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Two decades ago, this book (and its companion volume, The New Bottoming Book) began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"...the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Topping Book gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player!
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Previous editions of The Loving Dominant taught more than 40,000 people the fundamentals of safe, affectionate dominance and submission. Now, John and Libby Warren, two of the scene's most respected educators, have updated this seminal work for a new generation of practitioners. Includes an all-new chapter on partner-finding, plus new information on electricity play, ethical play with multiple partners, water sports, kinky digital photography, and more!
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I'm completely a novice, but this opened my eyes
- By Nismo240 on 05-09-19
By: John Warren, and others
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Bow Down
- Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want
- By: Lindsay Goldwert
- Narrated by: Lisa Flanagan, Linsday Goldwert - introduction
- Length: 7 hrs and 9 mins
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Imagine a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize - and enjoy - control. This is the quickly-mainstreaming world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) - and it has a lot to teach women about empowerment, negotiation, open-mindedness, and more. Popular podcaster and personal finance expert Lindsay Goldwert has traveled across the United States to meet the stars of the subculture. In Bow Down, these Alpha women show how you can reset the power dynamic in any situation to get what you want.
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Not a book on the BDSM lifestyle
- By Gary Haddock on 06-03-21
By: Lindsay Goldwert
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Dom's Guide to Submissive Training
- Step-By-Step Blueprint on How to Train Your New Sub
- By: Elizabeth Cramer
- Narrated by: Dawn Mount
- Length: 1 hr and 4 mins
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Dom's Guide to Submissive Training was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you with a step-by-step blueprint on how to train your new sub. It goes from preparation all the way down to the closing ceremony, including advanced techniques and tips.
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The topic as opposed to the content
- By Jamey Sechrest on 05-04-24
By: Elizabeth Cramer
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Radical Ecstasy
- By: Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy
- Narrated by: Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy
- Length: 6 hrs and 57 mins
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With trademark frankness and humor, these popular BDSM/sexuality authors document their journey into the realm of transcendent kink and radical ecstasy. Here, they share techniques that partners BDSM with tantric sex practices to create a state of transcendence during sexual practice.
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Deep Engaging Topics
- By Amazon Customer on 09-30-24
By: Dossie Easton, and others
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Hurts So Good
- The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose
- By: Leigh Cowart
- Narrated by: Leigh Cowart
- Length: 11 hrs and 28 mins
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Masochism is sexy, human, reviled, worshipped, and can be delightfully bizarre. Deliberate and consensual pain has been with us for millennia, encompassing everyone from Black Plague flagellants to ballerinas dancing on broken bones to competitive eaters choking down hot peppers while they cry. Masochism is a part of us. It lives inside workaholics, tattoo enthusiasts, and all manner of garden variety pain-seekers.
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I can't recommend this highly enough
- By K. Reay on 12-10-21
By: Leigh Cowart
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The Ethical Slut
- A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, & Other Adventures
- By: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
- Narrated by: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
- Length: 10 hrs and 21 mins
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For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle.
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The information and advice is 100% totally solid!
- By Troy on 07-28-15
By: Janet W. Hardy, and others
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The Mistress Manual
- The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance
- By: Mistress Lorelei Powers
- Narrated by: Elizabeth Hart
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
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In 1994, The Mistress Manual was born as a simple pink guidebook self-published by an experienced dominant woman. She moved on to other efforts, and the book fell out of print - much to the disappointment of thousands of eager submissive men and dominant women. Now, the classic is available once more, in an updated new edition.
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Insight on Pleasure and Pain 🎭
- By Mandymay💄👠👛 on 07-16-17
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Existential Kink
- Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power; A Method for Getting What You Want by Getting Off on What You Don't
- By: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Narrated by: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
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Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality - the “other,” the shadow side - is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impulses - our “existential kink.” Our existential kink also drives the dark or negative repeating patterns in our life: always choosing the abusive partner or boss, settling for less, thinking that we’re undeserving, not worthy. But it also is the source of our greatest power.
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Personal Experience Based Pseudoscience
- By The Humble Housewife on 11-02-21
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The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink
- Jungian and Archetypal Perspectives on the Soul’s Transgressive Necessities
- By: Douglas Thomas
- Narrated by: E.M. Burton, Bianca Drew
- Length: 10 hrs and 37 mins
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This fascinating volume investigates how the concept of soul is connected to BDSM and kink, exploring the world of alternative sexualities through the psychology of C. G. Jung and James Hillman as listeners are guided on a provocative, lively journey through darker aspects of the sexual imagination.
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Depth Psychology perspective on non-vanilla sexual practices.
- By Christina Osterman on 12-19-24
By: Douglas Thomas
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My Secret Garden
- Women's Sexual Fantasies
- By: Nancy Friday
- Narrated by: Cindy Harden, Annie Hinkle, Raquel Harris, and others
- Length: 13 hrs and 58 mins
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Nancy Friday's taboo-shattering best seller My Secret Garden is the most popular and controversial book of women's sexual fantasies ever published. Women who feared their erotic fantasies called it scandalous. Women who recognized their own fantasies in its pages, rejoiced. Outspoken, graphic, vulnerable and shameless, My Secret Garden is a classic study of female sexuality. Friday interviewed hundreds of women from every part of the country to learn their sexual private thoughts, and she listened like no one else.
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Great read! Even for men!
- By Thomas Carter on 12-31-18
By: Nancy Friday
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- Blagblag
- 08-25-17
Great Starter!
This a very good book for beginners or those curious about BDSM. It is very detailed in various forms of kink and rules on playing safe. It has insightful with scenes that explain the emotional connection and conduct. Although, the book is more geared towards lifestyle there is plenty of useful information for those just curious.
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- Scott Tonight
- 02-21-22
Excellent read
I truly struggled with the ethical slut. There were so many problematic ideations and narrow viewpoints that both triggered and disturbed me. Here I feel the authors are on ground where they truly shine.
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- E. Foster
- 09-12-20
Very helpful and well written
With the exception of the last chapter, which was a bit nee-agey for my tastes, I learned more from this book than the last three on the same topic. The narrator was excellent too.
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-06-18
Thank you
Thank you for increasing my knowledge of being a top as I explore the kink world is a safe and consensual way.
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- Firstthyme
- 12-29-18
Unique and educational!
This book is well written, and outlines the fundamentals of safe and consensual activities with another person or people, whether in the BDSM sphere, in (a) vanilla sexual/romantic relationship(s), both, or neither. May not be the best read for those in the ace/aro spectrum who happen to be sex-repulsed, although skipping the "interlude" sections may alleviate distress in that vein. Although I have some experience as a switch, I still learned a LOT from this read. I felt acknowledged as a member of the LGBT community and a polyamorous person without feeling as though the authors had to carve out room for that language or shove it in after the fact. Good for the curious, beginners, intermediates, and experts in the kink world. My first Audible listen, and certainly not my last from these two. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
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- Samantha Gayle
- 12-12-22
must read
so good! If you're looking for a book to give you a feel on what the top gets out of topping here it is.
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- Tyler Mitchell
- 01-16-19
Not what I expected
This wasn't what I expected when I bought the book, it's more an intro to BDSM society, culture, and norms, than any else. I guess I didn't really know what to expect, but the book gave me a new appreciation of the people that really get into BDSM. It gets a bit preachy at some points, and when they talk about BDSM rituals they got a bit far out for me, but it wasn't a detractor for me, just not my cup of tea.
I'd recommend this if you wanted to know more about BDSM culture, rather than an intro to the what, and how.
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- Ashley Berger
- 07-16-24
Great Info for EVERYONE
The voices are amazing, and the fact that they're the authors is super cool. The information contained in this book is great to have whether you're a Top (an all-encompassing term) or a bottom (also all-encompassing). They discuss cis-het, poly, lesbian, gay, and so much more. There is definitely a reason this (and the companion Bottoming Book) are on everyone's recommendation lists! You won't be disappointed!
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- Matthias
- 04-15-25
A good introduction to BDSM
Well read, good information. I listened with it sped up a bit and it's still very comfortable to listen to. Good information for anyone trying to get into BDSM
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- Troy Christopher Burtin
- 05-25-21
great book. wish I heard the other author more, bu
aside from experience retelling, you never hear from one of the authors. just wish I heard her more. maybe take turns reading chapters
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