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  • How to Get What You Want

  • Building Assertiveness So You Can Live Life on Your Terms
  • By: Martin Durham
  • Narrated by: David Van Der Molen
  • Length: 56 mins
  • 5.0 out of 5 stars (22 ratings)

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How to Get What You Want

By: Martin Durham
Narrated by: David Van Der Molen
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If you struggle to stand up for yourself—to pursue what you want—then you need this audiobook.

Short but sweet, this audiobook will guide you to understanding your own history so that you can build the future you want. It is part of a course available through my website (thedietzmethod.com) that is intended to help you break old habits, discard beliefs and attitudes that hold you back, and create a mindset that is truly your own.

©2022 Martin Durham (P)2022 Michael Misiti
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Uplifting words!

I've learned a lot to communicate more effectively! I'm serious..this audiobook gives you tools to help you learn the art of communication! Well-narrated.

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An excellent audiobook.

Wonderful book, very informational and helpful! It takes time to study, but it is an awesome book if you are ready to go through the process of improving your habits and tendencies.

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Quick and good listen.

A lot of good, straight to the point strategies. I’ll have to listen again to help me actually use them as I struggle with assertiveness!

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Motivational and impactful!

Sometimes we have goals that are hard to reach, so hard in fact that it takes forever to get motivated to reach them.

Luckily this book breaks down your goals into each to reach challenges so that you get motivated and finally pursue your dreams and an aggressive and assertive fashion. It finally gets you off your feet to live life the way you truly desire.

The narration quality is also top notch, which helps keeps the book engaging throughout.

Overall super happy to have listened through this one and I recommend it to anyone looking to achieve goals.

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This book is a great tool!

This audiobook is a great tool and does help. You have to do the work as prescribed or you really will just waste your time. It provides amazing strategies for Build Assertiveness. If you need help in this area get the book and use it, it is very helpful.

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Use assertiveness effectively

The audiobook is incredible. I've learned need was to communicate more effectively! I'm serious. This book gives you tools to help you learn the art of communication!

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Fascinating and Interesting!

My cousin suggests that I grab this book. I'm tempted to recommend this book to people in my life but that may be offensive to them.

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Literal and Helpful

I was surprised. Most how to be a better person books are full of themselves, pretty lofty and laughable. This How to take control of your life by changing yourself on the inside is a refreshing take on getting your power back. It is a literal how to guide to get your confidence, relaxing in it and doing an honest self evaluation to keep your power. Very well done.

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A Motivating Listen

Some time ago, I remember learning two very important lessons: make no excuses as well as take ownership of all that you do and that you are the leader of your life. Speaking more in the context of what one could become in when it comes down to reaching full potential for the future, one can always learn from their past, take rightful criticism as a means to improve, and strive to get better. Everyone might always see the world through their own personal lens and while it doesn't speak for everybody, the general rule stays the same. This book was a motivating listen that should be recommended to anyone starting out in the world and a desire to better their lives.

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Reversing Negative Patterns

Wonderfully written book with the beginning teaching on how to reverse all of the negative aspects of early childhood teachings. It is not a simple thing to push aside all of the teachings that taught you to bow down or not stand up for yourself but it is well worth it to learn confidence and assertiveness if you want to succeed in life whether it be financially, romantically or both. I recommend this book if you like self help books because you really will learn something new about yourself.
I received this book for free upon my request but it has no bearing on my honest unbiased review that I am voluntarily leaving of my own volition.

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