
Build Your Village
A Guide to Finding Joy and Community in Every Stage of Life
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Florence Ann Romano
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In this easy-to-follow self-help manual sprinkled with relatable stories, Florence Ann Romano introduces the six roles commonly found in villages and provides a road map to help the listener build their own support systems.
Everyone has heard the phrase, “It takes a village,” but how exactly do we find our village? Who is in it and what does it look like? Rethinking the relationships in your life, you may realize that even if you have a calendar filled with social plans, you still might not have your “village”.
In Build Your Village, philanthropist and businesswoman Florence Ann Romano answers these questions and more, helping you to build lasting relationships with those in your life, dispel isolation, and improve your overall happiness and health. Each chapter helps you to foster the villager qualities within yourself and to find others who display these qualities. From identifying the six types of villagers needed to complete a fully functional village to what to do when you’ve lost your community, this book serves as a step-by step guide complete with quizzes, gut-check questions, and action steps as you learn the importance of support systems as well as how to nurture them and find meaningful connections.
Your village is waiting. Now it’s time to go and find it.
©2022 Florence Ann Romano (P)2023 Florence Ann RomanoListeners also enjoyed...
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- David Hirsch
- 11-12-23
Great Read
Florence Ann puts a new spin in the importance of building a village beyond raising children and about the need to be intentional.
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- Corinne Kampe
- 03-10-23
So relatable on so many levels
This book is so relatable and has so many points that will resonate with people in our current society. Everyone needs a village and this is an amazing blue print
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