Choosing Marriage
Why It Has to Start with We>Me
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Debra Fileta
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Any married person will tell you, there's a huge difference between what you expect marriage will be like, and what marriage is actually like. For so many couples, the struggle is real as the "reality check" of marriage begins to unfold with each passing year. But while marriage may be hard, a healthy marriage doesn't stop there. Because by learning to journey through the hard things, you get the opportunity to experience the great things on the other side.
With a candid, yet compassionate, approach, licensed counselor and relationship expert, Debra Fileta, walks you through eight significant choices involved in taking marriage from hard to great. Throughout each chapter, Debra shares astonishing survey results from thousands of singles and married couples, revealing intimate details about things like love, sex, conflict, communication, and attraction. From her experience as a professional counselor and wife, Debra believes that a beautiful exchange occurs when spouses learn what it means to choose we before me.
Discover practical steps you can take on the hard, but great, journey of choosing marriage. Single or married, Choosing Marriage is the audio guide for you!
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What your marriage will become is determined by how you pray. Bold prayers honor God. God honors bold prayers. Praying Circles Around Your Marriage will empower you and your spouse to identify your greatest dreams for the most important relationship in your life and pray the kind of audacious prayers in which God finds delight.
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Excellent resource for a healthy marriage
- By JeMarlin on 07-11-24
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Preparing Your Heart for Marriage
- Devotions for Engaged Couples
- By: Gary Thomas
- Narrated by: Michael Axtell
- Length: 3 hrs and 38 mins
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The wedding is planned, but are you spiritually prepared for your wedding day? Trusted relationship author Gary Thomas coaches engaged couples on how to grow closer to the Lord in the days leading up to the wedding as a means of preparing them for all the days after the wedding. Providing encouraging entries that will help you deal with common issues such as what real intimacy means, how to celebrate your differences, and remembering to laugh together, Preparing Your Heart for Marriage will help you grow in your relationship as a couple as you become closer to God.
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a blessing in disguise
- By Althea on 03-26-19
By: Gary Thomas
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Party of One
- Truth, Longing, and the Subtle Art of Singleness
- By: Joy Beth Smith
- Narrated by: Madeleine Rose
- Length: 5 hrs and 49 mins
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Did you enter adulthood thinking marriage would find you, only to end up at a second-cousin's wedding, dodging yet another bouquet the night before you turned 30? Maybe you've started wondering if this the best the single life has to offer. Joy Beth Smith says it's not - that single life doesn't have to leave you constantly waiting for real life to begin. If you let go of the tired lies weighing you down, you can turn toward truth.
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Have hope, but don’t wait...
- By Jules on 10-20-18
By: Joy Beth Smith
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The Unveiled Wife
- Embracing Intimacy with God and Your Husband
- By: Jennifer Smith
- Narrated by: Jennifer Smith
- Length: 5 hrs and 46 mins
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The Unveiled Wife is a real-life love story, one touching the deep places in a marriage that only God can reach. If you are feeling disappointment or even despair in your marriage, the heart cry of this audiobook is: You are not alone. Join Jennifer to learn how God can remove your own veil and lovingly guide you to a place of spiritual transformation, true intimacy, and lasting joy.
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There is hope
- By O. Riggins on 08-05-15
By: Jennifer Smith
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The Wait
- A Powerful Practice for Finding the Love of Your Life and the Life You Love
- By: DeVon Franklin, Meagan Good
- Narrated by: JD Jackson, Allyson Johnson
- Length: 6 hrs and 12 mins
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President/CEO of Franklin Entertainment and former Sony Pictures executive DeVon Franklin and award-winning actress Meagan Good have learned sometimes all we can do is wait for "the one" to come into our lives. They spent years crossing paths, but it wasn't until they were thrown together while working on the film Jumping the Broom that their storybook romance began.
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The Wait Caused Me To Change
- By Bernard on 05-02-17
By: DeVon Franklin, and others
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The Love Dare
- By: Stephen Kendrick, Alex Kendrick
- Narrated by: Adam Verner
- Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins
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With more than five million copies in print, in nearly two dozen languages, The Love Dare has become an exciting, enriching journey for couples around the world. It can now become yours. Though unconditional love is promised at weddings, it is rarely practiced in real life. As a result, romantic hopes often fade into disappointment at home. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. Whether your marriage is hanging by a thread or healthy and strong, this 40-day journey (featured in the hit movie Fireproof) challenges husbands and wives to understand and practice unconditional love.
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Do it! commit to it, no matter what!
- By cherish on 01-12-17
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The Wait Devotional
- Daily Inspirations for Finding the Love of Your Life and the Life You Love
- By: DeVon Franklin, Meagan Good
- Narrated by: JD Jackson
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Filled with scripture, prayers, and DeVon and Meagan's trademark conversational style, this 90-day devotional is packed with real-time advice for men and women trying to successfully navigate the ins and outs of dating, love, and relationships. You'll discover how waiting for everything - from sex to getting engaged - can transform your entire life by giving you greater patience, joy, peace, healing, faith, and love.
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Worth the Wait
- By Carkenda Sledge on 04-23-18
By: DeVon Franklin, and others
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9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage
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- By: Greg Smalley, Robert S. Paul
- Narrated by: Lyle Blaker
- Length: 7 hrs and 49 mins
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Lies about marriage are rampant in our culture and the church. They’re killing marriages. But the corresponding truths can strengthen marriages and even save the most troubled relationships. In this audiobook, marriage experts Greg Smalley and Robert Paul identify the lies, explain how they work to destroy marriages, and reveal the truths that not only can improve marriages, but rescue those that are floundering.
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Not new, contradictory and biblically inaccurate
- By thor on 04-07-21
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One More Try
- What to Do When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Jon Gauger
- Length: 3 hrs and 25 mins
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Is your marriage worth fighting for? If so, this audiobook is for you. It takes a tremendous amount of strength to overcome skepticism and weariness, and begin the work of healing a broken marriage. But just taking a look at this audiobook shows you have the heart of a fighter. In One More Try, Gary Chapman gives you the courage and confidence to move forward when your marriage is falling apart.
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Save Your Marriage Positive Read
- By Priscilla on 07-23-15
By: Gary Chapman
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He-Motions
- Even Strong Men Struggle
- By: T. D. Jakes
- Narrated by: Richard Allen
- Length: 12 hrs and 18 mins
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As a man, you may often feel the pressure of fulfilling many roles in life: husband, father, son, businessman, member of the church community. Now, T. D. Jakes comes to your aid with a guidebook to help you understand your own needs for emotional and spiritual support. He offers practical, sound answers to assist you in expressing your needs and having them met in healthy and wholesome ways by those you love. This is a candid, no-holds-barred look at sexuality, spirituality, and the seldom mentioned but extremely important emotions that shape success in every area of a man’s life.
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eye opening.
- By Nicolette on 10-27-16
By: T. D. Jakes
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How to Be a Best Friend Forever
- Making and Keeping Lifetime Relationships
- By: Dr. John Townsend
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Our world has diluted the meaning of friendship, but the reality is, there’s nothing like the sustaining strength of true-blue, forever friends. Still, many people are convinced that they’ll never find such lifelong connections—or that they don’t need them. In this encouraging audio book, best-selling author and psychologist John Townsend delivers hope and help for making these relationships a reality—and for making them even better if you’ve already got a “bestie.”
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This is a Christian based book.
- By lisak227 on 11-17-14
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- James Taylor
- 11-28-22
A larger picture of marriage
A good resource with a broad perspective on marriage. If you are honest with yourself, you will find that you need to work on yourself first.
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- Jonathan
- 05-02-18
Well thought out and full of good advice
Just to give perspective, I have read or listened to many dating and marriage books and one thing I really appreciate about Debra Fileta is that she discusses topics in a very balanced and full pictured way. I loved reading her book True Love Dates and was excited to hear that she was coming out with Choosing Marriage. Even though I am not married yet, I was convicted of different issues I see in my life and was encouraged to discover them and start dealing with them now instead of after getting married. This book goes to the core and helps discover heart issues that need to be healed to have a healthy and thriving marriage as well as talking through the misconceptions we often have of marriage and the actual reality of day-to-day life onced married. Marriage really is about making many choices of loving another even when you don't feel like it and also learning to discuss both of your needs with each other so you can both meet those needs in a balanced and healthy way. Both partners need to be on the same page and choose marriage. Very well written book! I will definitely add this to my books to re-listen to and would definitely recommend this to married couples, those who are dating, and singles.
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- James Jordan
- 07-29-20
Incredible...!
This book is Spot on and should be the endeavor of every married couple.. A marriage built and based on Gods principles will ALWAYS weather any storm. I am so very grateful that Debra points to so many supporting scripture as foundational Truth to support the text. Though I am in the middle of divorce - I am believing God for Divine Restoration. In marriage, 'WE' must ALWAYS be Greater than me. Thank you...
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- Tamara
- 01-09-23
Great book for singles and married alike!!
Debra is fantastic! Blessed by this book and excited to implement much of it to strengthen my marriage.
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- Anonymous User
- 12-04-23
Realistic view of what Christian Marriage is.
Honestly giving advise for marriage both Christian and non Christian challenges and strategies to have a Godly loving marriage.
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- Jessica Smith
- 10-04-18
Every couple needs to read this
Practical and Christ-focused advice for all stages of marriage - read it while you are single, newlyweds, struggling, celebrating, married for 40 years... something for everyone. Very encouraging.
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- candace
- 12-18-18
This book helped our relationship thrive!
it was fantastic! We'll definitely listen to it again. Before we listened to this book we were arguing multiple times per week for hours sometimes. Now that we've listened to it we actually are more graceful, empathetic and caring towards one another. I recommend it!!!
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- Des H
- 07-18-18
Amazing
This book was perfect and much needed!!!! I enjoyed learning more about marriage and found the book very informative, especially for someone newly married.
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- Lana Thomas
- 05-15-18
Completely worth your time.
I am blown away by the truth and vulnerability of this book. Debra has so much experience and wisdom on this subject and I am so blessed by her work.
I plead for everyone to read this book whether your single or many years down the road in your marriage. There is always room to make God bigger and choose marriage. I’m recommending this to ALL o my friends. Thank you so much, Debra.
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- Anonymous User
- 06-15-18
must read if getting married. page Turner
Great book for anyone who is going to get married! Nice job deb. I really enjoyed.
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