In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, host Nicky Yazbeck welcomes Whitney Erwin, an international Holistic Health Practitioner, Clinical Herbalist, and Ayurvedic Strategist with over 23 years of experience in yoga and holistic health. As the founder of Four Seasons Harmony Holistic Health, Healing & Ayurveda, Whitney is passionate about helping women navigate chronic hormonal imbalances, reduce pain, and restore vibrant energy through natural remedies. Her trauma-informed approach to healing is bolstered by her extensive education, including an MSc in Clinical Herbal Medicine and collaborations with the EMU Strategies for Trauma Awareness and Resilience (STAR) Program.

Nicky and Whitney delve into the transformative world of aromatherapy and essential oils, exploring the importance of quality sourcing, safe application techniques, and the art of blending oils for enhanced therapeutic benefits. They discuss common misconceptions surrounding essential oils, emphasizing the significance of education and safety, especially regarding internal use. Whitney shares insights into the spiritual and intuitive aspects of using essential oils, along with practical applications like herbal baths and Yoni steaming, which promote women’s health.

Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how aromatherapy can support emotional and physical balance, foster self-awareness, and contribute to a holistic approach to wellness, ultimately leading to a healthier and more vibrant life.

Takeaways:

• Aromatherapy can be a deeper practice than just using oils.
• Holistic health is about long-term sustainable healing.
• Quality of essential oils is crucial for their effectiveness.
• Citrus oils can be phototoxic and should be used cautiously.
• Blending essential oils can create synergistic effects.
• Different oils can serve various emotional and physical needs.
• Education is key to safely using essential oils. Aromatherapy is supported by extensive scientific research.
• Intuition plays a crucial role in selecting essential oils.
• Different essential oils can have varying effects on mood and energy.
• Herbal baths can be a powerful form of self-care.
• Yoni steaming is beneficial for postpartum recovery.
• Essential oils possess inherent antibacterial and antiviral properties.
• The practice of aromatherapy can deepen self-awareness and intuition.
• Exploring aromatherapy can be a lifelong journey of discovery.

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Connect with Whitney:

https://www.fourseasonsharmony.com/free-health-trainings

https://www.instagram.com/whitney_fourseasonsharmony/

https://www.facebook.com/fourseasonsharmony/

https://www.youtube.com/@WhitneyErwinFourSeasonsHarmony

Keywords: aromatherapy, essential oils, holistic health, misconceptions, quality, internal use, diffusing, application techniques, blending, aromatherapy, essential oils, floral essences, herbal baths, Yoni steaming, holistic health, women's health, intuition, wellness, natural remedies

In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, host Nicky Yazbeck sits down with Amber Tolbert, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, experiential psychotherapy practitioner, and energy healer trained in Holy Fire Reiki. Amber is also the founder of The Healing Collective, and she shares her expertise on the complexities of codependency, discussing how it often stems from generational trauma and manifests in various types of relationships. Together, Nicky and Amber explore the differences between empathy and codependency, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of emotional health in fostering independence and healthier connections.

The conversation dives into parent-child dynamics, touching on how survival states, shame, and guilt can impact personal growth and relationships. Amber explains the process of reparenting oneself with compassion and breaking cycles of dysfunction, emphasizing that healing and recovery are lifelong journeys. With her background in experiential psychotherapy and energy healing, Amber brings a holistic perspective to the discussion, offering valuable insights into emotional awareness, creating new patterns, and fostering self-acceptance in the pursuit of balanced and fulfilling relationships.

Takeaways:

• Codependency is often rooted in generational trauma.
• Empowerment is key to healing from codependency.
• Codependency can manifest in various relationships, not just romantic ones.
• All or nothing thinking is a sign of codependency.
• Understanding the intention behind codependency can aid in healing.
• Self-awareness is crucial in identifying codependent behaviors.
• Empathy is different from codependency; it's about responsibility for others' feelings.
• Healing requires a supportive community and connection.
• Children can be naturally empathic, which can lead to codependent dynamics.
• Recovery involves finding balance and self-acceptance. Expressing feelings teaches children how to feel.
• It's unrealistic to expect to be okay all the time.
• We recreate familiar patterns, not desired ones.
• Survival states hinder awareness and connection.
• Shame and guilt can trap us in negative cycles.
• Reparenting involves treating ourselves with compassion.
• Healing is a lifelong journey, not a quick fix.
• Building new neural pathways requires consistent effort.
• Emotional safety is crucial for healthy relationships.
• Recovery includes accepting all parts of ourselves.

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Connect with Amber:

https://www.the-healingcollective.com/

https://www.facebook.com/p/amber-tolbert-100005524728009/

https://www.ambertolbertconsulting.com/?fbclid=IwY2xjawGN8NJleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHZkCpi9mQsBzIrnv0vhqYdX5K29-2CRiAMuZVPOpYpBdOOimatvoIok6Sw_aem_vHC5lfND1-C3ZFyOKOT8HQ

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Keywords:

codependency, relationships, healing, emotional health, trauma, self-awareness, empathy, family dynamics, mental health, recovery, parenting, emotional awareness, family dynamics, personal growth, dysfunction, relationships, shame, guilt, reparenting, recovery

In this episode of the Connected Community Podcast, Nicky Yazbeck and Christina discuss the significance of embracing awkward conversations as a means of personal growth. They explore the challenges of people-pleasing, the importance of nervous system regulation, and strategies for handling difficult responses. The conversation emphasizes the value of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and the necessity of taking breaks during heated discussions. Christina shares practical tips for navigating these conversations, including the use of 'I' statements and the importance of validating feelings, even when disagreements arise. In this conversation, Christina and Nicky explore the complexities of communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of intention, self-reflection, and setting boundaries. They discuss the challenges of navigating awkward conversations, the impact of power dynamics, and the significance of radical honesty. The dialogue highlights the need for grace and understanding in both personal and professional interactions, ultimately advocating for deeper connections through authentic communication.

Takeaways:

• Growth lies in having awkward conversations.
• People pleasing creates disconnection from ourselves.
• Regulating the nervous system is crucial for tough talks.
• Release expectations of the outcome in conversations.
• It's okay to take breaks during heated discussions.
• Labeling feelings can create space in conversations.
• Emotions are messengers that can teach us.
• Use 'I' statements to express feelings without blame.
• Validating others' feelings is essential for connection.
• Relationships may change as we embrace authenticity.
• Putting communication skills into practice is challenging.
• Awkward conversations are necessary for personal growth.
• Intention behind our words can deepen relationships.
• Self-compassion is crucial when learning to communicate.
• Understanding different perspectives is key to connection.
• Addressing hurtful interactions requires self-awareness.
• Power dynamics can complicate communication.
• Setting boundaries is essential for self-care.
• Radical honesty fosters authenticity in relationships.
• Honoring ourselves and others leads to healthier connections.

Connect with me:

https://nickyYyoga.com

https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity

support@nickyYyoga.com

Connect with Christina:

Instagram: @yourjourneybacktoself

Website: https://www.yourjourneybacktoself.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Journey-Back-to-Self/100094440079144/

Linked in: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/christina-wong-45b41473

Keywords: awkward conversations, personal growth, emotional intelligence, communication skills, self-awareness, nervous system regulation, handling conflict, emotional waves, feedback, relationships, communication, relationships, boundaries, self-reflection, radical honesty, intention, intimacy, power dynamics, personal growth, emotional intelligence

In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, host Nicky Yazbeck sits down with Craig Meriwether, a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, Medical Hypnosis Specialist, and founder of Arizona Integrative Hypnotherapy. With over 12 years of experience, Craig has worked with a diverse range of individuals, from veterans with PTSD and cancer patients managing pain to entrepreneurs, athletes, and children facing anxiety and trauma. His unique approach to healing combines clinical hypnotherapy and neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) to help people overcome deep-seated emotional blocks and limiting beliefs, empowering them to reach their full potential.

Craig begins by explaining the nature of hypnosis, dispelling common myths and clarifying the difference between clinical hypnotherapy and stage hypnosis. He emphasizes that the hypnotic state is a natural experience everyone enters regularly, often without realizing it—whether it’s daydreaming, becoming absorbed in a book, or drifting off before sleep. According to Craig, hypnosis taps into this natural state, allowing individuals to access their subconscious mind, where deep healing can occur.

The discussion delves into how hypnosis can be a powerful tool for releasing trauma and managing anxiety. Craig shares his insights on the role of intention and imagination in hypnosis, highlighting how the mind’s focus during these states can facilitate healing. He outlines practical techniques for stress management, including mindfulness practices and visualization exercises, which can help individuals rewire negative thought patterns and promote emotional resilience.

Craig emphasizes that the subconscious mind holds immense power for self-healing, and with the right tools, individuals can learn to harness this potential to transform their lives. The episode concludes with a discussion on how hypnosis can safely address trauma without re-traumatization, offering a gentle yet effective pathway to recovery.

Takeaways:

• Hypnosis is a method for releasing trauma and managing anxiety.
• The hypnotic state is a natural experience everyone goes through daily.
• Intention plays a crucial role in the effectiveness of hypnosis.
• People often hypnotize themselves without realizing it.
• Mindfulness can help break negative thought patterns.
• Self-hugging can stimulate the release of oxytocin and improve mood.
• Visualization techniques can aid in overcoming fears and anxieties.
• Hypnosis can be a safe way to address trauma without re-traumatization.
• The subconscious mind is powerful and can facilitate self-healing.
• Practicing positive mental imagery can rewire the brain for success.

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https://nickyYyoga.com

https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity

support@nickyYyoga.com

Connect with Craig Meriwether CHT-CMS

https://arizonaintegrativehypnotherapy.com/l

https://aceanytest.com/

https://www.youtube.com/@aceanytest

https://www.facebook.com/AceAnyTest

https://www.instagram.com/ace_any_test/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/craig-meriwether-44286718b/

Keywords: hypnosis, trauma healing, neuro-linguistic programming, anxiety management, self-healing, clinical hypnotherapy, medical hypnosis, mental rehearsal, emotional well-being, subconscious mind

In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, host Nicky Yazbeck welcomes Julia Davis, a yoga teacher, author, and expert in circle holding. Together, they explore the art and significance of circle holding, discussing its role in fostering community, connection, and personal growth. Julia shares practical tips on creating successful circles, managing group dynamics, and ensuring inclusivity for all participants. From handling dominant personalities to using silence as a tool, the conversation is filled with valuable insights for those looking to start or enhance their circle-holding practice. Julia also highlights the power of rituals and rites of passage, drawing from her years of experience in the yoga community and her passion for building supportive spaces. Julia also provides practical advice for those looking to start their own circles and emphasizes the value of community and connection in personal growth.

Takeaways:

• Circle holding is about creating intentional spaces for sharing.
• Successful circles require clear intentions and guidelines.
• Managing dominant personalities is crucial for inclusivity.
• Time management is essential for effective circle facilitation.
• Inclusivity can enhance the experience for all participants.
• Starting your own circle can be empowering and fulfilling.
• Silence can be a powerful tool in group settings.
• Activities can help lift quieter voices in circles.
• It's important to create a safe space for vulnerability.
• You don't need special skills to start a circle.

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https://nickyYyoga.com

https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity

support@nickyYyoga.com

Connect with Julia:

https://www.circleholding.org/

https://www.yogateachersforum.org/

https://www.instagram.com/circle_holding_/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/julia-davis-37376b45/

https://www.facebook.com/julia.davis.5815

Keywords: Circle Holding, Community, Inclusivity, Group Dynamics, Facilitation, Personal Growth, Support Groups, Emotional Safety, Connection

In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, host Nicky Yazbeck speaks with Natalie Jovanic, a Master Therapeutic Counselor, trauma recovery coach, author, and podcast host. Together, they delve into the powerful world of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy. Natalie explains how EMDR can be a transformative tool for trauma recovery and loss integration, emphasizing the need for safety and trauma-informed care before starting the process.

They also explore the importance of parts work and somatic approaches, which help individuals reconnect with fragmented parts of themselves, especially in the context of childhood trauma. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how trauma can vary between individuals and the crucial role of a trusting, empowering therapist-client relationship.

Key Takeaways:

• EMDR is a powerful tool for trauma and loss, but pre-work and safety are essential.

• Parts work helps integrate fragmented experiences from trauma.

• Trauma-informed care is critical for effective healing.

• Grounding techniques and self-soothing practices support nervous system regulation.

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https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity

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Connect with Natalie :

https://brighthorizontherapies.com/

https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/

https://www.facebook.com/BrightHorizonTherapies/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/nataliejovanic/

Keywords: EMDR, trauma therapy, parts work, mental health, healing, trauma-informed care, emotional regulation, counseling, personal stories, mental health resources

In this episode, host Nicky Yazbeck is joined by Dr. Jesseca Tighe, a career and leadership coach with over 20 years of experience as a healthcare executive. Dr. Tighe, who holds a Ph.D. in Psychology, shares her expertise on burnout, helping leaders and professionals transition through tough career phases, rediscover vitality, and find purpose. Together, Nicky and Dr. Tighe break down the complexities of burnout—an official ICD-11 diagnosis—and discuss how recognizing and addressing it can lead to a more fulfilling career and life.

The conversation covers the three types of burnout (frenetic, under-challenged, and worn-out), signs and symptoms to watch for, and how fear and stress manifest in the body. Dr. Tighe highlights the importance of creating boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and navigating career changes with courage. The episode also explores how a “dopamine detox” can help professionals manage time more effectively and reduce stress.

Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their career satisfaction, take bold steps toward what brings them fulfillment, and establish non-negotiable boundaries for a healthier work-life balance.

Takeaways:

• Burnout has an ICD-11 diagnosis and is classified as an occupational phenomenon.
• There are three types of burnout: frenetic, under-challenged, and worn out.
• Work cultures often reward high levels of stress and imbalance.
• Creating boundaries is essential for managing work-life balance.
• Burnout symptoms include exhaustion, mood changes, and physical ailments.
• Self-care is crucial for healing from burnout.
• Dopamine detox can help manage time and reduce stress.
• Fear can be a motivating factor in making career changes.
• It's important to assess what is not working in your career.
• Finding fulfillment often requires moving towards something new rather than away from something old.

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https://nickyYyoga.com

https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity

support@nickyYyoga.com

Connect with Jesseca:

www.soulutionsforhealth.com

https://www.facebook.com/jessecatighe

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jesseca-tighe

Keywords: burnout, career change, work-life balance, self-care, mental health, coaching, stress management, emotional processing, leadership, healthcare

In this episode, host Nicky Yazbeck and guest Christina Granahan, an Enneagram-informed therapist, coach, and licensed social worker, explore the Enneagram as a powerful tool for self-awareness, personal growth, and improving relationships. Christina explains how the Enneagram offers a unique framework for understanding unconscious behaviors, emphasizing how knowing your type can support emotional intelligence and stress management.

Listeners will learn about the Enneagram's nine personality types, each with its own strengths and challenges, and how tapping into these insights can lead to personal and spiritual healing. The episode also delves into the role of shadow work in the Enneagram, helping us confront the parts of ourselves we tend to hide or overlook.

Christina encourages listeners to take the Enneagram test, learn about their energy centers, and reflect on how understanding these aspects can improve not only their relationships but also their overall well-being.

Takeaways:

• The Enneagram is a tool for self-discovery and understanding others.
• We are born with a type that influences our personality.
• Personal growth often comes from exploring our shadows.
• The Enneagram can reveal our blind spots and help us grow.
• Understanding our type can improve our relationships.
• Each type has its strengths and challenges that can be addressed through awareness.
• Self-honesty is crucial for effective use of the Enneagram.
• The Enneagram helps us see the whole truth of our experiences.
• Engaging with the Enneagram can lead to deeper connections with ourselves and others.

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https://nickyYyoga.com

https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity

support@nickyYyoga.com

Connect with Christina:

https://christinagranahan.com/

https://www.instagram.com/granahancoaching/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinagranahan/

Keywords: Enneagram, personality types, self-discovery, personal growth, relationships, coaching, psychology, spiritual tool, emotional intelligence, self-awareness