Art saved Vincent Fantauzzo’s life.

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In this episode, Vincent paints the picture of his childhood in Broadmeadows, a childhood marked with violence and abuse, and how undiagnosed dyslexia deeply affected Vincent’s ability to read and write, as well as his memory. Now known worldwide for his award winning portraits of Asher Keddie (his now wife), Julia Gillard and Heath Ledger, Vincent chats to Hugh, Ryan and Josh about the incredible father figures, role models and friends that he has connected with throughout his life, and the impact they have had on his sense of self. Vincent, this was a dream come true.

To watch this video on YouTube (a picture paints a thousand words after all), follow this link - 🫖 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwH3A-jSd3U

Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

Billy Slater - Leading from the (Full)Back - https://bit.ly/45ZZfQ6

🎨Things to check out

Vincent’s Gallery - https://bit.ly/4n4CyAr

‘Heath’ Portrait - https://bit.ly/3Tp8amG

‘Love Face’ Portrait - https://bit.ly/4lcE4yQ

‘All that’s good in me’ (self-portrait as son Luca) - https://bit.ly/4kJF8u1

📖Things to read

Unveiled by Vincent Fantauzzo - https://bit.ly/4e3PsKO

🚨If you, or someone you know, is struggling with thoughts surrounding suicide, suicidal ideation or self-harm, please call 000 or Life Life on 13 11 14. 🩷To host your own Vulnerabilitea House, purchase the Vulnerabilitea House Cards here - https://bit.ly/3Cx4tGP🩵To purchase our journal (or your novel) My Imperfect Life, click here - https://bit.ly/3Cx4tGP🩵To join our patreon community, A Little More Imperfects, follow this link - patreon.com/theimperfects 🩷 AND you can subscribe to A Little More Imperfects through Apple Podcasts too, here apple.co/theimperfects The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.

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How often do you feel guilty?

Guiding us on a guilt trip today is our resident psychologist (and published author) Dr Emily Musgrove.

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Differentiating guilt from shame or regret, Dr Emily takes us back to the very beginning to explain the purpose and function of guilt as a pro-social behaviour which your cave-person ancestor probably would have used to keep them in the tribe.

When used wisely, guilt is a useful recognition of information that can alert us when we have gone against our values or dropped our moral standards.

However, as Dr Em explains (and people pleasers would know all too well) guilt can quickly becoming overwhelming, exhausting and make you feel like you’re always letting someone down. In this episode, Dr Em dives into the seemingly never-ending guilt of being a parent, especially a mum, as well as the guilt associated with caring for ageing parents.

Dr Em, you’ve done it again.

To watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - https://youtu.be/wLLJdF1edVE

🫖Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

• Dr Emily - What Are Your Values? - https://apple.co/4dckMpy
• Dr Emily - What Are Your Boundaries? - https://bit.ly/409jO91
• Dr Emily - Truth v Harmony - https://apple.co/40pgYO7
• Dr Emily - Who Is Your Inner Critic - https://apple.co/3XaFdw9
• Ben Shewry - Making It Right (And Delicious) - https://bit.ly/4jPHq9F
• Ben Shewry (Pt 1) - The Other Side of Excellence - https://apple.co/4hhc2RB
• Ben Shewry (Pt 2) - How The Chef Was Made - https://apple.co/48hrQiQ

📖Things to read

• Unstuck by Dr Emily Musgrove - https://bit.ly/4bhmCp2
• The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins - https://bit.ly/3SUcvhv
• Good Inside by Dr Becky Kennedy - https://bit.ly/443BPXE
• Choice Points by Russ Harris and Colleagues - https://bit.ly/4jUZjnw

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💌 Subscribe to our newsletter, the Vulnerabilitea-mail - www.theimperfects.com.au - this week, featuring a reflection from none other than Cate Campbell.

By the time she was 16, Cate Campbell had figured out her social currency: achievement, in the form of gold medals, no less.

Four time Olympian and world record holder Cate joins us in the Vulnerabilitea House to answer the question ‘How and when have you been dishonest with yourself?’

From telling herself she was ‘fine’ to having a breakdown over a Milo, Cate recounts the intense period of loneliness she experienced during Covid, and the depression she ‘didn’t deserve’ to feel.

This episode emphasises the critical importance of connection for our mental health, and Cate so beautifully articulates the impact of finding love at first sight (friend addition), and navigating a changing relationship with her sister Bronte.

Coming of age in a world where perfection is praised and your failure makes headlines, Cate is so generous in sharing how she had learn to ask for help and to value her mental health like she would her physical.

Cate, you are simply the best.

To watch this full video on YouTube, follow this link: http://bit.ly/40ecuJc

🫖Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

• Bronte Campbell - Comparison, The Thief of Joy - https://bit.ly/44h52iW

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Do you think of yourself as a creative person? How does being creative make you feel?

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Today we welcome into the Academy of Imperfection (reluctant) expert Campbell Walker, better known by his online moniker, Struthless.

Drawing on his hypothesis that creativity is the antithesis of destruction, Struthless discusses how to train yourself in creativity, the 70% rule in completing a creative pursuit, and, thankfully for Hugh, how to recognise and celebrate your creative brain in everyday tasks.

Struthless opens up about the moment he realised drugs had stopped becoming fun, going deeper into his struggles with addiction and how he reframed one of his most shameful moment by asking “how could this be the best thing that has ever happened to me”?

Ryan and Struthless chat about the mental health benefits, and absolute joy, of journalling (just ask anyone who’s bought My Imperfect Life), and how to make sure that the pain doesn’t win.

Figuratively, illustratively and literally, we loved hanging out with you, Struthless.

If you would like to watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - http://bit.ly/3TrGI7I

🫖 Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

• Adam Grant - The Potential of Your Potential - https://bit.ly/4ksJXYL
• How (And Why) Ryan Dumped His iPhone - https://bit.ly/41RY15O

📖 Things to read

• Doom and Bloom, by Campbell Walker - https://bit.ly/3HnCQSv
• Your Head Is A Houseboat, by Campbell Walker - https://bit.ly/3SxJUOW
• The Medium is the Message, by Marshall McLuhan - https://bit.ly/3T7tUmP

📺 Things to watch

• Boss Baby - https://bit.ly/4438FJe
• Pingu - https://bit.ly/43V1EsW

🚨If you, or someone you know, is struggling with addiction, the National Alcohol and Other Drug Hotline 1800 250 015, is a great place to start.

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There is currently only one gay man actively playing in a professional, top-tier basketball league anywhere in the world. And today, we had the enormous privilege of welcoming him into the studio.

Demonstrating Olympic-level vulnerability, Isaac Humphries made global headlines in 2022 when he came out as gay to his basketball teammates.

However, as Hugh, Ryan and Josh learn in this chat, this moment was the result of a lifetime of chaos, confusion, darkness, and ultimately, courage.

In this episode, Isaac talks through his horrific experience of childhood bullying, and how basketball became both a sanctuary and a space of secrecy. For Isaac, he never imagined a world where he could keep his career and live authentically as his whole self.

An incredible journey, which includes a Beyonce-esque move of dropping his last name for a time, Isaac describes to Hugh, Ryan and Josh what it felt like to come out to his mum, live as an openly gay man for the first time, and finally, come out to the world.

Finding light in the darkest of times, Josh and Isaac discuss the importance of purpose, which prompts Hugh to reflect on how this episode is the epitome of The Imperfects: how vulnerability leads to authentic connection.

Isaac, we love you.

If you’d like to watch this full episode on YouTube (and see Hugh’s model shot), click here - https://bit.ly/43YQXpc

🫖 Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

• Janelle Booker - Living With ADHD - https://bit.ly/42GsmEJ
• Hugh’s Open Letter to Parents of Neurodivergent People - https://apple.co/4l4kw0m

📺 Things to watch

• Isaac’s Coming Out video - https://bit.ly/3HxvR9O

🎧 Things to listen to

• Isaac’s music, including the song Be Alright - https://spoti.fi/4mTSGol

📖 Things to read

• The Velvet Rage, by Alan Downs - https://bit.ly/43XZ3hH

🏳️‍🌈For some great educational resources, head to Pride in Sport - www.prideinsport.com.au/resources

🚨If you, or someone you know, is struggling, these are a few great resources

• QLife - provides anonymous and free LGBTI peer support and referral for people over 18 wanting to talk about sexuality, identity, gender, bodies, feelings or relationships. 1800 184 527, www.qlife.org.au
• Minus 18 - Through a preventative model of mental health support, Minus 18 tackle social isolation by creating fun-filled spaces where LGBTQIA+ people under 18 feel they belong and are celebrated www.minus18.org.au
• Lifeline - 13 11 14, www.lifeline.org.au

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This is where the fun begins.

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Today we welcome the Return of the Dr Emily, our resident psychologist, to talk about the Force in all its (clinical) glory.

Amongst the immense excitement of Hugh, Ryan and Josh, Dr Emily talks through the lightness and darkness inside us all, and how the presence of a good mentor makes a world of difference.

Bringing psychology back to the forefront of this ep, Dr Emily likens Yoda’s general vibe to the principles of Acceptance Commitment Therapy, whilst also pointing out the incredible power of mindfulness (just ask Luke Skywalker).

Hugh, Ryan and Josh chat with Dr Emily about The Hero’s Journey, main character syndrome and how to let go of our ego to embrace your authentic self.

May the Force be with you.

If you’d like to watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - https://bit.ly/3FGlYG6

🫖Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

• Dr Emily - Resent Less, Live More - https://bit.ly/4mGNOCP
• Dr Emily - Hope - https://apple.co/4l9des9
• Dr Emily - The Certainty of Uncertainty - https://bit.ly/3SyoWj0
• Dr Emily - Grief Lightening - https://bit.ly/4kki9W6
• Maria Ruberto - Advancing Despite Adversity - https://apple.co/4e2Io05
• Hugh’s Open Letter to Parents of Neurodivergent People - https://apple.co/4l4kw0m
• Hugh’s ADHD…brief (Bonus From Patreon) - https://bit.ly/4jefaNP

💻Things / people to check out

• Tara Brach - https://bit.ly/43Fk8gR
• Scott Barry Kaufman - https://bit.ly/4dSmwFK
• Dr Robyn D Walser - https://bit.ly/4kEI5M0
• Joseph Campbell’s The Hero’s Journey - https://bit.ly/3HlH516
• The Star Wars Catalogue - https://bit.ly/3HzXi2x

📖 Things to read

• Unstuck by Dr Emily Musgrove - https://bit.ly/4bhmCp2

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As the title suggests, Nas Campanella is really cool (and accomplished and driven and resilient).

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You might recognise her voice from the Triple J cinematic universe or know her work as the Disability Affairs Reporter for the ABC. But what you might not know is that Nas is vision impaired, or that a neurological condition means that she can’t read braille either.

In this episode of The Vulnerabilitea House, Nas answers the questions “what childhood challenges best prepared you for adulthood?”

Chatting to Hugh, Ryan and Josh, Nas talks about her relationship with her disability, and how it shapes her identity.

Nas also dives into a powerful conversation with the guys about the role agency and accessibility in the experience of discrimination, and shares why, if a magical operation could restore her sight, she wouldn’t change a thing.

Nas, it has been an absolute joy.

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The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.

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