
Becoming Cliterate
Why Orgasm Equality Matters - and How to Get It
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Narrated by:
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Teri Clark Linden
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By:
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Laurie Mintz
About this listen
We've been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex = penis + vagina, and everything else is just secondary. Standard penetration is how men most reliably achieve orgasm. The problem is, women don't orgasm this way. We've separated our most reliable route to orgasm - clitoral stimulation - from how we feel we should orgasm - penetration. As a result we've created a pleasure gap between women and men:
- 50 percent of 18- to 35-year-old women say they have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner
- 64 percent of women versus 91 percent of men said they had an orgasm at their last sexual encounter
- 55 percent of men versus 4 percent of women say they usually reach orgasm during first-time hookup sex
In Becoming Cliterate, psychology professor and human sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz exposes the broader cultural problem that's perpetuating this gap and what we can do about it. Pulling together evidence from biology, sociology, linguistics, and sex therapy into one comprehensive, accessible, and prescriptive book, Becoming Cliterate features:
- Cultural and historical analysis of female orgasm (spoiler: the problem's been going on for ages)
- An anatomy section (it's all custom under the hood)
- Proven techniques for cliterate sex (it starts with training the sex organ between your ears)
- A comprehensive final chapter for men (because you don't have to have a clitoris to be cliterate)
By dispelling the lies, misunderstandings, and myths that have been holding us back, Becoming Cliterate tackles both personal and political problems and replaces them with updated outlooks and practical skills needed to change our collective perspective on sex. It's time to finally inform women and men on how to have satisfying experiences in bed that benefit both parties.
The revolution is cuming - and Becoming Cliterate offers a radical, simple solution to progress and pleasure for all.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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Critic reviews
"An excellent, thorough, inspiring and much needed guide to the source of our deepest energy, pleasure, and power - the clitoris. Everyone needs to read this book and become CLITERATE." (Eve Ensler, author of The Vagina Monologues and In the Body of the World)
"This read doesn't just zero in on the politics of pleasure inequality, it also offers up solutions that help the reader become more hands on (literally) with their own sexuality." (Bust Magazine)
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In the smash hit She Comes First, Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual "ill-cliteracy," and women everywhere benefited from his "viva la vulva" philosophy of female pleasure. Now, in Passionista, it's time to learn all about what turns men on—and makes them stay on. In this point-by-point, "blow-by-blow" guide, Kerner makes giving as much fun as receiving as he covers every angle of male sexuality, unlocks the secrets of satisfaction, and offers knowledgeable answers to the questions every woman wonders about.
By: Ian Kerner
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Tantric Orgasm for Women
- By: Diana Richardson
- Narrated by: Henrietta Weekes
- Length: 9 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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Fulfilling sex nourishes love, rejuvenates the body, and boosts mental health. Unfortunately, prevailing attitudes in the West work against the natural capacity of women to realize their sexual potential and experience deep orgasmic states. Tantric Orgasm for Women offers women a fresh look at the ecstatic bliss possible within their bodies, using knowledge and approaches from the sensually cultivated traditions of the East.
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Empowering and nurturing
- By Caroline Nie on 06-12-23
By: Diana Richardson
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My Secret Garden
- Women's Sexual Fantasies
- By: Nancy Friday
- Narrated by: Cindy Harden, Annie Hinkle, Raquel Harris, and others
- Length: 13 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
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Nancy Friday's taboo-shattering best seller My Secret Garden is the most popular and controversial book of women's sexual fantasies ever published. Women who feared their erotic fantasies called it scandalous. Women who recognized their own fantasies in its pages, rejoiced. Outspoken, graphic, vulnerable and shameless, My Secret Garden is a classic study of female sexuality. Friday interviewed hundreds of women from every part of the country to learn their sexual private thoughts, and she listened like no one else.
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Great read! Even for men!
- By Thomas Carter on 12-31-18
By: Nancy Friday
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Dear Lover
- A Woman's Guide to Men, Sex, and Love's Deepest Bliss
- By: David Deida
- Narrated by: Jason Rosette
- Length: 5 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
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In Dear Lover: A Woman’s Guide to Men, Sex, and Love’s Deepest Bliss, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Presented as a collection of letters from a man to his “dear lover”, here is this internationally acclaimed writer’s invitation to practice love as a living art.
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really out-dated
- By KZ on 05-25-22
By: David Deida
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The Man's Guide to Women
- Scientifically Proven Secrets from the "Love Lab" About What Women Really Want
- By: John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Douglas Abrams, and others
- Narrated by: Eric Michael Summerer
- Length: 5 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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The Man's Guide to Women offers the science-based answers to the question: What do women really want in men? The book explains the hallmarks of manhood that most women find attractive and helps men hone those skills to be the men women desire.
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Great advice from the Love Lab again
- By Steve C on 02-10-16
By: John Gottman, and others
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Smart Sex
- How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
- By: Emily Morse
- Narrated by: Emily Morse
- Length: 8 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
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From the host of the #1 podcast Sex with Emily, Emily Morse, comes a revolutionary new book that reframes our relationship to pleasure and teaches us how to reset our sex lives. Dr. Emily Morse has been dubbed “the Dr. Ruth of a new generation” (New York Times) and has helped millions of people navigate the world of sex and relationships. In The Pleasure Book, she condenses all she’s learned as a doctor of human sexuality and offers a groundbreaking framework that will change the way you think about sex.
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to much woke term to be listenable
- By Aart on 08-08-23
By: Emily Morse
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The Mystery Method
- How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
- By: Mystery A.K.A. Erik Von Markovik, Lovedrop A.K.A. Chris Odom
- Narrated by: Alan Sklar
- Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
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For every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Mystery, considered by many to be the world's greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world's most beautiful women. Mystery gained mainstream attention for his role in Neil Strauss' New York Times best-selling expose The Game. Now he has written the definitive handbook on the art of the pickup.
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Extract the elements you need. Ignore the rest.
- By SpaceFuzz on 11-13-07
By: Mystery A.K.A. Erik Von Markovik, and others
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How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure
- By: Lou Paget
- Narrated by: Lou Paget
- Length: 3 hrs and 3 mins
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Sex educator Lou Paget shares with men the proven romantic and erotic techniques that women really like. From setting the stage for romance to dynamite kissing to innovative positions for intercourse and secrets for great oral sex, Lou covers all the basics and more.
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This book delivers on its promise
- By Stewart on 12-05-07
By: Lou Paget
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The Vagina Bible
- The Vulva and the Vagina-Separating the Myth from the Medicine
- By: Jen Gunter MD
- Narrated by: Jen Gunter MD
- Length: 12 hrs and 26 mins
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So many important questions, so much confusing, contradictory misinformation! In this age of click bait, pseudoscience, and celebrity-endorsed products, it's easy to be overwhelmed - whether it's websites or advice from well-meaning friends, uneducated partners, and even healthcare providers. So how do you separate facts from fiction? OB/GYN Jen Gunter, an expert on women's health - and the internet's most popular go-to doc - comes to the rescue with a book that debunks the myths and educates and empowers women.
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Everyone needs this book
- By Michael on 09-01-19
By: Jen Gunter MD
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Pussypedia
- A Comprehensive Guide
- By: Zoe Mendelson, Maria Conejo - illustrator, Heather Corinna - foreword
- Narrated by: Mercedes White, Zoe Mendelson, Maria Conejo, and others
- Length: 11 hrs and 30 mins
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There is still a shocking lack of accurate, accessible information about pussies, and many esteemed medical sources seem to contradict each other. Pussypedia solves that with extensive reviews of peer-reviewed science that address old myths, confusing inconsistencies, and the influence of gender narratives on scientific research - always in simple, joyful language.
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The Sex Ed I Never Got
- By Callistrotta Vici on 02-16-25
By: Zoe Mendelson, and others
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Better Sex Through Mindfulness
- How Women Can Cultivate Desire
- By: Lori A. Brotto PhD, Emily Nagoski PhD - foreword
- Narrated by: Celeste Oliva
- Length: 7 hrs and 47 mins
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In Better Sex Through Mindfulness, acclaimed psychologist and sex researcher Lori A. Brotto offers a groundbreaking approach to improving desire, arousal, and satisfaction inside - and outside of - the bedroom.
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Mindfulness is good for so many things!
- By noriko on 07-31-19
By: Lori A. Brotto PhD, and others
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The Mistress Manual
- The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance
- By: Mistress Lorelei Powers
- Narrated by: Elizabeth Hart
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
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In 1994, The Mistress Manual was born as a simple pink guidebook self-published by an experienced dominant woman. She moved on to other efforts, and the book fell out of print - much to the disappointment of thousands of eager submissive men and dominant women. Now, the classic is available once more, in an updated new edition.
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Insight on Pleasure and Pain 🎭
- By Mandymay💄👠👛 on 07-16-17
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Dom's Guide to Submissive Training
- Step-By-Step Blueprint on How to Train Your New Sub
- By: Elizabeth Cramer
- Narrated by: Dawn Mount
- Length: 1 hr and 4 mins
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Dom's Guide to Submissive Training was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you with a step-by-step blueprint on how to train your new sub. It goes from preparation all the way down to the closing ceremony, including advanced techniques and tips.
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The topic as opposed to the content
- By Jamey Sechrest on 05-04-24
By: Elizabeth Cramer
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- Anonymous
- 09-26-20
Guy review: it's good
This is a very good book about female orgasms. The author explains everything very clearly. I like that she gives concrete examples and pragmatic ways to get the big O. She also even talks about toys and masturbation. This book should be required reading as a teen.
The only star I took was because it gets repetitive. There is a chapter for men at the end that is the whole book in an hour.
The performance of the narrator was very good.
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- Anonymous User
- 07-28-22
Amazing
Read from a males perspective. I’ve recommended it to all of my male and female friends
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- Smith
- 07-11-19
Good, but...
I'm a husband looking to better my wife's enjoyment, knowing that I have a lot to learn and explore even after 13 years of good marriage this book provided better understanding of my wife's physiology and psychology. Some components of it we're unnecessarily repetitive but the information revealed was well worth listening. The end result was one of the best nights shared with my wife that I can remember... and thanks to this book many more to come.
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- T. Lyon
- 11-08-24
Eye opening
I only wish I would have learned this years earlier. Thank you for this wealth of information.
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- Mary Kucek
- 01-22-21
Educational, entertaining, and thought provoking
Loved this book. So much so, that I have it in hard copy and via audible. The candor makes the entire topic more entertaining, conversational, and enjoyable. I highly suggest.
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- Late Bloomer
- 08-12-22
Why the orgasm gap should be the opposite
The author never sings the praises of the endurance of the female and her superior ability for multiple orgasms! In a quick aside she mentions multiple orgasms. She does an excellent job how to get to the first orgasm but leaves the impression that once is enough. Who knows how many woman are missing extended pleasure.
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- Marcus
- 11-27-21
should've known...
Extremely informative, factual and timely. Should be required reading for newlyweds and older alike.
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- M. Jess
- 11-10-19
Helpful
There was a lot of great information to help clear up misunderstandings. I especially enjoyed the communication chapter in the book. This book may help couples having sexuality challenges.
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- Tina
- 09-24-22
A must read
Truly exceptional book. A great source of information if you want to become cliterate. I’ve shared it with my husband.
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- Duane Walton
- 11-19-23
Every Guy should become cliterate!
Loved this book, informative, well illustrated and easy to listen to! I’m a guy that is so very interested in seeing at satiated lady, fullfilled in every way!
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