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His Needs, Her Needs

By: Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.
Narrated by: Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.
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Time after time, His Needs, Her Needs has topped the charts as the best-selling marriage book available. In this classic book, Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the 10 most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to make their marriage sizzle by satisfying those needs in their spouses. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to conflict and even extramarital affairs.

Join those who have seen spectacular changes in their marriages by following Dr. Harley's tried and proven counsel. You will discover that an outstanding marriage can be more than a dream - it can be your reality.

©1986, 1994, 2001 Willard F. Harley, Jr. (P)2020 One Audiobooks
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Loved it

My husband and I both heard this book at our own pace and we learned very useful information that I wish I would’ve learned when we first got married 17 years ago. So I recommended it to a relative and friends.

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Very comprehensive

I consider it the best guidebook among all the information available in all platforms. Thanks doc!

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good information despite being dated

A great program with go
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Very good for couples understanding expectations of their partners

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Sould read this book in the first year of marriage

Practical, helpful guidelines for a great marriage. Didn't disagree with anything. Not all of these things are easy to do but if you work on them, your marriage will be the best it can be.

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Well thought out and practical

Enjoyed listening to this so practical and the examples made the content easier to consume. highlight was the love bank concept it clearly articulates how I feel when my partner earns or looses points by not meeting my emotional needs.

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Realistic and relevant

I heard this author recommended by Bobby Schuller. It is slow at times because the author explains things thoroughly. Realistic, detailed personal experiences, and solution focused.

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LOOOVE THIS BOOK!!

I absolutely LOVE this book. I would recommend this to everyone, especially if you’re in a relationship and even before you’re married as it also gives you things to think of and to better prepare yourself for marriage. It offers perspective on BOTH ends and before you’re done you already have a great understanding of how your significant other might think and the reason they may behave the way they do. This would actually make a great wedding gift too for your friends and family. Thanks to this book, I have a renewed appreciation for my significant other and have figured out ways in which I can best apply the suggestions provided in the most effective way.

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Valuable Resource! A must read for EVERYONE.

This book is truly a blessing for all people who read it. Having bought a softcover copy years ago, It’s wonderful that now I can listen to it. It gives valuable insight into the needs both husband and wife have in a marriage. Most importantly, it walks you through on how to identify your own needs, explains thoroughly and thoughtfully with real life examples, and emphasizes the importance of transparency and communication, I believe this is one of those books that we should all take time to read and apply to our own personal lives. I recommend it wholeheartedly.

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clearest, most prescriptive marriage-help book

I've read many marriage books. and none have explained the difference between a man and a woman's needs as much as Dr. Harley has here. not only do i feel i understand my wife more, but i now have specific instructions on what I can do better. I don't like how he used the negative aversion of an affair through his cautionary tales of sultry infidelity to motivate people to be better spouses. But I understand that most of his exposure to marital issues was through the lens of clients who were in the midst of affairs.

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Great for singles or married

I enjoyed the reader (played at 1.45x speed) which is important for an e-book. Helpful tips, difficult learning experiences (examples), and practical advice make this a great book. I would gift to all singles, engaged, or married persons.

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