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Men, Women, and the Space Between Us
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Jennifer Finney Boylan
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What is the difference between men and women? Jennifer Finney Boylan, bestselling author of She’s Not There and co-author of Mad Honey with Jodi Picoult, examines the divisions—as well as the common ground—between the genders, and reflects on her own experiences, both difficult and joyful, as a transgender American.
Jennifer Finney Boylan’s She’s Not There was the first bestselling work written by a transgender American. Since its publication twenty years ago, she has become the go-to person for insight into the impact of gender on our lives, from the food we eat to the dreams we dream, both for ourselves and for our children. But Cleavage is more than a deep dive into gender identity; it’s also a look at the difference between coming out as trans in 2000—when many people reacted to Boylan’s transition with love—and the present era of blowback and fear.
How does gender affect our sense of self? Our body image? The passage of time? The friends we lose—and keep? Boylan considers her womanhood, reflects on the boys and men who shaped her, and reconceives of herself as a writer, activist, parent, and spouse. With heart-wrenching honesty, she illustrates the feeling of liminality that followed her to adulthood, but demonstrates the redemptive power of love through it all.
With Boylan’s trademark humor and poignancy, Cleavage is a sharp, witty, and captivating look at the triumphs and losses of a life lived in two genders. Cleavage provides hope for a future in which we all have the freedom to live joyfully as men, as women, and in the space between us.
A Macmillan Audio production from Celadon Books.
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"Jenny's honest, intense lived experience gives us a compassionate prism through which to see this changing world."—Jodi Picoult, #1 New York Times bestselling author
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“For those who have never felt at home at home—and that’s a lot of us these days—Jenny Finney Boylan’s story is a story of faith, hope, and, above all, love.”—Sandra Cisneros, author of The House on Mango Street
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The 13 chapters of The Art of War, each devoted to one aspect of warfare, were compiled by the high-ranking Chinese military general, strategist, and philosopher Sun-Tzu. In spite of its battlefield specificity, The Art of War has found new life in the modern age, with leaders in fields as wide and far-reaching as world politics, human psychology, and corporate strategy finding valuable insight in its timeworn words.
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The actual book The Art of War, not a commentary
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It’s 2006. After a string of rejections from men who tell her they could never, ever, ever see her “that way,” awkward third-grade teacher Micaela Blei signs up for a mysterious course called “The Divine Feminine,” and feels like she might have found the key to the perfect life. Turns out if you’re an A student, you can get an A in anything–including men. Pretty soon she’s learning to "conjure" her desires with vision boards, flirtations, and even a daring jumbotron viewing party for her, ahem ... "divine center."
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One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.
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Don’t bother
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put me right to sleep
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12 Months to $1 Million
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By cutting out the noise and providing a clear and proven plan, this road map helps even brand-new entrepreneurs make decisions quickly, get their product up for sale, and launch it to a crowd that is ready and waiting to buy. This one-year plan will guide you through the three stages to your first $1 million: the Grind (months 0-4), the Growth (months 5-8), and the Gold (months 9-12). If your goal is to be a full-time entrepreneur, get ready for one chaotic, stressful, and rewarding year. If you have the guts to complete it, you will be the proud owner of a million-dollar business.
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Good, but a Little Misleading
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The Daily Stoic
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Why have history's greatest minds - from George Washington to Frederick the Great to Ralph Waldo Emerson along with today's top performers, from Super Bowl-winning football coaches to CEOs and celebrities - embraced the wisdom of the ancient Stoics? Because they realize that the most valuable wisdom is timeless and that philosophy is for living a better life, not a classroom exercise. The Daily Stoic offers a daily devotional of Stoic insights and exercises, featuring all-new translations.
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Best Audiobook I Ever Listened To
- By Sam Clear on 07-13-17
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- AMY SCHROEDER
- 02-21-25
Author's honesty
I follow Jennifer Finney Boylan and love all her books. Today I pray for her and all trans people in pur world. Peace to all.
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- Jeanie B. Wallenstein
- 03-04-25
The poetry of Jenny’s prose. And the poignancy.
I’m an upper middle-class east-coast white 67 year old Transwoman. What’s not to like?
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- James Quinn
- 02-15-25
A marvelous kaleidoscope
I was a regular reader of Ms Boylan’s columns in the Times, so I was already well-acquainted with her prose and many of her points of view. What I didn’t know until I listened to this book was that she and I were raised as virtual neighbors at near opposite ends of Philadelphia’s Main Line (albeit a few years apart), and that as youngster she attended the Haverford School, my alma mater's CHIEF Inter-Ac League rival.
That aside, I thoroughly enjoyed and attempted to empathize with her emotional roller coaster of a ride through a life that, as a hopelessly straight old male WASP, I could only marvel at and loudly applaud without fully understanding.
What finally I came away with, though, was the utter conviction that her book should be required reading for all those self-proclaimed Christian/conservative legislators who think that the complexities of human sexuality can be so reduced to some binary certainty that they cannot countenance and must denigrate and deny anyone who sees it any other way. How could anyone fail to appreciate the emotional and intellectual honesty and richness of a life so well, thoroughly, and thoughtfully lived?
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- Peggy Mason
- 03-15-25
Good story, then preachy and tedious
It started out well but by the end I was so sick of being preached at and told how to feel within a narrow narrow range. Started to devolve at TERF. So holy. Name calling achieves nothing.
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- Dansk Ridder
- 03-12-25
Beautiful listen
I hope that soon Society will move past lies and fear and embrace each other for who each Person is. Cleavage is beautifully written and narrated.We are all Human Beings. ❤️
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- Etoile NEOhio
- 02-16-25
A good follow-up to "She's Not There"
Jennifer Finney Boylan continues sharing her life's journey and fills in some of the background we've not heard before. Where "She's Not There " ends with the author’s life having become "Maddy" to her young sons, this book beings with those children grown and embarking on their own paths. Ms Boylan discusses aging as a trans- woman as well as what it means for women to age. Where the first book was written in the era of society's exploration and educational period on transgender issues, this one has been released during a time of backlash and insane new rules and laws that only serve to humiliate folks the MAGA right doesn't even try to understand. Ms Boylan confronts these difficult times head on and without apparent fear. - I had a little trouble with the seemingly chapters as essays format and there is some repetition her editor should have corrected for, but generally a solid 4 Stars from me and an important book if you really want to learn and understand. Education is the key to unlocking the box the fearful right cling to so fiercely. Why in the name of Cleavage do they care more about what is between one's legs than what is in one's heart and mind?
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- stacey a shapiro
- 03-26-25
Someday there may be no gender
what a treasure this whole experience was to enjoy and what a privilege to be looking at the world through Jennifer's eyes.
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