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  • The Failures of Forgiveness

  • What We Get Wrong and How to Do Better
  • By: Myisha Cherry
  • Narrated by: Tracey Conyer Lee
  • Length: 7 hrs and 6 mins
  • 2.3 out of 5 stars (3 ratings)

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The Failures of Forgiveness

By: Myisha Cherry
Narrated by: Tracey Conyer Lee
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Philosopher Myisha Cherry teaches us the right ways to deal with wrongdoing in our lives and the world

Sages from Cicero to Oprah have told us that forgiveness requires us to let go of negative emotions and that it has a unique power to heal our wounds. In Failures of Forgiveness, Myisha Cherry argues that these beliefs couldn’t be more wrong—and that the ways we think about and use forgiveness, personally and as a society, can often do more harm than good. She presents a new and healthier understanding of forgiveness—one that will give us a better chance to recover from wrongdoing and move toward “radical repair.”

Cherry began exploring forgiveness after some relatives of the victims of the mass shooting at Emanuel A.M.E. Church in Charleston, South Carolina, forgave what seemed unforgiveable. She was troubled that many observers appeared to be more inspired by these acts of forgiveness than they were motivated to confront the racial hatred that led to the killings. That is a big mistake, Cherry argues. Forgiveness isn’t magic. We can forgive and still be angry, there can be good reasons not to forgive, and forgiving a wrong without tackling its roots solves nothing. Examining how forgiveness can go wrong in families, between friends, at work, and in the media, politics, and beyond, Cherry addresses forgiveness and race, canceling versus forgiving, self-forgiveness, and more. She takes the burden of forgiveness off those who have been wronged and offers guidance both to those deciding whether and how to forgive and those seeking forgiveness.

By showing us how to do forgiveness better, Failures of Forgiveness promises to transform how we deal with wrongdoing in our lives, opening a new path to true healing and reconciliation.

©2023 Myisha Cherry (P)2023 Recorded Books
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"[Narrator] Tracey Conyer Lee...performs with sincerity and never misinterprets the thematic shifts in this outstanding guide. As the author of a previous book on anger, Myisha Cherry offers many useful insights on how forgiveness intersects with the emotions and circumstances of various types of transgressions and hurtful behavior." (AudioFile)

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I was hoping for more on forgiveness in personal relationships. This seemed more of a textbook and social commentary. Not bad, just not what I expected. I didn’t enjoy the narrator. Her voice was clipped and forceful. It seemed out of context for a book on forgiveness.

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This audio book had to be sped up to get through. It was repetitive and heavy handed.

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