
Mindf--king Mindfully
A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism
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Sir Ezra Algos
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This audiobook is the first guide book for erotic mindf--king. In it you will learn about common practices, how to distinguish between ethical, consensual, and erotic mindf--king, and mindf--king that is not all three. You will also get to hear hot and informative mindf--king stories from Sir Ezra, and many more in the BDSM community.
Sir Ezra explores the basics including safety, ethics, and best practices, as well as more advanced topics. Complex advanced mindf--ks are also explored as part of the interludes, as well as in the hypothetical mindfuck of Sir Ezra's box. He also proposes a novel categorization of mindf--king never before seen.
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- roger bonadiman
- 05-03-23
A good book.
I really liked the anecdote interludes. I would recommend this book for anyone starting to explore bdsm mind fucks.
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- JJ
- 09-20-23
Great ideas
Great ideas that I hadn’t previously considered for mindfucking within a science with my consenting partner.
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- 10-25-24
Consent focused. Beautiful Anecdotes. A jewel for MESM.
The amount of care and consideration that went into this book was well placed and at the same time this book offered useful and inspirational stories to paint a picture of MESM that I have yet to find all in one place until this book! I was very impressed with the author's knowledge of operant conditioning and how they tastefully and cautiously inserted this type of psychological knowledge into the BDSM context. Bold move. An eclectic psychological mindful book!
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- Hector D Farias
- 06-17-22
Excellent book for beginners
Definitely the reference book I've been looking for over 10 yrs. TY for your effort
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- Deckers
- 11-28-22
Better than expected
It is a very unique perspective. I never thought of my games as mind fucking.
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- Christina
- 02-02-23
Thank you
I enjoyed what I learned and loved the delivery with vivid descriptions allowing my imagination to emerge into depicted scenes. Thank you
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- skye
- 05-12-23
incredibly informative and well written
I'm so glad I bought this, and I'm very grateful for the lesson. I learned a lot of helpful terminology that will help me do more research on my own.
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