accommodations and support. He emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and provides steps for managing ADHD symptoms effectively. Tune in for compassionate guidance and actionable strategies to navigate ADHD in the context of long COVID.

    00:00 Introduction: ADHD and COVID-19 Impact
    00:33 Listener's Question: Struggles with ADHD and Long COVID
    02:14 Host's Response: Acknowledging the Struggles
    03:04 Understanding ADHD and Comorbidities
    04:39 COVID-19's Cognitive Impact
    08:16 Executive Functioning Explained
    10:20 Practical Advice and Encouragement
    13:21 Seeking Help and Accommodations
    17:30 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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    18 mins
  • 413: Therapy Search is BROKEN w/ Colleen Marshall from Two Chairs
    Sep 6 2024

    Revolutionizing Therapy: Colleen Marshall on Two Chairs' Matching Process

    In this episode of the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, Dr. Robert Duff interviews Colleen Marshall, Chief Clinical Officer at Two Chairs, a company dedicated to improving the therapy experience through innovative matching processes and measurement-based care. They discuss the current challenges in finding a suitable therapist, the importance of therapeutic alliance, and how Two Chairs' approach significantly improves client retention rates. Colleen also shares insights into her background, the systematic changes needed in therapy cultures, and the importance of culturally responsive training. Listeners will gain a better understanding of how Two Chairs is transforming mental health care by ensuring clients find the right therapist for their specific needs and continually measure treatment progress.

    00:00 The Broken Process of Finding a Therapist

    01:04 Introducing Two Chairs: Revolutionizing Therapy Matching

    01:52 Meet Colleen Marshall: Chief Clinical Officer at Two Chairs

    02:44 Colleen's Journey in Mental Health and Innovation

    06:22 The Importance of Therapeutic Alliance and Matching

    10:17 How Two Chairs Ensures Effective Therapy

    16:53 Challenges and Successes in Implementing Measurement-Based Care

    28:56 Balancing Wellness and Specialty Training

    29:23 Efficient Care and Graduation Goals

    31:03 Insurance and Access to Therapy

    32:04 Therapist's Role in Client Progress

    33:52 Matching Clients with the Right Therapist

    36:07 Navigating Therapy Models and Approaches

    47:13 Two Chairs: Availability and Process

    51:11 Future of Therapy and Cultural Responsiveness

    53:36 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    54 mins
  • 412: Abandonment by Husband & Addicted to Checking Phone
    Aug 30 2024

    In this episode of the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, I address two intense and relatable listener questions.

    The first question comes from a listener who feels abandoned by their spouse after a traumatic car accident left them with PTSD and potential brain injury. I provide insights on the possible brain injuries they might have sustained, while also discussing the complexities of their strained relationship and offering practical advice for moving forward.

    In the second question, a listener struggles with constant phone checking and tech addiction. I offer actionable tips for managing phone usage, including identifying and challenging assumptions, creating a conscious phone use plan, and finding accountability.

    This episode aims to provide support, clarity, and practical guidance for listeners dealing with trauma, relationship challenges, and tech overdependence.

    This episode is brought to you by NoCD. Overthinking can be more than just a habit—it might be a symptom of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). NoCD provides virtual therapy sessions with licensed therapists specialized in Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) therapy, the gold standard treatment for OCD. To learn more, visit http://nocd.com and schedule a free 15-minute call.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
    01:16 Listener's Question: Dealing with Trauma and Relationship Issues
    02:33 Understanding Brain Injuries from Car Accidents
    08:05 Addressing Relationship Concerns and Seeking Separation
    08:11 Sponsor Break: NoCD
    15:14 Listener's Question: Overcoming Phone Addiction
    17:07 Tips for Reducing Phone Usage
    25:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    Please send questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com

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    25 mins
  • 411: Reparenting and Attachment with Dr. Judy Ho
    Aug 23 2024

    Breaking Cycles: How Attachment Shapes Our Lives with Dr. Judy Ho

    In this episode of the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, host Dr. Duff interviews neuropsychologist Dr. Judy Ho, a tenured professor at Pepperdine University and author of 'The New Rules of Attachment.' They discuss why people often find themselves stuck in repetitive cycles despite different strategies and self-care routines. Dr. Ho explains the significance of revisiting one's past to break patterns, diving deep into attachment theory. They explore how early attachments form who we are, why it's essential to recognize childhood traumas, and the role of self-talk in attachment styles. Dr. Ho also shares her personal parenting insights and the importance of forming a secure attachment with oneself. Additionally, they delve into actionable exercises from Dr. Ho's book that help uncover unmet needs of our inner child and promote lasting change. Tune in for an in-depth conversation about the transformative power of understanding and healing our attachments.

    This episode is brought to you by NOCD, a powerful new network of providers specializing in exposure and response prevention. Get treatment for OCD that actually works at http://nocd.com

    This episode is also sponsored by BetterHelp – get 10% off your first month of online therapy at http://betterhelp.com/duff

    Links!

    https://www.amazon.com/New-Rules-Attachment-Relationships-Reparent/dp/1538741423

    https://www.instagram.com/drjudyho

    https://drjudyho.com/

    00:00 Introduction: Breaking the Cycle

    00:40 Meet Dr. Judy Ho

    01:14 The Importance of Early Attachments

    02:46 Personal Stories and Apologies

    05:47 Journey into Psychology

    18:10 Understanding Attachment Styles

    30:11 Understanding Attachment Styles and Self-Talk

    31:27 The Challenge of Changing Self-Talk

    32:26 The Importance of Patience in Forming New Habits

    33:14 Recognizing Overthinking and OCD

    35:07 The Mind-Body Connection in Attachment

    37:25 Inner Child Work and Self-Attachment

    40:22 Practical Steps for Inner Child Healing

    44:45 A Real-Life Transformation Story

    53:22 Balancing Career and Personal Life

    57:04 Parenting and Attachment

    01:00:08 Looking Ahead: Future Plans and Reflections

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 410: Being a Weirdo SAVED Tony Weaver Jr.
    Aug 16 2024
    In this episode of the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, Dr. Robert Duff chats with Tony Weaver Jr., an award-winning author and educator dedicated to mental health advocacy and better representation in media. Tony shares his personal journey from feeling like an outcast in his teenage years, including a suicide attempt, to becoming a force for positivity and change. He discusses how his upbringing in Atlanta and breakthroughs like hearing Fall Out Boy's music shaped his path to self-acceptance and creative expression. Tony also delves into the importance of representation in media, recounting his experiences creating the webcomic 'The Uncommons' and his upcoming autobiographical graphic novel 'Weirdo.' Furthermore, he offers practical advice for children and parents navigating the challenges of embracing individuality in a conformist world. Tune in to hear his inspiring story, candid reflections on the role of conflict in growth, and his passionate stand on bettering cultural narratives through inclusive storytelling. Links!

    Weirdo: https://rep.club/products/weirdo

    The Uncommons: https://www.webtoons.com/en/action/the-uncommons/list?title_no=4520

    Tony on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyweaverjr/

    Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Feeling Like the Odd One Out 00:24 Meet Tony Weaver Jr.: From Darkness to Advocacy 01:13 Tony's Creative Journey and Representation 01:38 Interview with Tony Weaver Jr. 02:52 Tony's Upbringing and Early Influences 04:45 The Struggles of Embracing Otherness 09:05 The Creation of 'Weirdo' 13:05 Mental Health and Personal Growth 26:36 Inner Child Work and Reparenting 27:13 Parents' Reactions to the Book 27:33 A Life-Changing Car Accident 28:40 Reflecting on Childhood and Authority 30:17 The Importance of Conflict and Support 35:21 Representation in Media 37:01 The Impact of Representation on Society 43:40 Challenges in Hollywood and Progress 49:40 Promoting the Book 'Weirdo' 52:35 Final Thoughts and Where to Follow
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    54 mins
  • 409: Are You Afraid of Breathing?
    Aug 9 2024

    In this episode, Dr. Duff shares personal experiences and discusses the concept of being afraid of breathing. He highlights how anxiety and overthinking can lead to the sensation of not breathing properly. Dr. Duff explains how exposure therapy can be applied using breathing exercises to help alleviate these fears. He provides detailed instructions on different challenging breathing exercises like alternate nostril breathing, resonance breathing, and techniques inspired by the Wim Hof method and the Cradle series. The episode aims to help listeners gain comfort with discomfort and regain confidence in their breathing.

    00:00 Introduction: Are You Afraid of Breathing?
    00:02 A Personal Story of Breathing Anxiety
    00:57 The Cycle of Anxiety and Breathing
    01:50 Common Experiences and Avoidance
    03:37 Using Breathing Exercises for Exposure
    04:12 Understanding Exposure Therapy
    07:38 Challenging Breathing Exercises
    07:59 Alternate Nostril Breathing
    10:40 Resonance Breathing
    13:38 The Heaven and Earth Purification Wheel
    15:16 Practicing in a Safe Space
    16:22 Conclusion and Call to Action

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    http://duffthepsych.com/contact

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    17 mins
  • 408: Unveiling Invisible Loss: Christina Rasmussen's Journey Through Grief
    Aug 2 2024

    In episode 408 of the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, I'm joined by grief educator and author Christina Rasmussen.

    We delve deep into the concept of invisible loss, a unique form of grief that stems from unacknowledged experiences. Christina opens up about her personal grief journey, introduces the Life Reentry Process, and shares insights from her book, 'Invisible Loss.' We also explore how early childhood experiences shape adult decision-making, the transformative power of authenticity, and Christina’s venture into using art for healing. Christina discusses her creation of a digital library of invisible losses and reflects on the significance of Andrew Wyeth's painting 'Christina's World.' Join us for actionable tips and profound reflections on navigating and reclaiming life after hidden struggles.

    Links:

    Books - https://www.amazon.com/stores/Christina-Rasmussen/author/B0057K44UU

    https://lifereentry.com/

    https://www.invisiblelosses.com/

    https://springshow.academyart.edu/schools/fine-art/students/christina-rasmussen/

    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to Invisible Loss
    00:45 Meet Christina Rasmussen
    01:17 Christina's Personal Journey with Grief
    03:30 Early Life and Education
    08:13 Navigating Life After Loss
    11:08 The Birth of Life Reentry Process
    32:12 Invisible Loss Defined
    43:39 Starting the Program and Writing Invisible Loss
    44:01 Challenges of Writing About Invisible Loss
    44:24 The Concept of Invisible Loss
    46:48 Men and Invisible Loss
    47:59 The Importance of Self-Expression
    49:01 The Role of Therapy and Support Groups
    52:38 Time Dilation and Seeking Help
    53:32 Ambitious Work and Personal Transformation
    56:33 Balancing Art and Professional Life
    01:03:00 The Journey of Writing and Sharing Vulnerable Moments
    01:13:34 The Impact of Panic Attacks and Authenticity
    01:19:46 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    1 hr and 24 mins
  • 407: Am I Just My Anxiety Now? Dealing with Extreme Anxiety and Career Changes
    Jul 26 2024

    Navigating Intense Anxiety and Career Changes

    Hello, friends! In today’s episode, we tackle two profound listener questions that may resonate with many of you:

    Managing Severe Anxiety: A listener is struggling with intense daily anxiety and dissociation, impacting their ability to function in daily tasks like going to work or shopping. We discuss immediate tips, potential medical checks, and therapy approaches to manage anxiety effectively.

    Considering a Career Shift: Another listener is contemplating a career change from music education to educational psychology. They seek advice on the feasibility, job prospects, and resources to pursue this new career path.

    As always, you can send me questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the full show notes for this episode at http://duffthepsych.com/episode407

    00:00 Introduction to Anxiety
    00:17 Episode Overview and Listener Questions
    00:56 Engaging with the Community
    01:45 Addressing Severe Anxiety
    05:15 Exploring Medical and Therapeutic Options
    11:24 Understanding Anxiety and Fear
    20:43 Career Change Considerations
    28:10 Conclusion and Farewell

    This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Head over to http://betterhelp.com/duff for 10% off your first month.

    Links mentioned:

    • http://duffthepsych.com/episode195
    • http://duffthepsych.com/episode395
    • http://duffthepsych.com/findatherapist
    • http://kickanxietycourse.com
    • http://facebook.com/groups/hardcoreselfhelp
    • https://www.amazon.com/Hardcore-Self-Help-Robert-Ph-D/dp/1514866005
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    29 mins