How Not to Be a Hot Mess
A Survival Guide for Modern Life
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Devon Hase
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Devon Hase
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The dumpster fire of life rages on, but you got this. Practice six rules to keep you grounded, weather the storm, and actually be a decent person.
It may seem like the world is going to hell in a hand basket right now. Whether it's big stuff like politics and climate change, or just the daily spin of paying your bills, getting to work on time, and fending off social media trolls, we can all admit, modern life ain't easy. Here are six really good guiding principles, inspired from the ancient wisdom of Buddhism and mindfulness practice, to keep you anchored and steady amidst the chaos.
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"Modern life is messy, aggravating, even injurious. Despite this truth, the authors show us how to see the goodness. This book is part of that goodness - transforming the ability to survive into the ability to thrive" (Larry Yang, author of Awakening Together)
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Arrogant, dangerous New-Age blabbering
- By Mikkel on 01-14-17
By: John C Parkin
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A Little Peace of Mind
- Freedom from Anxiety, Panic Attacks and Stress
- By: Nicola Bird
- Narrated by: Nicola Bird
- Length: 3 hrs and 48 mins
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For more than 20 years, Nicola Bird experienced anxiety and panic attacks, sometimes so severely she couldn't leave the house. She tried everything, including medication, psychiatric counselling, yoga, and NLP. Then she stumbled upon a completely different way of understanding the human mind that changed her relationship with anxiety forever. In A Little Peace of Mind, Nicola opens up about her own experiences and shares simple ideas to help you realize your own innate mental health and well-being.
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Best book on this topic available!
- By D. McCarthy on 10-10-19
By: Nicola Bird
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Natural Meditation
- A Guide to Effortless Meditative Practice
- By: Dean Sluyter
- Narrated by: Dean Sluyter
- Length: 8 hrs and 26 mins
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Whether you're a complete novice or you've "tried it before," veteran meditation teacher Dean Sluyter's relaxed, down-to-earth approach will help you test-drive a variety of meditative techniques, such as breath, sound, the senses, the sky, and the simple sense of "I" and discover which ones fit you best. You'll discover that the key to meditation is effortlessness and find all the practical tips you need for adapting these methods to your own life,as you live it, even for a few minutes a day.
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A voice as soothing as the text!
- By Bix Gomez on 05-05-15
By: Dean Sluyter
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Fear Less
- Living Beyond Fear, Anxiety, Anger, and Addiction
- By: Dean Sluyter
- Narrated by: Dean Sluyter
- Length: 10 hrs and 45 mins
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These days there's so much fear in the air, you can almost taste it - along with all the varieties of anxiety, anger, and addiction that grow out of it. How can you navigate your way through the fear and confusion, and find your way to peace? In Fear Less, acclaimed teacher and award-winning author Dean Sluyter shows how to use simple meditative techniques and subtle tweaks of body, mind, and breath to open your life to deep, relaxed confidence.
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Omfg this is so good!
- By Sergio on 05-10-18
By: Dean Sluyter
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Becoming Super Woman
- A Simple 12-Step Plan to Go from Burnout to Balance
- By: Nicole Lapin
- Narrated by: Nicole Lapin
- Length: 8 hrs and 38 mins
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It's time to stop putting yourself at the bottom of every to-do list and start taking care of yourself first. It's time to leave Superwoman in the movies, where she belongs, and say hello to being a super woman - the best, most productive version of the hero you already are.
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Easy Listen and advice that is actually useful
- By Sean E. Huie on 10-21-19
By: Nicole Lapin
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Happy Mind, Happy Life
- The New Science of Mental Wellbeing
- By: Dr. Rangan Chatterjee
- Narrated by: Dr. Rangan Chatterjee
- Length: 5 hrs and 16 mins
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During his twenty years as a GP, Dr. Rangan Chatterjee, author of the international bestseller Feel Better in 5, has seen first-hand that motivation isn't always enough for us to maintain a healthy lifestyle. It's only when we learn how to support our own mental wellbeing and cultivate core happiness that these choices become easy. In Happy Mind, Happy Life, Dr. Chatterjee shares cutting-edge insights into the science of happiness and reveals ten simple ways to put you back in control of your health.
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Ok
- By Anonymous User on 07-01-22
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Joy on Demand
- The Art of Discovering the Happiness Within
- By: Chade-Meng Tan
- Narrated by: Telly Leung
- Length: 7 hrs and 7 mins
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In Joy on Demand, Chade-Meng Tan shows that you don't need to meditate for hours, days, months, or years to achieve lasting joy - you can actually get consistent access to it in as little as 15 seconds. Explaining joy and meditation as complementary things that naturally reinforce each other, Meng explains how these two skills form a virtuous cycle and, once put into motion, become a solid practice that can be sustained in daily life.
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Distilled actionable mindfulness
- By R. Russell on 09-26-16
By: Chade-Meng Tan
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Make It Happen
- Manifest the Life of Your Dreams
- By: Jordanna Levin
- Narrated by: Jordanna Levin
- Length: 8 hrs and 34 mins
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Everyone can manifest. We're all doing it - every second of every day - without even realising it. For years, journalist and podcaster Jordanna Levin thought that she was psychic. She would worry about things and they would come true. But she wouldn't just worry, she would feel them, take subconscious action towards them and believe with every cell of her being that they would happen - and most of the time, they did. Until one day she changed the game. If she could manifest mishaps and disasters, why not the things she actually wanted?
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Changed my entire outlook
- By Rochelle Justine on 02-16-22
By: Jordanna Levin
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Happier Now
- By: Nataly Kogan
- Narrated by: Nataly Kogan
- Length: 6 hrs and 39 mins
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What if you could be happier, right now, without radically changing your life? As nationally recognized happiness expert Nataly Kogan teaches, happiness is not a nice feeling or a frivolous extra. It’s a critical, non-negotiable ingredient for living a fulfilling, meaningful, and healthy life - and it's a skill that we can all learn and improve through practice. In Happier Now, Nataly shares an illuminating, inspiring, and science-based guide to help you build your happier skills and live with more joy, starting now.
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This book will turn your life around ... TODAY!
- By Joe Barnhill on 06-04-18
By: Nataly Kogan
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Love Hurts
- Buddhist Advice for the Heartbroken
- By: Lodro Rinzler
- Narrated by: Lodro Rinzler
- Length: 2 hrs and 48 mins
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Buddhism has a lot to say about suffering - and there are likely few times we suffer more intensely than when we break up with a romantic partner. It feels like you may never recover sometimes. But Lodro Rinzler has wonderfully good news for those suffering heartbreak: The 2,500-year-old teachings of the Buddha are the ultimate antidote for emotional pain. And you don't need to be a Buddhist for them to apply to you.
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I agree...
- By Amazon Customer on 03-20-20
By: Lodro Rinzler
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Awakening Joy
- 10 Steps That Will Put You on the Road to Real Happiness
- By: James Baraz, Shoshana Alexander
- Narrated by: James Baraz, Shoshana Alexander
- Length: 13 hrs and 27 mins
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Joy is not for just the lucky few - it's a choice anyone can make. In this groundbreaking book, based on his popular course, James Baraz helps you discover a path to the happiness that's right in front of you, offering a step-by-step program that will reorient your mind away from dissatisfaction and distraction and toward the contentment and delight that is abundantly available in our everyday lives. You can decide to be happy.
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I listen to Awakening Joy over and over
- By Love Coach, Annette Carpien, PCC on 04-14-16
By: James Baraz, and others
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The Power of No
- Because One Little Word Can Bring Health, Abundance, and Happiness
- By: James Altucher, Claudia Azula Altucher
- Narrated by: James Altucher, Claudia Azula Altucher
- Length: 4 hrs and 54 mins
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"No" is sometimes the hardest word to say. It's also the most necessary. How many times have you heard yourself saying yes to the wrong things - overwhelming requests, bad relationships, time-consuming obligations? How often have you wished you could summon the power to turn them down? This program will help you take back your power by showing that a well-placed "No" can not only save you time and trouble, it can save your life.
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Some really bad advice...
- By Elton on 10-25-14
By: James Altucher, and others
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Make Peace with Your Mind
- How Mindfulness and Compassion Can Free You from Your Inner Critic
- By: Mark Coleman
- Narrated by: Mark Coleman
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
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The inner critic is the voice inside our heads reminding us that we are never "good enough". It's behind the insidious thoughts that can make us second-guess our every action and doubt our own value. The inner critic might feel overpowering, but it can be managed effectively. Meditation teacher and therapist Mark Coleman helps listeners understand and free themselves from the inner critic using the tools of mindfulness and compassion.
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Life changing!
- By Lisa Ackerman on 12-28-20
By: Mark Coleman
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- Eric Poole
- 04-14-20
Perfect Book for All That is Going On In the World
I have enjoyed listening to this book very much. Given all that is going on in the world right now, I have found that the advice and guidance provided in the chapters of the book have been a great way to be more grounded throughout the day. The authors have done a nice job and I have purchased some extra copies to give to friends and clients.
I also think that this would be a great book for young adults and college kids as it does provide some great advice to incorporate more good into your life. Better to learn these concepts earlier in life rather than later.
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- Gretchen J. Spartz
- 07-27-20
A must listen to & read!
My friend gave me a copy of this great little book and I enjoyed it so much that I got an audio version as well! I got even more out if it listening to Devon and Craig’s southing voices on my way to and from work. Although this was written pre-COVID19, it’s very relevant for these crazy times too.
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- Matthew Zepelin
- 04-25-20
A pitch-perfect self-help book
Funny, easy to listen to, and actually helpful. The authors strike a nice balance of entertaining anecdotes with insights drawn from Buddhism and psychology, and the practice exercises and guided meditations are great. One that's stuck with me is, "See the good." It's a practice to notice and accentuate what I am appreciating in this moment, and I've been doing it while washing my hands, "seeing the good" in the warm water from the tap.
I also really appreciate that the book doesn't pretend that all readers are the same, some kind of imagined generic average person. It shows real sensitivity to how racism, sexism, and other social differences factor into people's experience and therefore into how they might best practice with challenging situations. Although the tone is mostly light, with a heavy dose of sassy sarcasm, the authors show real depth of knowledge in terms of psychology and mindfulness research as well as Buddhist traditions and meditation practice. Highly recommended!
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- Beth Herzig
- 06-05-20
Tying it all together with simplicity, humor and authenticity
This book is a simple interpretation of the buddhist precepts. I’ve practiced meditation and also committed to the precepts at the many retreats I’ve attended.
I new what each precept mean by definition. This book showed me there is so much depth to each one.
Devon and Craig have a great audible presence. They take turns reading the chapters. Using scientific research, mindfulness practices and examples from their real life stories, they’ve explain concisely how these ancient teachings are still relevant. Everything explained is easy to understand, flows well and makes sense in the grand scheme of life. I wish this book was my first book on the path, because it’s relatable and not scary at all!
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- Eyal
- 12-25-22
Trivial advices mixed with feminist ideology
Nothing but trivial advice to be good, not to murder, or lie, plus tons of accusations against "patriarchy" and "consumerism" and general feminist femsplaining "yes means yes" etc.
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- D. Man
- 12-04-23
Ok
Frankly a yawn of a read. The subject seemed to be from a young inexperienced perspective and could have used a ghost writer to add depth and more in-depth fact based perspective to drawn me in to enjoy it.
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