
The Entitlement Trap
How to Rescue Your Child with a New Family System of Choosing, Earning, and Ownership
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Sandra Burr
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Number-one New York Times–bestselling authors Richard and Linda Eyre have spent the last twenty-five years helping parents nurture strong, healthy families. Now they’ve synthesized their vast experience into an essential blueprint for instilling children with a sense of ownership, responsibility, and self-sufficiency.
At the heart of their plan is a “Family Economy”, complete with a family bank, checkbooks for the kids, and a system of initiative-building responsibilities that teaches children to earn money for the things they want. The motivation carries over to ownership of their own decisions, goals, and grades in school. The Eyres’ guiding principles set a pattern for helping kids to proactively pursue their potential and internalize values that will stay with them forever.
With The Entitlement Trap in hand, parents can:
- Teach children how to work for what they want
- Spur enthusiasm about responsibility in unmotivated children
- Cultivate values of discipline, integrity, and self-reliance in their families
- Foster smart, economically savvy children
Anecdotal, time-tested, and gently humorous, The Entitlement Trap has been called “the thinking parent’s answer to the Tiger Mother.” It challenges some of the sacred cows of parenting and replaces them with solid principles and practices.
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Critic reviews
This book seems to have it all! But in one word..
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Would you consider the audio edition of The Entitlement Trap to be better than the print version?
I purchased the book after listening so I can take notes.This is a great book.
Best parenting book I have ever read.
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What about Sandra Burr’s performance did you like?
Nice voice! However, MUST listen at 1.25x speed, otherwise its too slow.What insight do you think you’ll apply from The Entitlement Trap?
I especially liked the economic system where children earn their money instead of getting a handout (allowance). I can see how this will be beneficial, so children won't always expect a handout their entire life (aka welfare & food stamps).Any additional comments?
I did notice several "plugs" for other products the authors have put out. While this book is a great tool to get started, there is still more info to be learned from these authors. For example, their preschool program and several of their other books.Great resource for setting up family system
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Best Parenting Book Ever!
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Where does The Entitlement Trap rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?
The best parenting book so farWho was your favorite character and why?
N/AWhat didn’t you like about Sandra Burr’s performance?
To preachy. Sounded like I was getting a lecture from my mother at times.Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?
N/AGreat content but narrator was preachy
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Most comprehensive GOOD parenting book
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Must listen to!!
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Must have parenting tool! The earlier,the better.
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Required Reading for ALL Parents!!
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