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  • Vanilla to Kinky: The Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kink

  • Discover the Keys to How to Be Dominant or Submissive in The Bedroom: BDSM Basics, Book 1
  • By: Jonathan Wolf
  • Narrated by: Zachary Zaba
  • Length: 2 hrs and 13 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (122 ratings)

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Vanilla to Kinky: The Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kink

By: Jonathan Wolf
Narrated by: Zachary Zaba
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Do you want to stay in the same vanilla sex routine forever? Or are you ready to bring more pleasure and excitement to your sex life starting today?

What do you think when you hear “BDSM?” I’ll tell you what most people think. Most people think whips, chains, pain, and crying. They think only “evil” or “mentally ill” people enjoy these types of things. They think of the most corrupt things they can because of the way that mainstream media misrepresents BDSM.

BDSM has become more popular than ever in recent years. Only a few decades ago only 10-15 percent of surveyed people reported engaging in BDSM. Since then that number has increased by nearly 90 percent. Even though BDSM is gaining popularity many people still feel guilty for having BDSM related fantasies.

I’m here to tell you there is abosultely no reason to feel guilty. BDSM is much broader than it seems and when done correctly, is completely safe and healthy.

If given the chance, BDSM can be the most sincere display of love and affection between you and your partner.

Whether you are somewhat familiar with BDSM or not familiar at all, don’t miss out on what could be a life-changing experience because of misconceptions and miseducation.

Vanilla to Kinky will help you discover:

  • What aspects of BDSM are best for you
  • How to partake in BDSM the right way
  • How to find your role
  • How to create amazingly intense scenes
  • How to find the dynamic you love the most
  • How toys can enhance your BDSM experience
  • The keys to being a good Dominant
  • The keys to being a good submissive
  • Helpful tips to get you started on your journey

BDSM is for anybody. It does not discriminate against any ages, genders, or body type. Yes, even an average joe like you can partake in safe and healthy BDSM.

BDSM is a journey that can be truly rewarding every time but will take effort, patience, and self-examination. If you want to begin your journey then this is where you start.

©2019 SL. Jeet (P)2019 SL. Jeet
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  • Categories: Erotica
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Great introductory

The book was very informative, and entertaining. I really enjoyed the author's approach on the various topics.

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Simple, straightforward concepts of BDSM

This is a short audiobook of fewer than 3 hours, and it introduced me to the wide world of BDSM and provided lifelong advice for even those who choose to be vanilla despite learning about it, namely: consent and communication are everything. It's never wise to violate the firm sexual boundaries of your partner and to never badger someone into having sex with you; these are part of the code that every person wanting a sexual relationship should maintain religiously.

Of course, learning about the various kinds of kinks, sex toys, and the suggestions of the author are also valid.

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Very useful.

This short book is jampacked with great information. As a new Dom this book has to be the best information I have found yet ,and it's easy to follow.

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great for beginners

loved this introduction to the lifestyle. great information if you're just starting out with bdsm

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Great beginner guide

I really enjoyed this the voice was wonderful the book read well it doesn’t get boring even when things are discussed that I already know I think everyone should read this book 1st

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loved it

very insightful and tons of info I never knew. would highly recommend it to any one just looking to get their feet wet first

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SIN-tilating 😉

It kept my interest, but I'd consider myself curious on the subject matter. If you're just looking to dip your toe in, this is a great read. It covers some emotional aspects that can get left out. If you are looking for more of a "how-to" book, this is not the right fit. This book gives an overview and helps you yo figure out what you might loke, what you're open to, and what some terms are you may not have even heard of.

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good

This is a good beginner's guide to the alternative lifestyle and covers a majority of the basics that are needed to know.

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good read

good read, lost of info worth the listen!!! This will open an entire new world

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Great for beginners

This book enlightened me into a whole new world of sex. Recommend reading this book.

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