
Is It Abuse?
A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims
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Darby Strickland
About this listen
For years, biblical counselor Darby Strickland has served women in oppressive marriages. Now she writes to anyone who wants to help, regardless of their level of experience.
You will learn how to identify the toxic entitlement that drives abusive behavior and to better understand its impact on victims - including children who are raised in a home with domestic abuse. Ultimately, you will become equipped to provide wise and Christ-centered counsel and to empower and advocate for victims while navigating the complex dynamics of oppression in a marriage.
©2020 Darby A. Strickland (P)2021 eChristianListeners also enjoyed...
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I, a man, bought this book because the author was praised by someone at the gospel coalition as having incredible insight to all forms/variations of abuse, and not just physical abuse. Before even getting into the very first chapter it is explained that this book is gender by design.
To say I am heartbroken by this is an understatement. To be so focused on making men that bad guys, based on one aspect of abuse, is so obtuse that I found it hard to even make it through this book entirely. To seemingly absolve women of their own sinful capacity to abuse in a wide variety of ways is incredibly jarring and inexcusably wrong, damaging, and divisive. The author should really rethink this approach.
In the end, the author is continuing a narrative that men are not victims, that women are to be taken more seriously than men, which results in few men ever being taken seriously in these circumstances.
The quality of the audiobooks production is the only reason this has more than 1 star.
A sexiest approach to the topic
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