Sounds Fake but Okay
An Asexual and Aromantic Perspective on Love, Relationships, Sex, and Pretty Much Anything Else
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Kayla Kaszyca
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Sarah Costello
About this listen
'Somehow, over time, we forgot that the rituals behind dating and sex were constructs made up by human beings and eventually, they became hard and fast rules that society imposed on us all.'
An empowering guide to help aspec people become more confident in their identities and understand their relationships, by the hosts of the #1 podcast on asexuality.
True Love. Third Wheels. Dick pics. 'Dying alone'. Who decided this was normal?
Sarah and Kayla invite you to put on your purple aspec glasses - and rethink everything you thought you knew about society, friendship, sex, romance and more.
Drawing on their personal stories, and those of aspec friends all over the world, prepare to explore your microlabels, investigate different models of partnership, delve into the intersection of gender norms and compulsory sexuality and reconsider the meaning of sex - when allosexual attraction is out of the equation.
Spanning the whole range of relationships we have in our lives - to family, friends, lovers, society, our gender, and ourselves, this book asks you to let your imagination roam, and think again what human connection really is.
Includes exclusive 'Sounds Fake But Okay' podcast episodes.
©2023 Sarah Costello and Kayla Kaszyca (P)2023 Hodder & Stoughton LimitedListeners also enjoyed...
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- By akaMike on 10-10-20
By: Angela Chen
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Refusing Compulsory Sexuality
- A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture
- By: Sherronda J. Brown, Hess Love - foreword, Grace B Freedom - afterword
- Narrated by: Yu-Li Alice Shen
- Length: 6 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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The notion that everyone wants sex—and that we all have to have it—is false. It’s intertwined with our ideas about capitalism, race, gender, and queerness. And it impacts the most marginalized among us. For asexual folks, it means that ace and A-spec identity is often defined by a queerness that’s not queer enough, seen through a lens of perceived lack: lack of pleasure, connection, joy, maturity, and even humanity. In this exploration of what it means to be Black and asexual in America today, Sherronda J. Brown offers new perspectives on asexuality.
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Important and Insightful
- By E on 06-21-23
By: Sherronda J. Brown, and others
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Loveless
- By: Alice Oseman
- Narrated by: Billie Fulford-Brown, Elizabeth Schenk, Imogen Church
- Length: 10 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
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From the marvelous author of Heartstopper comes an exceptional YA novel about discovering that it's okay if you don't have sexual or romantic feelings for anyone...since there are plenty of other ways to find love and connection.
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This is my favorite book
- By Charlie Woodside on 03-08-22
By: Alice Oseman
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Radio Silence
- By: Alice Oseman
- Narrated by: Aysha Kala
- Length: 10 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
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Frances Janvier spends most of her time studying. Everyone knows Aled Last as that quiet boy who gets straight A's. You probably think that they are going to fall in love or something. Since he is a boy and she is a girl. They don't. They make a podcast. In a world determined to shut them up, knock them down, and set them on a cookie-cutter life path, Frances and Aled struggle to find their voices over the course of one life-changing year.
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Didn’t hate it, didn’t love it. It was just ok.
- By Amazon Customer on 03-25-20
By: Alice Oseman
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This Doesn't Mean Anything
- By: Sarah Whalen
- Narrated by: Ashley Clements
- Length: 10 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
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Spencer’s first semester at Ravens College is going surprisingly well. For starters, she actually likes her roommate, and soon finds herself settling into a routine of eating all her meals with the same two people, studying in the library with Nick, an upperclassman she finds only a little insufferable, and hanging out at the local coffee shop.
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So cute and refreshing!
- By Minichelle on 05-17-23
By: Sarah Whalen
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Polysecure
- Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
- By: Jessica Fern
- Narrated by: Jessica Fern, Eve Rickert, Nora Samaran
- Length: 7 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships.
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Insanely boring, poor audio quality & narration
- By shwiftyone on 03-29-21
By: Jessica Fern
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Ace
- What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex
- By: Angela Chen
- Narrated by: Natalie Naudus
- Length: 7 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
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What exactly is sexual attraction and what is it like to go through life not experiencing it? What does asexuality reveal about gender roles, about romance and consent, and the pressures of society? This accessible examination of asexuality shows that the issues that aces face - confusion around sexual activity, the intersection of sexuality and identity, navigating different needs in relationships - are the same conflicts that nearly all of us will experience.
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Thank you, Angela!
- By akaMike on 10-10-20
By: Angela Chen
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Refusing Compulsory Sexuality
- A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture
- By: Sherronda J. Brown, Hess Love - foreword, Grace B Freedom - afterword
- Narrated by: Yu-Li Alice Shen
- Length: 6 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
The notion that everyone wants sex—and that we all have to have it—is false. It’s intertwined with our ideas about capitalism, race, gender, and queerness. And it impacts the most marginalized among us. For asexual folks, it means that ace and A-spec identity is often defined by a queerness that’s not queer enough, seen through a lens of perceived lack: lack of pleasure, connection, joy, maturity, and even humanity. In this exploration of what it means to be Black and asexual in America today, Sherronda J. Brown offers new perspectives on asexuality.
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Important and Insightful
- By E on 06-21-23
By: Sherronda J. Brown, and others
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Loveless
- By: Alice Oseman
- Narrated by: Billie Fulford-Brown, Elizabeth Schenk, Imogen Church
- Length: 10 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
From the marvelous author of Heartstopper comes an exceptional YA novel about discovering that it's okay if you don't have sexual or romantic feelings for anyone...since there are plenty of other ways to find love and connection.
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This is my favorite book
- By Charlie Woodside on 03-08-22
By: Alice Oseman
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Radio Silence
- By: Alice Oseman
- Narrated by: Aysha Kala
- Length: 10 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Frances Janvier spends most of her time studying. Everyone knows Aled Last as that quiet boy who gets straight A's. You probably think that they are going to fall in love or something. Since he is a boy and she is a girl. They don't. They make a podcast. In a world determined to shut them up, knock them down, and set them on a cookie-cutter life path, Frances and Aled struggle to find their voices over the course of one life-changing year.
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Didn’t hate it, didn’t love it. It was just ok.
- By Amazon Customer on 03-25-20
By: Alice Oseman
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This Doesn't Mean Anything
- By: Sarah Whalen
- Narrated by: Ashley Clements
- Length: 10 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Spencer’s first semester at Ravens College is going surprisingly well. For starters, she actually likes her roommate, and soon finds herself settling into a routine of eating all her meals with the same two people, studying in the library with Nick, an upperclassman she finds only a little insufferable, and hanging out at the local coffee shop.
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So cute and refreshing!
- By Minichelle on 05-17-23
By: Sarah Whalen
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Polysecure
- Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
- By: Jessica Fern
- Narrated by: Jessica Fern, Eve Rickert, Nora Samaran
- Length: 7 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships.
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Insanely boring, poor audio quality & narration
- By shwiftyone on 03-29-21
By: Jessica Fern
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- Courtney
- 05-07-24
Amazing
This book came into my life at just the right time and I’m so thankful for it! It is truly a lifeline for any aro ace or if you are questioning. I can’t recommend this book enough!
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- Proudravenclaw55
- 06-23-24
Good read for those wanting to know more about the A-Spec life
I bought this book so I’d know more about the community and hear others experiences. It’s really was great to hear from some A-Spec folks on some harder conversations. They also have interviews from others in the community to try and throw a wider net to catch as many experiences as possible.
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- HairByJazzmica
- 04-23-24
Educational and Relatable
I really like that the girls dive past the basics of A-spec to really give the reader/listener a better insight of what this community of people experience. I also like that the challenge the reader to look at things from a new perspective. I identify as Ace and there were a couple moments where I had to really think about what was being said and had a new realization. One of which was about some Aloes.
I would recommend this book to any open-minded individual to give them a greater understanding of the world around them.
Thank you Sarah and Kayla for both, your podcast, and this book.
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