Dear Prudence
Liberating Lessons from Slate.com’s Beloved Advice Column
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Based on the long-running Slate advice column, a collection of the most eye-opening, illuminating, and provocative installments during Daniel M. Lavery’s tenure as the titular Prudence.
Every week, millions of readers visit Slate for the irresistible “Dear Prudence,” an advice column that promises a healthy dose of reality and good humor alongside its indispensable suggestions and life lessons. The ever-hilarious and insightful Danny Lavery was one of “Dear Prudence”’s most beloved columnists, and he recounts his time as Prudie in this side-splitting, candid collection—complete with new commentary and exclusive stories—drawing out the broader themes of his informative, unfailingly illuminating guidance.
From guilt and blame (“Am I in the Wrong Here?”) to downright confusion (“Maybe This Is All a Misunderstanding”), from recently discovered wrenches-in-the-machine (“The Other Shoe Just Dropped”) to the travails of parenthood (“My Kids Are Growing Up. Can Someone Please Stop This?”), Dear Prudence isn’t afraid to go the extra mile in its search for the much-needed corrective, gentle reminder, or tough love. This is the go-to guide for anyone who’s just trying to figure it all out—with a helpful nudge.
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- Inside the Hearts & Minds of People in Two Relationships
- By: Mira Kirshenbaum
- Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
- Length: 6 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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A world-renowned therapist, Mira Kirshenbaum has treated thousands of people caught in the powerful drama over what to do when an affair rocks their emotional lives. Now, in When Good People Have Affairs, Kirshenbaum puts her unsurpassed experience into one clear, calming place. She leads listeners through six easy-to-navigate steps that will take anyone from anxiety to clarity, and identifies 17 types of affairs, helping listeners figure out which type they're in and what it means.
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This book condones affairs
- By Summer Phillips on 06-18-18
By: Mira Kirshenbaum
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When Friendship Hurts
- How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound You
- By: Jan Yager Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Tanya Eby
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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We’ve all had friendships that have gone bad. Whether it takes the form of a simple yet inexplicable estrangement or a devastating betrayal, a failed friendship can make your life miserable, threaten your success at work or school, and even undermine your romantic relationships. Finally there is help. In When Friendship Hurts, Jan Yager, recognized internationally as a leading expert on friendship, explores what causes friendships to falter and explains how to mend them - or end them.
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Boring and patronizing
- By KDS on 11-17-22
By: Jan Yager Ph.D.
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Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin
- How to Recognize and Set Healthy Boundaries
- By: Anne Katherine MA
- Narrated by: Pam Ward
- Length: 6 hrs
- Unabridged
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Have you recently walked away from a date or a conversation feeling uncomfortable or violated? Are you looking for ways to set limits with your spouse, kids, parents, or boss? This essential guide to setting and respecting boundaries is for anyone wanting to better understand themselves and others. Just as a cut in our skin causes pain and injury, a breach of any of our physical, emotional, or sexual boundaries can be very harmful to our bodies and minds.
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Not exactly for tailored for the Male reader
- By Matt on 04-26-22
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30 Lessons for Loving
- Advice from the Wisest Americans on Love, Relationships, and Marriage
- By: Karl Pillemer Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Sean Pratt
- Length: 8 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
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Based on the most detailed survey of long married people ever conducted, 30 Lessons for Loving shows the way to lifelong, fulfilling relationships. The author, an internationally renowned gerontologist at Cornell University, offers sage advice from the oldest and wisest Americans on everything from finding a partner, to deciding to commit, to growing old together.
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Our Elders Really are the Experts!
- By Cher Finnan on 12-29-15
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The Five Love Languages: Singles Edition
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
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Different people with different personalities express love in different ways. In fact, there are five very specific languages of love: Words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, quality time, and physical touch. Dr. Gary Chapman’s original best seller was first crafted with married couples in mind, but the love languages have proven themselves to be universal. The message of this audiobook is now tailored to meet the unique and real desires of single adults.
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String conservative Christian message
- By CMD on 03-24-20
By: Gary Chapman
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I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better
- Six Practical Principles That Empower Others to Solve Their Own Problems While Enriching Your Relationships
- By: Gary Lundberg, Joy Lundberg
- Narrated by: Stephen R. Thorne
- Length: 7 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
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In their weekly radio show and in their popular workshops, Gary and Joy Lundberg have already helped thousands of people and their families to communicate more effectively. Now, the Lundbergs address an all too common dilemma that arises when others expect you to solve their problems for them, telling listeners how they can shed the no-win role of "fixer" and empower people to solve their own problems through validation - a simple yet profound communication tool that is essential to any healthy relationship.
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Emotional Intelligent!
- By GLSwanger on 12-12-23
By: Gary Lundberg, and others
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30 Lessons for Living
- Tried and True Advice from the Wisest Americans
- By: Karl Pillemer Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Sean Pratt
- Length: 8 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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More than 1,000 extraordinary Americans share their stories and the wisdom they have gained on living, loving, and finding happiness. After a chance encounter with an extraordinary 90-year-old woman, renowned gerontologist Karl Pillemer began to wonder what older people know about life that the rest of us don't. His quest led him to interview more than one thousand Americans over the age of 65 to seek their counsel on all the big issues- children, marriage, money, career, aging.
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Solid advice, however memory may bias it
- By Glenn on 10-08-12
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When Your Kid Is Hurting
- Helping Your Child Through the Tough Days
- By: Kevin Leman
- Narrated by: Jon Gauger
- Length: 7 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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Children today live in an unpredictable, disruptive, and often violent world. Many of them live in two different homes with different sets of expectations. They face bullying at school and online. They hear news of school shootings, and racially or religiously motivated violence. They may have lost a friend or a loved one. As parents, the impulse to protect our children is strong, but that very protection can end up handicapping them for life. Rather than seek to save them from the hard things, parents must teach their kids how to cope with and rise above their problems.
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So helpful for so many situations
- By Natalie on 10-03-18
By: Kevin Leman
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He's Just Not Your Type (And That's a Good Thing)
- How to Find Love Where You Least Expect It
- By: Andrea Syrtash
- Narrated by: Andrea Syrtash
- Length: 5 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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A relationship expert and dating columnist shares her counterintuitive approach to lasting love: encouraging women to date their "non-types". After years of dating, many women fall into relationship ruts. As serial daters, they are attracted to the same type of man time and again. Clearly something's not working. But the problem is not that he's just not that into them - the reality is he's just not their type.
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Amazing Insight
- By Maria M on 02-10-19
By: Andrea Syrtash
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Your Turn
- How to Be an Adult
- By: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Narrated by: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Length: 20 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
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What does it mean to be an adult? In the 20th century, psychologists came up with five markers of adulthood: finish your education, get a job, leave home, marry, and have children. Since then, every generation has been held to those same markers. Yet so much has changed about the world and living in it since that sequence was formulated. All of those markers are choices, and they’re all valid, but any one person’s choices along those lines do not make them more or less an adult.
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Not the book that was advertised
- By M. Rogers on 04-13-21
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It's Not You
- 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single
- By: Sara Eckel
- Narrated by: Nina Alvamar
- Length: 4 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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Based on her popular Modern Love column, Sara Eckel’s It’s Not You challenges these myths, encouraging singletons to stop picking apart their personalities and to start tapping into their own wisdom about who and what is right for them. Supported by the latest psychological and sociological research, as well as interviews with people who have experienced longtime singledom, Eckel creates a strong and empowering argument to understand and accept that there’s no one reason why you’re single - you just are.
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Good Book
- By Anonymous User on 05-24-20
By: Sara Eckel
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- Liam T Bear
- 05-25-23
All the empathy and emotional intelligence.
I've been a fan of Danny's for well over a decade now, back on the "unprofitable website" mentioned 😂. Whether he was destroying our childhood nursery stories ("Screaming is like drowning. Asking questions is like drowning," thought Curious George), breaking down scenes from Shakespeare into modern bites or generally sharing pointed insights on current events that managed to be sharp yet never drawing blood -- I loved everything he wrote, and he was my favourite contributor.
When I heard about the Dear Prudence job, I was THRILLED. When I (far more quietly) heard about his transition, the mess within his family (it's all briefly covered), and his finally getting out of their reach I was nothing but full of joy for him. I've purchased a couple other books of his, and surprisingly "Texts from Jayne Eyre" is really, really good on audio!
This book is lovely. It's narrated by Danny himself, who does a fantastic job of conveying emotion while at the same time not distracting from the content itself. The content is much, much more emotionally mature and intelligent -- and analytical, which he lays out for you -- than I was expecting. I've enjoyed "Best of" bits of write-in advice columns like Ask A Manager, Captain Awkward, Doctor Nerdlove, as well as Dear Prudence (they have a ton in common, wildly), but this wasn't a humour book.
There are humorous parts (it's Daniel), but the majority of the book connects people with permission to take care of themselves, to not make themselves responsible for other people (who are not their small children), to not put up with sexist bullshit ("Everything was perfect when my wife was working full-time and taking care of our four children until she snapped --" "That is NOT PERFECT, except for you maybe, and where are you for all of this?") and to please maybe stop dating married people/cheating on your spouse/doing that thing you know is wrong but want a stranger's permission to do anyhow. Danny talks about the history of Dear Prudence and the persona of Prudie, and how that differs from his real life. Also how it's affected it, mostly for the good, although it's a LOT of typing. I imagine making a book involved a whole lot more!
I listened straight through, and it's a book I will definitely re-listen to again. Not as much for the letters (although some are pretty wild), but for Danny's insights and ability to track things down five layers to the root of the problem, which blew my mind each time. I want to learn how to do that! Letters are handled with gentleness and kindness, even ones I would have judged far more harshly. He never punches down, he's very rarely judgemental unless behaviour is really egregious, and he concentrates on solutions. And Marcus Aurelius.
I hope this review helps with your choice because credits are precious, and if you do pick it up I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!
Know there is a ton of content out there on the internet, some still under his deadname, but his website is really helpful if you enjoy his wit, film references, love of classic English literature, and ability to turn The Velveteen Rabbit into an absolute nightmare of a story. This is all brand new content save some of the letters themselves.
(Dan, your voice is fantastic at 8 months on T, I love it. I'm so happy for you! You be who you are inside, and I'll be your friend -- with pride)
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