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Alone Together

Why We Expect More from Technology and Less from Each Other

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Alone Together

By: Sherry Turkle
Narrated by: Laural Merlington
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Consider Facebook - it's human contact, only easier to engage with and easier to avoid. Developing technology promises closeness. Sometimes it delivers, but much of our modern life leaves us less connected with people and more connected to simulations of them.

In Alone Together, MIT technology and society professor Sherry Turkle explores the power of our new tools and toys to dramatically alter our social lives. It's a nuanced exploration of what we are looking for - and sacrificing - in a world of electronic companions and social-networking tools, and an argument that, despite the hand-waving of today's self-described prophets of the future, it will be the next generation who will chart the path between isolation and connectivity.

©2011 Sherry Turkle (P)2011 Tantor Content Creation & Social Media History & Culture Technology & Society Technology Thought-Provoking

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"Turkle's prescient book makes a strong case that what was meant to be a way to facilitate communications has pushed people closer to their machines and further away from each other." ( Publishers Weekly)
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I would recommend this book to anyone who plans on living with computers and their progeny. (That's just about anyone breathing) ESPECIALLY parents of young children and those planning new families. One of the most interesting parts of the book is the effects of technology and high tech toys on children. Another fascinating subject is the effects of Facebook, other social networking sites, and mobile computing devises on teens. This was one of the most informative and interesting books I've read so far this year, (I read 3 or 4 books a week) A very good narrator who kept the story going. Crisp and insightful! Well done, 5 stars!

EXCELLENT!

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Sherry Turkle cites in great detail several case studies she's done with people interacting with robots, toys, and social media and then gives her own commentary. For example, while the tech industry is asking "How can we take care of our elderly with robots?", Turkle stubbornly pushes the questions "Should we be doing this? What qualities do human interaction give that can't be replaced by a robot? Are we teaching the robots how to care for the elderly? Or are we teaching people to prefer the care of robots? What is the trade off when you replace a human care-giver with a robot?"

I don't agree with everything Turkle argues, but I still found it insightful. She has gotten a lot of praise AND criticism for this book, and has proven there is a price for raising the question of morality and ethics in tech design. While I understand the objections, I think her findings are important, and should be standard reading for anyone work in the tech field.

After all, shouldn't ALL tech designers approach their work with a conscience?

The "bad" of the book is this: She goes into FAR TOO MUCH explanation to be considered a casual read, and FAR TOO MUCH commentary to be considered an academic work. She really could have made the same point in 4 hours – not 14. This is the first time I'd ever recommend an abridged version (if one exists).

Important work, but far too long

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I’ve been a fan of Sherry Turkle’s work for many years now. This book is an excellent summation of some of her research and the 2000s. Listening to it in 2019, one sees how quickly technology changes. At this point, kids were still enamored with Facebook… Nowadays, Facebook is for the old people :-) but I think her insights are still very very relevant. It is a bit chilling to consider how far, how dehumanized and depersonalized we have become in our relationships with one another, as our interaction becomes more and more mediated by technology. Since the writing of her book, things have increased even more… Comment flaming , emojis etc ... folks like Jaron Lanier has since come out against social media ... we continue down the slippery slope of depersonalization as we hide behind technologies. Yet, we long for personal relationships in contact, to hold things in our hands that are real, and not just digital facsimiles. I am part of this analog revolution I suppose… Even as I listen to the book in my car streaming through Audible, and dictate these comments on my phone. Lord help us to not let technology over power our humanity.

Insightful though dated

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And it shows. The technology discussed dates back 10 years prior to that.
Halfway through the much too long analysis of Furbies, I had to skip ahead. I’m sure at the time this was all very good knowledge, thought-provoking, even. Now, in the age of AI and more, it seems kind of cringe-worthy. It isn’t until halfway through the book where mobile devices are even mentioned. Even there, the prevalence of blackberries can be distracting. Do younger people even know what that is?
Still some of this is prescient, hinting at a future containing chatGPT, not to mention the soul-crushing loneliness involved in being part of an attention-starved world where the goal is never attained.
Merlington does a fine job with the material and at times seems a fitting voice for some of the older tech.
I recommend this book despite all that, because while the technology has moved way beyond MyLifeBits and blackberries, the themes have not changed much.

This Book is 12 Years Old

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To read this ten years latter and to hear Sherry insight then is chilling. This is a must read.

Sherry is an oracle and we are fortunate.

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·EMF*D: 5G, Wi-Fi & Cell Phones: Hidden Harms and How to Protect Yourself by Joseph Mercola

·Death by 5G: An Advanced Guide to Population Reduction Techniques by Louise Steele

·Earthing: The Most Important Health Discovery Ever? By Clinton Ober, Martin Zucker, and Stephen Sinatra

Definitely worth listening to....

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Enjoyable because even though it was written early in 20th Century and relates to present day in quite an accurate way. You can see the progress we have made since then and we are even more dependent on device and apps then we have been before. We are becoming more so as more and more virtual toolkits are being integrated every day and even the smartphone which are ever more intelligent are becoming a huge part of day to day life.

Progression of Society of Robots and apps.

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get this to learn and understand techo-optimists' delusions.

all her stuff is great! and paired with nicholas carr's work is fantastic!

corrective to tech boosterism!

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I made it to the end, but I’d considered ending early if I didn’t get to some information about smartphones. This book is a little too old to have sufficient data on the topic, and it gives way more detail than the average academic person wants to know about robots, dolls, and antiquated social media sites.

Too much…

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I am a fan of the topic, but I have a hard time listening to this book given the reader's voice, tone, and prosody. Since she is reading a book that is in first person, I'm connecting the author with the reader... and drawing a bad impression of the author (unfortunately). I'm fighting it, but it is so automatic.

Reader's Voice Grates

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