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Lloyd James
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Gary Smalley
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In From Anger to Intimacy, Gary Smalley and Ted Cunningham explore this often maligned and God-given emotion that unless dealt with can strip us of everything we love.
Now couples can learn the skills to: resolve conflict, hurt and pain in a healthy way, master their internal buttons so as to overcome feelings of anger, frustration and rage, use five specific tactics to deal with anger and rage when they rear their ugly heads, walk in the freedom God intends by learning the three essentials of forgiveness and five keys to nurturing a forgiving spirit, craft the perfect apology, remove the roadblocks to forgiveness once and for all, break sexual addiction and heal after an affair, and find answers to big questions about anger and forgiveness in their marriage.
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- Kimberly
- 02-25-09
Very good
This is my first listen or read of Gary Smalley. I have followed Gary Chapman's advice for a long time and was pleasantly pleased w/Gary Smalley. I learned alot from this audiobook. I do suggest it to anyone who has trouble w/anger in their marriage. I find I get frustrated easily w/my husband and found great advice to follow here. I will definitely find more from Dr. Smalley.
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- Keith
- 02-09-15
Amazing
This restored my relationship with my wif and kids. I believe the tools discussed have rhe power to change my generational sins by the power of Jesus Christ!
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- Amazon Customer
- 11-01-18
Magnificent!
An exceptional read and highly recommended! Gary gets you to the root of issues and the core of self-analysis where one can find solutions where none existed. Truly enlightening.
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- Dustin Wyman
- 03-24-25
AMAZING
Married or not, in a relationship or not, this book will address Anger. It is a MUST-read for every Christian couple. I am paraphrasing this book: It only takes one person to change, and that is all it takes. 2nd best Christian book ever read.
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- Lisa H. Hutchison
- 04-26-15
Anger is an anchor
It's hard to understand and recognize anger in yourself. This book can help you let it go. Anger holds you in place stick like a ship that's dropped anchor, but releasing it is like pulling up the anchor freeing ones self to move forward in any direction. Great read. If you are a grudge holder, this book is definitely for you!
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- James
- 02-08-13
Repetative
If you could sum up From Anger to Intimacy in three words, what would they be?
helpful, resourceful,and repetative
Has From Anger to Intimacy turned you off from other books in this genre?
No not at all ,maybe this author.
Have you listened to any of Lloyd James’s other performances before? How does this one compare?
No
If you were to make a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?
Well move you closer to intimacy with your significant other.
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- Anonymous User
- 11-30-21
Excellent book
This book addresses some many of the issues and concerns. Finally some answers to many questions.
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- Mj
- 08-08-19
from anger to intimacy
really enjoyed listening to the book sometimes I don't have a lot of time to read and this way I can get the message within me and this book answered a lot of questions on anger is truly a wonderful book if you are truly looking on how to handle your anger, not someone else's anger but your very own anger issues then I highly recommend this book
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- John Willis
- 09-18-15
Thankful
Thank you for having a passion for helping people especially marriages. So many great things in this. I only wish I had the written copy to reference now.
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- Jason Alexander
- 07-17-18
Life altering
This is exactly what my marriage needed right now. I really appreciate the devotion these men made in crafting this book. thank you Gary, Ted, Lloyd & Audible.
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