
Stuck
Why We Can't (Or Won't) Move On
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Narrated by:
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Susanna Burney
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By:
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Anneli Rufus
About this listen
Tracing the many ways in which American culture conspires to keep us stalled, Rufus delivers a long-awaited diagnosis for our day and age. But there is a light at the end of the tunnel (at least for some): Rufus also tells the stories of people who managed to become unstuck or of others who, after much reflection, decided that where they are is best. After all, she says: "What looks to you like paralysis, looks perhaps to another like passion. What looks to you like a rut, others might say is true absorption in a topic, a relationship, a career, a pursuit, a place. What looks to you like boredom, others call commitment. even contentment." A rare glimpse into what truly motivates - or doesn't motivate us - Stuck inspires readers to take a look at themselves in an entirely new light.
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What would have made Stuck better?
Less preaching and more enlightening.Has Stuck turned you off from other books in this genre?
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I liked the cover and the title.Any additional comments?
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I feel stuck having read this
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