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The Empathy Deficit: Rebuilding Human Connection in an Angry, Divided World By Dr. Richard L. Travis In a culture fueled by outrage, echo chambers, and digital disconnection, one essential human trait is quietly vanishing: empathy. In The Empathy Deficit, psychotherapist Dr. Richard L. Travis offers a compelling guide to understanding why empathy is breaking down—and how to bring it back. Blending science, storytelling, and practical tools, this book helps readers rediscover the courage to listen, repair, and connect in a divided world. Whether you're a parent, educator, partner, leader, ...

Anger is a message. Are you ready to hear what your child is really trying to say? Whether it shows up as yelling, shutting down, eye-rolling, or refusal to engage, anger in teens and pre-teens is more than just a behavior problem—it's a form of communication. And behind it is often a child who feels overwhelmed, misunderstood, or powerless. In this compassionate and practical guide, psychologist Dr. Richard L. Travis helps parents move beyond punishment and power struggles to understand the root of their child’s anger. With real-life examples, updated research, and easy-to-apply tools,...

Are you constantly seeking approval from others, struggling to feel truly worthy without external validation? Do you find yourself trapped in a cycle of self-doubt, anxiety, or emotional exhaustion from trying to please everyone around you? In "Validation Addiction: Please Make Me Feel Worthy," psychotherapist Dr. Richard L. Travis offers profound insights into the phenomenon of validation addiction—a compulsive need for external approval that masks deeper emotional wounds. With compassion and clarity, Dr. Travis helps you understand the roots of this condition, recognize the patterns ...

Wounded Healers: Addiction and Recovery in the Medical Profession By Dr. Richard L. Travis A compassionate, solution-focused guide to the silent epidemic of addiction in healthcare—and the path to healing for those who give so much to others. Doctors. Nurses. Pharmacists. EMTs. Therapists. Medical students. They’re trained to care for others—but who cares for them? In this timely and powerful book, psychotherapist and speaker Dr. Richard L. Travis explores the hidden crisis of addiction among healthcare professionals. Drawing on real-life stories, current research, and over two ...

You're not broken. You're neurodivergent—and you're not alone. More adults than ever are discovering they have ADHD, autism, dyslexia, OCD, and other forms of neurodivergence—often after years of feeling “off,” misunderstood, or exhausted from trying to fit in. Neurodivergent Adults: Thriving with ADHD, Autism, and More in a Neurotypical World is a practical, compassionate guide to understanding your brain, breaking free from shame, and building a life that truly works for you. Written by psychotherapist and fellow neurodivergent Richard L. Travis, this book is packed with real-life...

Aging in the Digital Era: Empowering Seniors in a Rapidly Changing World is your practical, encouraging guide to thriving in today's fast-moving technology landscape. Written with warmth, humor, and wisdom, this book offers real-world solutions to help seniors connect, create, and stay safe online—without feeling overwhelmed or left behind. Inside, you'll discover how to: Master essential digital skills like email, video calling, and safe internet browsing Protect yourself from online scams, frauds, and identity theft Build rich social connections through Facebook, Zoom, and virtual ...

Are you worried your teen might be using drugs or alcohol? You’re not alone—and there is hope. In this fully updated 2025 edition, Dr. Richard L. Travis offers a compassionate, research-driven guide for parents navigating the terrifying reality of substance use in children as young as 10. With powerful real-life examples, up-to-date statistics, and an abundance of practical tools, this book is a lifeline for families in crisis. Inside, you'll discover: The latest trends in teen drug use, including vaping, fentanyl, and social media influence How to spot early warning signs—behavioral,...

Your child’s self-esteem starts with your support. In a world where likes, comparisons, and unrealistic standards dominate your child’s screen and mind, how do you help them believe they are enough? Overcoming Self-Esteem Problems in Teens and Pre-Teens is a compassionate and empowering guide for parents who want to help their child develop a strong, lasting sense of self-worth. With warmth, wisdom, and up-to-date tools for the digital age, Dr. Richard L. Travis takes you on a journey through the emotional world of today’s youth—and shows you how to meet them there. Inside, you’ll...

Navigating Truth in an Age of Disinformation: How to Stay Informed, Empowered, and Resilient We live in a time when the line between fact and fiction has never been blurrier. Disinformation spreads faster than truth, trust in institutions is eroding, and emotional manipulation is just a click away. But you don’t have to feel powerless. In Navigating Truth in an Age of Disinformation, you’ll learn: Why our brains are wired to believe falsehoods How social media algorithms fuel outrage and division The real-life consequences of misinformation in health, politics, and society Global ...

Digital Detox: Break Free, Focus More, Live Better Are you always online—but rarely present? Constantly plugged in—but quietly burned out? You’re not alone. In a world wired for distraction, Digital Detox offers a practical and inspiring roadmap back to clarity, creativity, and connection. Whether you're scrolling through social media late at night, overwhelmed by work emails, or watching your kids disappear into their devices, this book delivers the tools you need to unplug from tech—and plug back into life. With personal stories, neuroscience-backed insights, and powerful tools ...

Can a gay man find a friend to trust? Can he find a date, or even a partner? Are there healthy gay relationships out there? Are most gay men only partiers and not really emotionally available? What about trans men, bisexuals, and gender fluid people? Gays are entitled to have good, healthy friendships and good healthy relationships. Many gay men have felt they have been perceived as "damaged goods" and therefore act out in self-abusive ways by choosing inappropriate or emotionally unavailable men to date or befriend. This book helps identify personality characteristics or behaviors that get...

Your child’s self-esteem starts with your support. In a world where likes, comparisons, and unrealistic standards dominate your child’s screen and mind, how do you help them believe they are enough? Self-Esteem in Teens and Tweens: A Modern Parent’s Roadmap is a compassionate and empowering guide for parents who want to help their child develop a strong, lasting sense of self-worth. With warmth, wisdom, and up-to-date tools for the digital age, Dr. Richard L. Travis takes you on a journey through the emotional world of today’s youth—and shows you how to meet them there. Inside, ...

This book follows several gay men in a book club over many years of reading spiritual and psycho-spiritual books. In their search for peace and love in this world, they followed many authors and many of the books that they studied and read are discussed within. Also, a brief history of homosexuality in the world and the history of homosexuality in religions across the world are contained within this e-book. Many of the books had a great impact on the lives of the gay men in this book club, and some of the key points to these books can be found within.

Say What? Suggestions on What to Say in Almost Every Difficult — and Joyful — Situation by Dr. Richard L. Travis What do you say when someone is grieving? When a friend is celebrating a big success? When you don't know the right words but still want to show you care? Say What? is your compassionate guide to navigating life's emotional moments — with wisdom, kindness, and confidence. Dr. Richard L. Travis, a seasoned psychotherapist, offers heartfelt suggestions for almost every situation: loss, illness, weddings, divorce, coming out, job loss, graduations, financial windfalls, ...

Disconnected Youth: Why Teens are Struggling and What We Can Do About It is a compassionate, solution-focused guide to one of the most urgent challenges of our time. Drawing on decades of experience as a psychotherapist, Dr. Richard L. Travis explores the complex emotional realities facing today’s youth—loneliness, anxiety, identity struggles, social media pressure, and disconnection from adults and community. This practical and hopeful guide includes: Real-life stories from teens, parents, and educators Links to TED Talks, YouTube videos, and mental health resources Proven tools for ...

Friendship isn’t effortless—but it’s essential. In Friendships Need Work, Too, Dr. Richard L. Travis invites readers to rethink how we show up for the people who matter most—friends, siblings, even family members who could become friends again. Whether your relationships have quietly drifted, ruptured with hurt, or simply feel stuck, this compassionate guide offers a path toward reconnection, repair, and deeper belonging. Inside, you’ll learn how to: Reconnect with friends you’ve lost touch with Navigate conflict and awkward silences Maintain closeness in busy seasons of life ...

**Completely updated December/2016** In today’s world we are faced with wars in the Middle East, terrorist attacks around the world, mass murders and shootings even in the United States. The tragedies and traumas of today are far more violent than what used to shock us. Yet each trauma is felt and responded to differently by different people. This book explains the kinds of tragedies, traumas, and losses that we might experience in our lives. It also spells out the effects these losses have on us, whether physical, emotional, social, or academic. Tragedy, trauma, and loss that are ...

*****Completely Updated in 2025***** Breaking the Silence: LGBTQ+ Addiction, Recovery, and Hope is a compassionate and comprehensive guide to understanding addiction through an LGBTQ+ lens. Drawing on current research, real-life stories, and culturally competent practices, this book explores the unique challenges queer individuals face—including trauma, shame, family rejection, and internalized stigma—and how these often fuel addiction. You'll find affirming approaches to treatment, insights on co-occurring disorders, guidance for finding safe recovery spaces, and healing tools such as ...

The Shadow Self: Healing What We Hide by Dr. Richard L. Travis explores the profound yet often hidden aspects of our personalities known as the Shadow. Drawing from Jungian psychology, emotional integration techniques, and holistic healing practices, this book provides readers with practical guidance on uncovering, understanding, and integrating their Shadow self. Dr. Travis illuminates how unaddressed emotions, repressed experiences, and ignored personal truths influence our lives, relationships, and sense of self-worth. Through compassionate insight, real-life examples, and actionable ...

How to be Human Online: A Guide to Digital Etiquette and Empathy in the Age of Screens) We live online now more than ever—but are we really showing up as our best selves? In a world shaped by social media, comment threads, and Zoom calls, it’s easy to forget there’s a human being behind every screen. How to Be Human Online is your essential guide to navigating the digital world with kindness, clarity, and emotional intelligence. Whether you're replying to emails, commenting on posts, dating via apps, or participating in group chats, this book offers practical strategies and thoughtful...