• Episode 011: Sleepovers
    Nov 14 2024

    Slumber party, anyone? In this episode, we’re diving into one of the more complex aspects of non-monogamous relationships; sleepovers!!!

    Spending the night can bring up a range of emotions, from excitement to anxiety, and we’re here to explore it all. We’ll look at how sleepovers impact feelings like jealousy, security, and connection, along with the unique pros and cons they bring.

    While they can deepen bonds with other partners, they also come with challenges like balancing time, handling communication, and respecting boundaries.

    We’ll share personal stories and insights on how we’ve navigated the highs and lows, offering a real look into the realities and rewards of non-monogamous sleepovers.

    From swapping PJs to navigating morning routines with new faces, we’ve got all the playful, awkward, and heartwarming stories covered. Tune in to see how we keep it fun (and drama-free!)

    Grab your snacks and listen now!!!

    LINKS:

    Three Shades Of Grey | Website

    Hitachi Magic Wand | Website

    "Intimacy Is About Truth..." quote | Taylor Jenkins Reid

    "Intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is 'you're safe with me'- that's intimacy."

    Taylor Jenkins Reid, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo

    "It Is Not Sex..."quote | Marge Piercy

    "It is not sex that gives the pleaure, but the lover"

    Marge Piercy, Gone To Soldiers

    SOCIALS:

    Anthony's Instagram

    Pinky's Instagram

    Ava's Instagram

    TikTok

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Episode 010: Guess Who's Back? (The Return Of P.D./Nirvana Lover)
    Nov 7 2024

    Love, freedom, and maybe just a dash of “did we call it or what?” are all on the table in this juicy episode!

    After leaving the non-monogamous world to pursue love in a monogamous relationship, PD/Nirvana Lover is back—and let’s just say, Ava and Pinky couldn’t be happier!

    This shared partner of theirs isn’t just making a return to the lifestyle; he’s back where he belongs, rekindling connections and rediscovering the magic of non-monogamy.

    What was it about monogamy that lured him away, and what did he miss about the lifestyle?

    How does it feel to be welcomed back by two excited partners who aren’t shy about letting him know he’s been missed?

    Pinky and Ava; with help from Anthony ask the tough (and tempting!) questions as they dive into Nirvana Lover’s journey.

    Expect laughs, insights, and a bit of heat in this playful and heartfelt reunion.

    LINKS:

    Three Shades Of Grey | Website

    Normalizing Non-Monogamy | Emma and Fin

    Splash Takeovers

    Exxxotica Expo | Website

    Life Of Spice | Website

    SOCIALS:

    Anthony's Instagram

    Pinky's Instagram

    Ava's Instagram

    TikTok

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    1 hr
  • Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party--Episode 9 / Nobody Wants This Review (OMG! That's So Me.)
    Oct 28 2024

    In this episode, Pinky and Ava dive into the Netflix series Nobody Wants This, a romantic comedy that follows the unlikely connection between an atheist sex podcaster and a Jewish rabbi. From quirky mishaps to heartfelt moments, the show navigates the challenges and joys of balancing differences in lifestyle, belief, and love.

    Join Pinky and Ava as they break down how they relate to the characters’ struggles, surprises, and laughter-filled moments. They share their own experiences that resonate with the series’ themes and explore how it captures the complexities of modern relationships, offering a fun yet thoughtful look at love beyond traditional boundaries.

    Stick around til' the very end for a sultry poetry reading by Pinky of Ev'yan Whitney's I Am A "Too Much" Woman.

    LINKS:

    Three Shades Of Grey | Website

    Netflix | Nobody Wants This

    Armchair Expert Podcast

    Ev'yan Whitney | I Am A "Too Much" Woman

    SOCIALS:

    Pinky's Instagram

    Ava's Instagram

    Ev'yan Whitney's Instagram

    TikTok

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    49 mins
  • Episode 009: Splash Takeover Recap & "Quickies" (with Accidental Swingers/Swinky Life & Sentinel Bear)
    Oct 14 2024
    Join us for this exciting episode as Anthony and Pinky recap their first time attending a Splash Takeovers event in Florida to celebrate another anniversary of Pinky's "21st birthday". This was no ordinary getaway—Splash Takeovers hosts premier couples only, clothing-optional, lifestyle events where participants from the swinging and kink communities come together for unforgettable experiences. Unfortunately, Ava couldn't join in on the adventures. However, Anthony and Pinky were able to enlist the participation of some fascinating guests who were front and center at the event: • The Accidental Swingers • Swinky Life • Sentinel Bear Each of them shares their unique take on the lifestyle, their experiences at Splash, and what this vibrant community means to them. From the wild energy of the hotel takeover to the deeper connections made throughout the weekend, you’ll hear all about what makes Splash Takeovers a must-attend event for anyone in the lifestyle. Whether you’re curious about what really goes down at these events, or you’re a seasoned participant looking for the inside scoop, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few surprises along the way. Tune in for open, honest, and thrilling conversation! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Splash Takeovers | Website Accidental Swingers | Website SwinkyLife | Website Sentinel Bear | Instagram Beth Darling | Website Haulover Beach | Website PODCASTS: The Accidental Swingers Podcast The Bare Effect Podcast Come With Us Podcast SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram The Accidental Swingers / Myrina's Instagram Tristan's Instagram Crimson Dragonfly's Instagram Phoenix Phyre's Instagram The Bare Effect Podcast / Mercy JustFly's Instagram
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    59 mins
  • Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party--Episode 8 / Ava's First Party (Embracing F#ck It!)
    Sep 28 2024

    Picture this: a Christmas party, but instead of unwrapping gifts, Ava’s unwrapping…well, you get it. But this wasn’t just any party; it was an empowering space where women ruled, respect was paramount, and despite a few creepers; she felt safe.

    In this episode, Pinky gets Ava to share her wild introduction to the swinging scene, where "multitasking" took on a whole new meaning for her!

    Ava shares the salacious details of her crash course into the lifestyle; where she found herself at the deep end—diving headfirst into the lifestyle and learning that sometimes its all about saying “fuck it” and embracing the moment.

    Join the ladies for this rollercoaster of an episode that’ll leave you thinking: maybe the holiday spirit isn’t the only thing that’s contagious!

    LINKS:

    Three Shades Of Grey | Website

    Pinky's Instagram

    Ava's Instagram

    TikTok

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    57 mins
  • Episode 008: Setting the B.A.R (Boundaries, Agreements, and Rules)
    Sep 14 2024
    In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of setting and navigating Boundaries, Agreements, and Rules (BAR) in non-monogamous relationships. With insights drawn from real-life experiences and expert advice, we explore how these tools help foster trust, respect, and growth in any relationship dynamic. Join us for this candid and enlightening conversation on how to set, respect, and evolve the boundaries, agreements, and rules that work for your unique relationship style. Whether you’re new to non-monogamy or looking to refine your existing framework, this episode has something for everyone. Tune in and let’s set the BAR! LINKS: Three Shade Of Grey | Website Sex WIth Emily | Instagram More Than Two | Website Polysecure | Jessica Fern (Website) Make Love Not Porn | Website SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party--Episode 7 / Pinky On The Prowl 2 (Pu$sy Power)
    Aug 28 2024

    Pinky is still on the prowl in this exciting follow-up to the original “Pinky on the Prowl” episode.

    Join Pinky and Ava as they dive deeper into their journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and sexual liberation.

    Inspired by the powerful writings found in the New York Times Bestseller "Pussy, a Reclamation" by Regena Thomashauer (Mama Gena); the ladies explore the importance of embracing the word “Pussy” as a term of empowerment rather than a derogatory label. They also discuss why "faking it" when it comes to orgasms—is a disservice to both yourself and your partner.

    This episode is about reclaiming your power, being unapologetically yourself, and celebrating the beauty and strength of your sexuality.

    Grab a seat as these goddesses continue their journey of exploration and embrace the full power of “Pussy”!

    LINKS:

    Three Shades Of Grey | Website

    Mama Gena's | Regina Thomashauer's Website

    SOCIALS:

    Pinky's Instagram

    Ava's Instagram

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    58 mins
  • Episode 007: The Other F-Words (Navigating Friends & Family In Non-Monogamy)
    Aug 14 2024

    In this episode, we dive into the intricacies of balancing non-monogamous relationships with two other F words; friends and family. How do you handle those moments when explanations fall flat or are lost in translation?

    Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they explore the hilarious, heartwarming, and sometimes harrowing moments that arise when you talk to monogamous people about non-monogamy.

    Plus, they also discuss the importance of setting healthy boundaries, opening up to those closest to you, and embracing the reality of living authentically.

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    54 mins