No Violent Communication

En la actualidad, vivimos en un mundo interconectado, en el que las palabras fluyen con una facilidad asombrosa a través de múltiples plataformas y canales. Paradójicamente, la verdadera comunicación, aquella que sirve para conectar, comprender y construir, parece estar en serio peligro de extinción. Estoy seguro de que te habrás dado cuenta de que vivimos en una era donde la polarización, los malentendidos y los conflictos interpersonales están a la orden del día. ¿Por qué, teniendo más y mejores herramientas que nunca para comunicarnos, parece que nos entendemos menos?

We spend so much of our lives talking to each other, but how much are we simply running on automatic - relying on old habits and hoping for the best? Are we able to truly hear others and speak our mind in a clear and kind way, without needing to get defensive or go on the attack? In this groundbreaking synthesis of mindfulness, somatics, and nonviolent communication, Oren Jay Sofer offers simple yet powerful practices to develop healthy, effective, and satisfying ways of communicating.

A short book designed to help you communicate with more authenticity, clarity, and empathy while in the midst of a conflict by using the principles of nonviolent communication. It will show you the most common pitfalls and how to avoid them. This book will provide you with a toolkit to help you speak with 100% authenticity without judging, blaming, or condemning anyone. Using the strategies outlined in this book you will soon be able to turn every conflict into an opportunity for a deeper, more profound connection.

The nonviolent communication method focuses on a number of different concepts that all promote peaceful and wholesome ways of living that can allow you to be able to live a healthier lifestyle in terms of your mental and emotional states. Some of the basic concepts that the NVC method attempts to teach people are split up into two groups of four components that can be applied in different ways to allow you to be able to communicate more effectively with the people around you and even to be able to understand yourself and your own feelings and emotions on a much deeper level.

Would you like to know how to communicate with the people around you without trouble or misconception and to avoid future arguments? Then keep reading! Communication is a subject that you’ve likely touched on if you’ve attempted to mediate conflicts or if you’ve looked into improving any of the personal relationships around you. It’s true that communication is the gateway to understanding and that you can’t fully reach a resolution with someone if you can’t effectively communicate with them.

Many people as they get older find it difficult to have healthy relationships whether social or marital, this problem stems from the fact that they never learned how to communicate properly. In fact many adults still communicate behaviorally in the same way children do. Meaning that while their vocabulary has developed their overall attitudes and behaviors have not.

¿Te cuesta crear realciones reales y profundas? Solemos comunicarnos a diario con personas, pero las realciones no suelen ser reales ni profundas. Puede que juzguemos, tengamos prejucios y no logremos comprender el punto de vista de las demas personas. Esto nos detiene y es un freno para lograr crear una relacion geniuna con las demas personas. Aprende a crear relaciones verdaderas y mas duraderas, con una mayor afinidad a las demas personas. Desarrolla tu empatia, la comprension, aprende a escuchar, a comunicarte mejor con los demas y elimina tus pensamientos negativos.

Nonviolent Communication evolved from an intense interest in two issues that I had. First, I wanted to understand better what happens to humans which leads some of us to act violently and exploitably. And secondly, I wanted to understand better what kind of education fits our efforts to remain compassionate - which I think is our nature - even when others act violently or exploitably.