Bonds That Make Us Free
Healing Our Relationships, Coming to Ourselves
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C. Terry Warner
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C. Terry Warner
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Life can be sweet. Our relationships with friends, spouses, colleagues, and family members can be wonderfully rewarding. They can also bring heartache, frustration, anxiety, and anger. We all know the difference between times when we feel open, generous, and at ease with people versus times when we are guarded, defensive, and on edge. Why do we get trapped in negative emotions when it's clear that life is so much fuller and richer when we are free of them?
Bonds That Make Us Free is a groundbreaking book that suggests the remedy for our troubling emotions by addressing their root causes. You'll learn how, in ways we scarcely suspect, we are responsible for feelings like anger, envy, and insecurity that we have blamed on others. (How many times have you said, "You're making me mad!")
Even though we fear to admit this, it is good news. If we produce these emotions, it falls within our power to stop them. But we have to understand our part in them far better than we do, and that is what this remarkable book teaches. Because the key is seeing truthfully, the book itself is therapeutic. As you listen and identify with the many true stories of people who have seen a transformation in their lives, you will find yourself reflecting with fresh honesty upon your relationships. This will bond you to others in love and respect and lift you out of the negative thoughts and feelings that have held you captive. You will feel your heart changing even as you listen.
"It would not be accurate to describe this book as supplying the truths upon which we must build our lives," writes author C. Terry Warner. "Instead it shows how we can put ourselves in that receptive, honest, and discerning condition that will enable us, any of us, to find these truths on our own."
Finding these truths is the key to healing our relationships and coming to ourselves, and Bonds That Make Us Free starts us on that great journey.
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In Ten Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships, Dr. Laura Schlessinger calls for a return to traditional courtship. Courtship allows couples and their families to get acquainted with each other over a longer period of time, and provides structure and guidelines for that important process.
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No brainer ideas that we can forget
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The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers
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- By: Meg Meeker M.D.
- Narrated by: Karen White
- Length: 10 hrs and 7 mins
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Friendship. Simplicity. Love. Value. Faith. Solitude. Money. Fear. Hope. Purpose. Dr. Meg Meeker has seen mothers struggle with these 10 issues for the past 25 years, and she has also learned how to help them live less stressful, happier, more fulfilling lives. The Ten Habits of Happy Mothers will show women how to reduce loneliness, anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem by inspiring women to embrace more positive emotions and habits.
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Recommend the book but had hard time listening to
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By: Meg Meeker M.D.
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Codependent No More
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Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to a loved one’s self-destructive behavior, you may be codependent—and you may find yourself in this book. With personal reflections, exercises, and instructive stories drawn from Beattie’s own life and the lives of those she’s counseled, Codependent No More helps you break old patterns and maintain healthy boundaries, and offers a clear and achievable path to healing, hope, freedom, and happiness.
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great book with unbearable reader
- By Nielah on 09-01-22
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When Your Best Isn't Good Enough
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Some people feel they don't measure up to anyone's expectations. As a result, they tend to procrastinate, set unrealistic goals, or continually try to please others. With the positive, no-nonsense strategies offered in When Your Best Isn't Good Enough, listeners can raise their low self-perception and overcome these feelings of rejection and inadequacy.
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Therapy
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Changes That Heal
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Many of us struggle with anxiety, loneliness, and feelings of inadequacy. We know that God created us in his image, but how can we be loving when we feel burned out? How can we be free when we struggle with addiction? Will we ever enjoy the complete healing God promises? Combining his professional expertise and personal experience, renowned psychologist Dr. Henry Cloud guides us through four basic ways to become joy-filled, mature followers of Christ.
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Terrible production, excellent book
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Perhaps one of the biggest issues all women face is their own insecurity. Beth Moore, one of today's most admired and trusted Christian writers, wants women to be free from the insecurity trap. So Long, Insecurity will strike a chord with women everywhere, as Beth speaks truth into the lives of listeners, showing them how to deal with their innermost fears, rediscover their God-given dignity, and develop a whole new perspective.
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AMAZING!
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Should I Stay or Should I Go?
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In this supportive and straightforward guide, Lundy Bancroft, the author of Why Does He Do That?, and communication specialist JAC Patrissi offer a way for women to practically take stock of their relationships and move forward, with or without their partners.
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Paradigm Shift
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Love Is a Choice
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- By: Dr. Robert Hemfelt, Dr. Frank Minirth, Dr. Paul Meier
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In Love Is a Choice, best-selling doctors Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier walk you through their 10 proven stages to recovery from codependency that results from external circumstances. Humans are susceptible to codependency because of our sinful tendency to use defense mechanisms to fool ourselves. In codependent relationships, deceitful games are played, and important Christian principles are often taken out of context and abused.
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Great book, horrible Performance
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Get out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior
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Practical, proven self-help steps show how to transform 40 common self-defeating behaviors, including procrastination, envy, obsession, anger, self-pity, compulsion, neediness, guilt, rebellion, inaction, and more.
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Nothing new
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How to Act Right When Your Spouse Acts Wrong
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Experience the blessings of an imperfect marriage. We all - at one time or another - have opportunities to act right when our spouses act wrong. There are no perfect marriages or perfect spouses. We know that having a good marriage requires effort and hard work. Yet we often don't know how to continue to love when we are angry, hurt, scared, or just plain irritated. Nor are we sure what that kind of love is supposed to look like.
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If your married get this book now.
- By ChrisChan on 06-07-18
By: Leslie Vernick
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- Talia Earl
- 12-29-23
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This audio book inspired and informed me of the kind of change I want. Not of my situation, family, friends, or my past. A change of heart. It beautifully illustrates the value and difference a change in heart can make through true story’s and examples in other peoples lives. I am so glad my boss not only encourages us as a team to read these Abridger books but she also exemplifies their teachings. The two great commandments in the bible and Book of Mormon never made more sense then after listening to this book. I am seeing in my own life that loving God and loving others is more dependent on my heart then on my head. It’s really difficult to keep a soft heart when my first reaction to most life experiences which can be uncomfortable and painful is to harden it. There is a principle in Buddhism that teaches that there are different kinds of suffering, but the worst kind is self inflicted. It’s not talking about our mistakes that hurt us but our narrative of our lives and our perception of the people around us is what causes the deepest suffering. In corrie ten booms book “the hiding place” she describes stories from helping the Jews escape to being put in a concentration camp with her family after being caught. Her angel sister died while remaining calm and gentle. She saw terrible things sad ways people treated people but learned how to have happiness despite her hardships and learn life changing lessons in love and forgiveness. There are so many stories in scripture and history were people in physical bondage found truth that set them free from and internal bondage that grips us all. Truth and kindness set our hearts free and faith puts our mind at ease. I am so great full for all the time and thought put into this audiobook, it is truly freeing and I hope to seek that change of heart that makes all the difference in loving honestly. If your seeking for more truth and light here you will find it:) worth it 💯
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- Myranda Holgerson
- 07-02-21
Finished... and listening again...
FANTASTIC... uniquely insightful into human nature while showing we are capable of much more than most of our society believes. These concepts need to be understood, applied, and shared... by *everyone*. I plan to continue to study and apply within my own sphere of influence.
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- Wayne Tillery
- 04-06-21
Life changing!
Loved it! The principles taught in this book have the power to heal the world!
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- David Atteberry
- 03-15-24
slow read
started out super slow but got better as the book went on if you can get through the first few chapters it's well worth it
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- Map Man
- 09-04-24
Great stuff
I have begun to learn a great deal from this book. I look forward to going through the book time and time again
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- Pie Konchar
- 08-19-20
Inspiring!
This book is unlike any I have ever read (or heard) in that the examples really hit home and make you think of how you handle situations and then how you can handle them better. I loved the analogy of the weed only being killed by getting to it's deep recesses. Just pulling up what we see is not effective. It's time to get to the very root causes of my self-deception and grow into the man I'm meant to become.
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- Marlo Bramwell
- 01-29-21
guide book to TRUE HAPPINESS!
the best book ever for changing ones own behavior and in turn seeing other with new eyes. guide book to TRUE HAPPINESS!
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- james geddes
- 06-06-22
so greatful for this book in my life ❤
this book has been life changing all the way through can't wait to implement it and perfect it more into my life!
thank you thank you thank you
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- Raine
- 07-31-20
Skeptical
I was skeptical going into this but at the end I felt I was a changed person. The information within can help you to realize that you CAN change and gives you practical tools and means to conduct and maintain that change.
One of the few Audiobooks that I have bought and kept and will listen to again and again
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- Audrey Moore
- 04-10-21
A true wrestle, and so rewarding. take the journey
Truth, responsibility, love. a true formula for joy and healing. A great interactive book. thank you
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