
Love Your Enemies
How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt
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Arthur C. Brooks
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To get ahead today, you have to be a jerk, right?
Divisive politicians. Screaming heads on television. Angry campus activists. Twitter trolls. Today in America, there is an “outrage industrial complex” that prospers by setting American against American.
Meanwhile, one in six Americans have stopped talking to close friends and family members over politics. Millions are organizing their social lives and curating their news and information to avoid hearing viewpoints differing from their own. Ideological polarization is at higher levels than at any time since the Civil War.
America has developed a “culture of contempt” - a habit of seeing people who disagree with us not as merely incorrect or misguided, but as worthless. Maybe you dislike it - more than nine out of 10 Americans say they are tired of how divided we have become as a country. But hey, either you play along, or you’ll be left behind, right?
Wrong.
In Love Your Enemies, New York Times best-selling author and social scientist Arthur C. Brooks shows that treating others with contempt and out-outraging the other side is not a formula for lasting success. Blending cutting-edge behavioral research, ancient wisdom, and a decade of experience leading one of America’s top policy think tanks, Love Your Enemies offers a new way to lead based not on attacking others but on bridging national divides and mending personal relationships.
Brooks’ prescriptions are unconventional. To bring America together, he argues, we shouldn’t try to agree more. There is no need for mushy moderation, because disagreement is the secret to excellence. Civility and tolerance shouldn’t be our goals, because they are hopelessly low standards. And our feelings toward our foes are irrelevant; what matters is how we choose to act.
Love Your Enemies is not just a guide to being a better person. It offers a clear strategy for victory for a new generation of leaders. It is a rallying cry for people hoping for a new era of American progress. Most of all, it is a road map to arrive at the happiness that comes when we choose to love one another, despite our differences.
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America faces a new culture war. It is not a war about guns, abortions, or gays; rather it is a war against the creeping changes to our entrepreneurial culture, the true bedrock of who we are as a people. The new culture war is a battle between free enterprise and social democracy. Many Americans have forgotten the evils of socialism and the predations of the American Great Society's welfare-state programs.
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Right wing
- By John on 12-22-10
By: Arthur C. Brooks
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Love Your Enemies: 10th Anniversary Edition
- How to Break the Anger Habit & Be a Whole Lot Happier
- By: Sharon Salzberg, Robert Thurman
- Narrated by: Sharon Salzberg, Robert Thurman
- Length: 6 hrs and 59 mins
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When people and circumstances upset us, how do we deal with them? Often, we feel victimized. We become hurt, angry, and defensive. We end up seeing others as enemies, and when things don’t go our way, we become enemies to ourselves. But what if we could move past this pain, anger, and defensiveness? Inspired by Buddhist philosophy, this book introduces us to the four kinds of enemies we encounter in life.
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Inspired
- By Momma on 01-11-25
By: Sharon Salzberg, and others
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How to Know a Person
- The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
- By: David Brooks
- Narrated by: David Brooks
- Length: 7 hrs and 27 mins
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As David Brooks observes, “There is one skill that lies at the heart of any healthy person, family, school, community organization, or society: the ability to see someone else deeply and make them feel seen—to accurately know another person, to let them feel valued, heard, and understood.” And yet we humans don’t do this well. All around us are people who feel invisible, unseen, misunderstood. In How to Know a Person, Brooks sets out to help us do better, posing questions that are essential for all of us: If you want to know a person, what kind of attention should you cast on them?
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A book he was ready to write
- By Adam Shields on 11-17-23
By: David Brooks
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The Second Mountain
- How People Move from the Prison of Self to the Joy of Commitment
- By: David Brooks
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 12 hrs and 58 mins
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Author David Brooks explores the four commitments that define a life of meaning and purpose: to a spouse and family, to a vocation, to a philosophy or faith, and to a community. Our personal fulfillment depends on how well we choose and execute these commitments. Brooks looks at a range of people who have lived joyous, committed lives, and who have embraced the necessity and beauty of dependence. He gathers their wisdom on how to choose a partner, how to pick a vocation, how to live out a philosophy, and how we can begin to integrate our commitments into one overriding purpose.
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Pursue meaning, reject hyper-individualism
- By Adam Shields on 05-07-19
By: David Brooks
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Construye la vida que anhelas
- By: Oprah Winfrey, Arthur C. Brooks
- Narrated by: Adriana Galindo, Bobby Sánchez
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
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La felicidad no es la meta, y la infelicidad no es la enemiga. Es posible ser más feliz de lo que ya eres. Cuando todo en la vida va bien, es fácil confiar en el futuro; pero cuando nos sentimos estancados y sin motivación, parece que los días buenos jamás volverán. Oprah Winfrey y Arthur C. Brooks te enseñan a cimentar los pilares para una felicidad que no dependa de las circunstancias externas.
By: Oprah Winfrey, and others
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The Social Animal
- The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement
- By: David Brooks
- Narrated by: Arthur Morey
- Length: 16 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
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With unequaled insight and brio, David Brooks, the New York Times columnist and bestselling author of Bobos in Paradise, has long explored and explained the way we live. Now, with the intellectual curiosity and emotional wisdom that make his columns among the most read in the nation, Brooks turns to the building blocks of human flourishing in a multilayered, profoundly illuminating work grounded in everyday life.
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Finally!
- By Pamela Harvey on 03-13-11
By: David Brooks
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- Armand Angelina
- 04-08-19
should be required reading
what an amazing important book for these times. I would recommend it to anyone at all involved in politics.
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- Candace M
- 01-21-20
One of the best books, by far.
This is, by far, one of the best books I've "read". I honestly believe, as I use the infinite wisdom I've been given with this book, that I can help to make a difference. In myself and (at the very least) with them people I care about. I think that every American from every end of the political spectrum should hear what this author is saying. It's truly how we bring America back to the glory our founding fathers had dreamed of.
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- Robert M. Hardister
- 03-18-20
Not deep, but fundamental
This is a good book and much needed. A playbook for dealing with the toxic elements in our lives and engendering love and respect for our neighbors.
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- Brent
- 10-28-19
A Must Read for Every American Today
In a VERY divisive world such as ours, we need to take a look at how we interact with each other. Mr. Brooks lays out a very convincing argument as to why and how we should engage with those we don't agree with.
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- Justin Dillon
- 07-30-19
Everyone with a social media account should read this book
This is an absolutely wonderful book that everyone, regardless of their political affiliations, should read. It will give you practical advice for how to interact with people with whom you disagree and treat them with respect, not contempt. I honestly wish that before getting a Facebook or Twitter account, people were required to say they’ve read this book. It would make our world a much better place.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-20-24
Actionable ideas for creating unity and civil discourse
I appreciate the lessons, quotes and empirical data supporting the actionable ideas and reasoning for the need to overcome the culture of contempt and the call for unity.
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- seb3
- 02-27-25
The message
I liked his tone throughout the book of trying to eliminate contempt and illustrating the means to do so.
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- Chris
- 03-06-21
A guidebook for both sides of a opposing views
The title really says it all. Brooks uses logic, reason, data and compassion to make the Biblical argument. Good timing in today’s torn world.
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- Ann Neeb
- 01-11-20
An outstanding read & performance. Life-changing.
Arthur Brooks is humorous, yet brilliant. This s an book that anyone can apply the information to every area of life. Just outstanding. I listened to the audio & I have a friend with the book, so I want @ least the conclusion in print. It is a book to research, before passing it by.
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- Lenore
- 06-16-19
A necessary non-evil
if you're like me then you are getting sick of our society that continually manipulates media and finds ways to bash others on their political ideas or loyalties. Where you fall doesn't matter, we are all Americans (or not if you are interested in the American political culture today). Taking the time to listen to this book enlightens your most important weapon against contempt, YOU.
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