
Loving with the Brain in Mind
Neurobiology and Couple Therapy
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Wendy Tremont King
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Human brains and behavior are shaped by genetic predispositions and early experience. But we are not doomed by our genes or our past. Neuroscientific discoveries of the last decade have provided an optimistic and revolutionary view of adult brain function: People can change. This revelation offers hope to therapists and to couples seeking to improve their relationship. Loving With the Brain in Mind explores ways to help couples become proactive in revitalizing their relationship. It offers an in-depth understanding of the heartbreaking dynamics in unhappy couples and the healthy dynamics of couples who are flourishing.
Sharing her extensive clinical experience, Mona Fishbane gives us insight into the neurobiology underlying couples' dances of reactivity. Understanding neurobiology can transform your clinical practice with couples and help you hone effective therapeutic interventions.
This book aims to empower therapists-and the couples they treat-as they work to change interpersonal dynamics that drive them apart. Understanding how the brain works can inform the therapist's theory of relationships, development, and change. A gifted clinician and a particularly talented neuroscience writer, Dr. Fishbane presents complex material in an understandable and engaging manner.
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- Russell
- 12-09-24
Amazing for connecting w my partner
Such a thoughtful breakdown of the science behind what happens in an argument with a partner. Love it, will recommend to any couple struggling to find connection and empathy, great non judgmental starting ground for more thoughtful convos.
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