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Narrated by:
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Chris Fabry
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By:
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Dr. Gary Smalley
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"Life is relationships; the rest is just details."
We are designed for relationships, yet they often bring us pain. In this paradigm-shifting book, Gary Smalley unravels the DNA of the three great relationships: with God, others, and ourselves.
All relationships involve choice. Gary exposes a destructive "dance" that characterizes nearly every relationship conflict, and offers five new dance steps that will revolutionize relationships.
The DNA of Relationships, the cornerstone audiobook in Gary Smalley's relationship campaign, will revolutionize the way you relate to your spouse, family, friends, and coworkers.
©2004 Dr. Gary Smalley (P)2004 Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.Listeners also enjoyed...
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great book I highly suggest it
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Worth the investment!
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inspirational and jaw dropping
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this narrator was also awesome! he was easy to listen to.
awesome approach
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DNA of relationships
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I'm using it for pre-marital counseling with my girlfriend. It is astounding how much it helps.Great for all relationships!
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Much needed. Thanks
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Soild
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Best Relationship Book I’ve Read.
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Bottom line simple easy to implement
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